狠狠暗恋
-Yeah, the first season, we -- I had a major crush on Jen.Friends: The Reunion · 2021 — 第 23 / 25 章 · 3'55" · B2
自曝第一季互相暗恋：two ships passing
重聚现场，两人自曝第一季曾经互相暗恋，却像 two ships passing（有缘无分），因为总有一个人正谈着恋爱，谁都没越界。聊到戏里罗斯和瑞秋那场初吻，一句 This ship has sailed（机会已错过）把错过说得又狠又酸；对方回一句 had no right to（没权利）更把旧账翻了出来。想聊暗恋和错过，这几句最好用。
发生了什么
这是重聚特辑里最劲爆的一段。两人承认拍第一季时互相有好感：一句 I had a major crush on Jen（狠狠地暗恋你），对方回 It was reciprocated（那是互相的），可他们像 two ships passing（有缘无分），因为总有一个人在谈恋爱，we never crossed that boundary（我们从没越过那条界）。聊完还放了戏里罗斯和瑞秋初吻那场：一方质问 had no right to（没权利）说出口，另一方冷冷一句 This ship has sailed（机会已错过）。想聊暗恋、错过、翻旧账，这段的表达最到位。
这场戏看什么
- 暗恋如何接到剧中初吻
- 两人互相推责你怎么不早说
- 船的比喻从错过说到驶离
留意这几个短语
This ship has sailedtwo ships passinghad no right tomajor crush on
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two ships passing
像两艘擦肩而过的船；有缘无分
两位演员说当年彼此喜欢，却因为总有一方在恋爱而一再错过。
We kept missing each other, like two ships passing.我们总是一再错过，像两艘擦肩而过的船。
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- This ship has sailed
船已经开走了；机会已经错过
- had no right to
没有权利；不该
- major crush on
对……特别迷恋；狠狠地暗恋
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major 收尾的 r 一卷，紧接着 crush 的 /kr/ 直接顶上；crush 末尾的 /ʃ/ 顺进 on，听上去像一整块，重音压在 ma- 上。
-Yeah, the first season, we -- I had a major crush on Jen.非常喜欢
we were both crushing hard on each other, but it was like two ships passing像两艘擦肩而过的船；有缘无分
两位演员说当年彼此喜欢，却因为总有一方在恋爱而一再错过。
we were both crushing hard on each other, but it was like two ships passingships 的 p 与 passing 相接时几乎吞掉。
we were both crushing hard on each other, but it was like two ships passing狠狠喜欢；强烈暗恋——口语说非常喜欢某人；正式场合可改说暗恋。
we were both crushing hard on each other, but it was like two ships passing在谈恋爱
because one of us was always in a relationship.越过那条界
So -- And we never crossed that boundary.一般过去时否定：never 加过去式表示过去一直没有做过某事。这里强调那条界线他们始终没越过，语气很确定，也很克制。
So -- And we never crossed that boundary.尊重那条线
You know, we respected that.扯淡；胡说——粗口否认对方的话，只适合熟人朋友之间；正式场合禁止使用。
And -- but we both -- -Bullshit.太扫兴了
"It's going to be such a bummer if the first time you and I全国电视
actually kiss is gonna be on national television."果然
Sure enough, first time we kissed was in that coffee shop. -Hang on, so --咖啡店
Sure enough, first time we kissed was in that coffee shop. -Hang on, so --Sure 结尾的 r 顺着接住 enough 开头的元音，两个词像一块推出来，中间别断；重音落在 -nough 上。
Sure enough, first time we kissed was in that coffee shop. -Hang on, so --让谁脑子炸了
-Is this blowing anyone else's mind?咖啡店
-That scene in the coffee house when their first kiss,简直能摸到
The tension, it was just palpable.好演员
I'm so glad you guys didn't because I don't know -- well, you would've just been great actors.虚拟语气：would've 是 would have 的口语缩写，表示对过去的假设。这里在开玩笑说，你们当时要是真在一起，大概也只是演技好而已。
I'm so glad you guys didn't because I don't know -- well, you would've just been great actors.那一幕真了不起
But, man, that was something. -Yeah, we were really just not great actors.没有权利；不该
罗斯怪瑞秋不该把当年对他动过心这件事告诉他。
-You had no right to tell me you ever had feelings for me.对我动过心
-You had no right to tell me you ever had feelings for me.for 常弱化为 /fə/，轻轻带过；feelings 收尾的 /z/ 直接接上它，三个词均成三拍，整块听起来像 feelings-for-me。
-You had no right to tell me you ever had feelings for me.知道……的事
-What? -I was doing great with Julie before I found out about you.早该说
-Well, then you should have said something before I met her.为什么
And how come you never said anything to me?一起玩
-Right, because you only had a year and we only hung out every night.总有别的事挡着
You know, and it's not like I didn't -- I didn't try, Rachel, but things got in the way,说到点子上
And do you even have a point?船已经开走了；机会已经错过
角色说自己已经有了别人、过得很好，用这句话表示一切都晚了。
Okay? I'm happy. This ship has sailed.现在完成时：ship has sailed 用现在完成时，表示机会已经错过、无法挽回。它是一个很形象的固定说法，比直接说太晚了更有余味。
Okay? I'm happy. This ship has sailed.ship 与 has 连读，has sailed 一气带过。
Okay? I'm happy. This ship has sailed.机会已经错过了——口语和书面皆可，形容为时已晚。
Okay? I'm happy. This ship has sailed.把感情收起来
You can just sort of put away feelings or whatever the hell it was that you felt for me?不管到底是什么
You can just sort of put away feelings or whatever the hell it was that you felt for me?从九年级开始
-Hey, I've been doing it since the ninth grade.练得相当拿手
I've gotten pretty damn good at it.吓了一跳看见
When she looks up, she's startled to see Ross at the door staring back at her.对视着
They hold each other's gaze.看懂「自曝第一季互相暗恋」
发音重点
- a major crush on — major 收尾的 r 一卷，紧接着 crush 的 /kr/ 直接顶上；crush 末尾的 /ʃ/ 顺进 on，听上去像一整块，重音压在 ma- 上。
- two ships passing — ships 的 p 与 passing 相接时几乎吞掉。
- Sure enough — Sure 结尾的 r 顺着接住 enough 开头的元音，两个词像一块推出来，中间别断；重音落在 -nough 上。
- feelings for me — for 常弱化为 /fə/，轻轻带过；feelings 收尾的 /z/ 直接接上它，三个词均成三拍，整块听起来像 feelings-for-me。
Okay? I'm happy. This ship has sailed.行了吧？我很开心。这艘船已经开走了。 先亮出我很好，再一句船已开走，拒绝里没有哀求只有界限。
-But so we just channeled all of our adoration and love for each other into Ross and Rachel.所以我们就把对彼此的爱慕和喜欢，全都放进了罗斯和瑞秋身上。 channel A into B 把私下心动转译成角色，道出演员把真情用进戏里的秘密。
It's too late. I'm with somebody else.太晚了。我已经有别人了。 两个短句把话说死，没有余地也没有解释，干脆得让人难受。
'Cause I don't need your stupid ship.因为我不需要你那艘蠢船。 把对方潇洒的比喻直接骂回去，孩子气的嘴硬反而最有戏。
关于这一章的问题
This ship has sailed 是什么意思？
字面是「这艘船已经开走了」，意思就是「机会已经错过、来不及了」。戏里一方说 This ship has sailed，等于告诉对方别再回头。谈感情、工作机会错过了，都能这么说。
「有缘无分」英语怎么说？
可以用 two ships passing，字面是「两艘擦肩而过的船」，指两个人都有感觉却总错过。戏里说 it was like two ships passing，就是互相暗恋却从没在同一个时间单身，最终没走到一起。
had no right to 是什么语气？
是「你根本没权利这么做」，属于当面指责、语气很冲。戏里一句 You had no right to tell me，就是在怪对方把话挑明、害自己心里乱。想表达「你凭什么」，可以用这个。
major crush on 和 crush hard on 有区别吗？
意思几乎一样，都是「特别迷恋、狠狠地暗恋」。戏里先说 I had a major crush on Jen，后来说 we were both crushing hard on each other，一个用名词 crush，一个用动词 crush，都指强烈的好感。
他们说为什么当年没有在一起？
两人都说自己确实暗恋对方，但时机不对：总有一个人在谈恋爱，we were both crushing hard on each other 也没用，最后谁都没越过那条界，只能把这份喜欢放进戏里演出来。
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