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结婚要选最怕的那件事
Signed, Sealed, Delivered: The Vows We Have Made · 2021
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字幕
我的等级
背景介绍
看之前，知道这些就够了婚礼前夜，乔把奥利弗按在桌边：别再用扇贝和黑皮诺把心事压下去。他说爱是一种选择，还想当奥利弗应得的那个妈妈。隔壁，诺曼和丽塔要收养查理、给她全职，她却突然临产。诺曼把临产听成劳动力。盯乔怎么把结婚说成面对最怕的那件事。
发音关注
- get your act 连读，act 咬清
- face up to 黏成 fays-up-tə
- labor 二次重读表真临产
学习收获
- 学会说把状态收拾好
- 会用 face up to 说直面
- 听懂 labor 临产双关
重点关注
- 乔把爱说成主动选择
- 查理先答应再因宫缩拒绝
- 诺曼把临产听成劳动法
乔
乔 Joe谢恩的爸爸
奥
奥利弗 Oliver紧张的新郎
谢
谢恩 Shane新娘
查
查理 Charley临产的临时工
诺
诺曼 Norman死信组同事
丽
丽塔 Rita诺曼的妻子
章节
18 段 · AI 拆解01糖浆死信糖浆把死信粘成一团，里面还夹着小孩的画B22'46"02相信时机四天后大婚，礼服戒指都齐了，问她怀没怀上，她没有B11'57"03一壶疯妈妈亲家提前一天堵在门口，她说妈妈是一壶疯B12'37"04欧文找弗雷德病童还在等一个不知能否回来的人B12'36"05别提那个宝宝医院查不到欧文，孕妇来面试，规矩是别提那个宝宝B12'47"06妈妈来巡视妈妈提前一天推开办公室门，说要看看他日常怎么栖息B14'52"07我正要同意妈有人憋着一口气承认这次妈说得对B14'05"08信封上的消防站有人拿表亲关系把死信送到消防站B13'25"09我状态不好房租和预产期叠在一起，她说自己状态不好，没法当妈B12'59"10其余人进不去帐篷只留给新郎新娘B13'41"11玩具还是婚礼找玩具比结婚还要紧B24'20"12爱的帐幕教堂要把爱藏进圣所B16'09"13余生够你问有人拿余生打圆场却问出了父亲B24'56"14假如我们是她的收养孩子其实在选父母B13'55"15她把你留在博物馆前妻曾把他丢在邮政博物馆，婚礼前他怕再被丢下B15'02"16爱是一种选择结婚要选最怕的那件事B25'05"17他们没搞懂你博物馆里他突然沉默，她说离开你的人根本没搞懂自己B23'19"18别浪费这一刻午夜刚过才算婚礼日，表上刻不下相信时机，她改口永远B22'55"
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金句教学点
字幕稿
00:00
grammatically correct,
语法上无懈可击，
00:02
maddeningly cerebral,
聪明得让人抓狂，
00:06
and an incredibly thoughtful lover of Shakespeare
还对莎士比亚体贴入微
00:12
and mail...
还有邮件……
00:16
and my beautiful daughter.
还有我美丽的女儿。
00:20
And...
还有……
00:21
tomorrow,
明天，
00:23
you are going to marry her,
你就要娶她了，
00:25
and you need to get your act together
你得把状态收拾好
00:26
before then
在那之前
00:28
instead of pushing it all down
别再把心事全压下去
00:29
with shellfish and pinot noir.
靠扇贝和黑皮诺。
00:47
Uh...
呃……
00:52
I just...
我只是……
00:56
I just...
我只是……
01:02
I don't know what to do.
我不知道该怎么办。
01:05
Well, you begin by doing
那就从做那件事开始
01:06
the thing that scares you the most .
从最让你害怕的那件事开始。
01:07
All you have to do is face up to the scary,
你只要正视那份可怕，
01:10
and the rest is easy .
剩下的就简单了。
01:14
You need to heal.
你需要疗伤。
01:17
But you don't have to do it alone.
但你不必一个人扛。
01:22
You have a whole family of people who love you, dearie .
有一整家人爱着你，亲爱的。
01:28
And...
还有……
01:30
and that includes me.
其中也包括我。
01:34
Because love is a choice ...
因为爱是一种选择……
01:38
and you're a choice I want to make .
而你是我想做的那个选择。
01:43
And...
还有……
01:45
tomorrow,
明天，
01:47
if you want,
如果你愿意，
01:51
I would like to become the mother you deserve .
我想成为你应得的那个妈妈。
02:00
What do you say?
你怎么说？
02:18
Serve God,
侍奉上帝，
02:20
love Shane,
爱谢恩，
02:23
and mend.
然后疗伤。
02:29
"Much Ado About Nothing."
《无事生非》。
02:37
- Are you okay? - Yes, yes.
- 你还好吗？ - 好，好。
02:39
- Can I help? - Thank you.
- 要我帮忙吗？ - 谢谢。
02:41
Okay.
好。
02:42
Oh.
哦。
02:49
Charley, we've been thinking.
查理，我们想过了。
02:52
We are very impressed with your work.
我们对你的工作印象很好。
02:54
Oh, thank you.
哦，谢谢。
02:56
Maybe you could give me a recommendation
等我走的时候
02:57
when I leave.
也许你可以给我写封推荐信。
02:58
Well, we talked to Oliver and Shane,
我们跟奥利弗和谢恩谈过了，
03:01
and we would like to offer you a job in the DLO.
想请你在死信组做一份正式工作。
03:04
Full-time.
全职。
03:06
But it feels like...
可这感觉像是……
03:09
you would be giving up something ...
你在放弃某样东西……
03:14
someone...
某个人……
03:17
because you don't think you can have both .
因为你觉得两头不能兼得。
03:20
Is that right?
是这样吗？
03:26
Norman and I have talked it over ,
诺曼和我商量过了，
03:29
and...
还有……
03:34
um...
嗯……
03:36
we would like to adopt...
我们想收养……
03:39
you.
你。
03:43
I don't understand.
我不明白。
03:47
What if you had a job and a home and a family
假如你既有工作，又有家，还有一家人
03:52
that would love to help you raise your little...
都愿意帮你把小家伙带大……
03:54
one?
呢？
03:55
Seriously?
真的？
03:57
Yeah.
嗯。
03:59
We just bought a house,
我们刚买了房子，
04:00
and we could turn the rumpus room
可以把娱乐室
04:01
into an apartment, rent-free.
改成一套公寓，免房租。
04:03
And we could all help each other.
大家还能互相帮衬。
04:04
Yeah.
嗯。
04:05
It takes a village .
养孩子要靠一群人。
04:06
With a basement.
还带地下室。
04:07
I don't know what to say.
我不知道该说什么。
04:10
- Say yes. - Yeah!
- 说愿意。 - 好啊！
04:12
- Yes. - Yes!
- 愿意。 - 愿意！
04:13
- No. - Oh.
- 不行。 - 哦。
04:14
- No? - No.
- 不行？ - 不行。
04:16
Oh, I'm in labor again.
哦，我又要生了。
04:17
Oh.
哦。
04:18
Yes, you've rejoined the full-time labor force .
对，你重新加入全职劳动大军了。
04:20
And we follow all the state and federal laws.
我们可是遵守所有州法和联邦法的。
04:21
No, Norman.
不是，诺曼。
04:22
She's in labor -labor.
她是生孩子那种临产。
04:23
Baby!
宝宝！
04:25
Baby, baby. Baby.
宝宝，宝宝。宝宝。
04:27
- Yeah, mm-hmm. - Oh!
- 对，嗯。 - 哦！
04:28
I got you.
我扶着你。
04:39
Hey!
嘿！
04:40
I've made all the calls for tomorrow.
明天的电话我都打过了。
04:42
I've confirmed our tickets to London Heathrow.
去伦敦希思罗的机票也确认了。
04:45
Your tux has arrived.
你的礼服已经到了。
04:47
Is that my bag from Joe? Mm!
那是乔给我的包吗？嗯！
04:50
Great.
太好了。
04:51
And...
还有……
04:53
I was just trying on my going-away dress .
我刚在试婚礼后要穿走的那件裙子。
04:57
What do you think?
你觉得怎么样？
04:59
Can you believe
你能相信吗
05:00
that by this time next week ,
到下周这个时候，
05:02
we will be on our honeymoon ,
我们就在度蜜月了，
05:05
standing in the London Museum of Mail,
站在伦敦邮件博物馆里，
05:07
reveling in the epic archives
沉浸在那些史诗般的档案里
语言点
点击卡片，跳回它在片中的位置固定搭配B1↩ 00:25
get one's act together
get one's act together
把状态收拾好、振作起来
and you need to get your act together
你得把状态收拾好
发音↩ 00:25
get your act
get your 连成 ge-chur，act 咬住
and you need to get your act together
你得把状态收拾好
固定搭配B1↩ 00:28
push something down
push something down
把情绪压下去
这里不是把东西往下推，是用吃喝把焦虑压住
instead of pushing it all down
别再把心事全压下去
固定搭配A2↩ 00:28
instead of doing something
instead of doing something
而不是去做某事
instead of pushing it all down
别再把心事全压下去
固定搭配A2↩ 01:05
begin by doing something
begin by doing something
从做某事开始
Well, you begin by doing
那就从做那件事开始
固定搭配A2↩ 01:06
scare someone the most
scare someone the most
最让你害怕的
the thing that scares you the most .
从最让你害怕的那件事开始。
语法B1↩ 01:06
the thing that scares you the most
定语从句最高级：that 从句修饰 thing，the most 把害怕推到顶点。
the thing that scares you the most .
从最让你害怕的那件事开始。
固定搭配A2↩ 01:07
all you have to do is
all you have to do is
你只需要做的就是
All you have to do is face up to the scary,
你只要正视那份可怕，
固定搭配B1↩ 01:07
face up to something
face up to something
正视、直面某事
All you have to do is face up to the scary,
你只要正视那份可怕，
发音↩ 01:07
face up to
face up to 黏成 fays-up-tə
All you have to do is face up to the scary,
你只要正视那份可怕，
发音↩ 01:07
All you have to
you have to 弱成 yə hæftə
All you have to do is face up to the scary,
你只要正视那份可怕，
固定搭配A2↩ 01:10
the rest is easy
the rest is easy
剩下的就简单了
and the rest is easy .
剩下的就简单了。
俚语B1↩ 01:22
dearie
亲爱的（老派称呼）——长辈哄晚辈，正式书面别用
You have a whole family of people who love you, dearie .
有一整家人爱着你，亲爱的。
发音↩ 01:34
love is a choice
重音落在 choice，前面轻轻带过
Because love is a choice ...
因为爱是一种选择……
语法B1↩ 01:38
a choice I want to make
省略关系词：choice 后省了 that：I want to make (that choice)。
and you're a choice I want to make .
而你是我想做的那个选择。
语法B1↩ 01:51
the mother you deserve
定语从句省略：you deserve 前省 that：你应得的那个妈妈。
I would like to become the mother you deserve .
我想成为你应得的那个妈妈。
固定搭配A2↩ 02:52
be impressed with something
be impressed with something
对某事印象很好
We are very impressed with your work.
我们对你的工作印象很好。
固定搭配A2↩ 03:01
offer someone a job
offer someone a job
给某人一份工作
and we would like to offer you a job in the DLO.
想请你在死信组做一份正式工作。
固定搭配A2↩ 03:09
give up something
give up something
放弃某样东西
you would be giving up something ...
你在放弃某样东西……
语法A2↩ 03:17
because you don't think you can have both
原因从句：because 带出她放弃的原因：觉得工作和家不能兼得。
because you don't think you can have both .
因为你觉得两头不能兼得。
固定搭配A2↩ 03:26
talk something over
talk something over
把这件事商量过了
Norman and I have talked it over ,
诺曼和我商量过了，
发音↩ 03:26
talked it over
talked it 中间 t/d 弹成一下
Norman and I have talked it over ,
诺曼和我商量过了，
语法B1↩ 03:47
What if you had
虚拟假设：What if + 过去式：设想一种还没发生的生活。
What if you had a job and a home and a family
假如你既有工作，又有家，还有一家人
俚语B1↩ 04:00
rumpus room
家里的娱乐室——美式家常说法，书面多用 recreation room
and we could turn the rumpus room
可以把娱乐室
固定搭配B1↩ 04:05
it takes a village
it takes a village
养孩子要靠一群人
It takes a village .
养孩子要靠一群人。
固定搭配A2↩ 04:16
be in labor
be in labor
临产、正在分娩
Oh, I'm in labor again.
哦，我又要生了。
固定搭配B1↩ 04:18
labor force
labor force
劳动力、劳动人口
诺曼把临产的 labor 听成上班干活
Yes, you've rejoined the full-time labor force .
对，你重新加入全职劳动大军了。
发音↩ 04:22
in labor-labor
第二次 labor 更重，表示真临产
She's in labor -labor.
她是生孩子那种临产。
固定搭配B1↩ 04:53
going-away dress
going-away dress
婚礼后启程换上的礼服
I was just trying on my going-away dress .
我刚在试婚礼后要穿走的那件裙子。
固定搭配A2↩ 05:00
by this time next week
by this time next week
到下周这个时候
that by this time next week ,
到下周这个时候，
发音↩ 05:00
by this time next
this / next 弱读，重音在 time
that by this time next week ,
到下周这个时候，
固定搭配A2↩ 05:02
on one's honeymoon
on one's honeymoon
在度蜜月
we will be on our honeymoon ,
我们就在度蜜月了，
本章教学点
看完视频，正好复习我的等级
会自动暂停
习语B1↩ 00:25
get your act together
把状态收拾好
剧中语境乔在婚礼前夜训奥利弗：别再靠吃喝拖着，先把自己理顺。
The presentation is Monday. Get your act together tonight.演示周一。今晚把状态收拾好。
日常举例
考前催促Exams start at eight. Get your act together and pack the bag.考试八点开始。收拾好状态，把包装上。
会自动暂停
短语动词B1↩ 01:07
face up to
正视、直面某事
剧中语境乔说奥利弗只要先直面最怕的那一块，其余就好办。
We have to face up to the overdue rent before we plan a trip.想出门玩之前，得先正视过期房租。
日常举例
谈分手Face up to the silence. Pretending it is fine makes it worse.正视这段沉默。装没事只会更糟。
会自动暂停
习语B1↩ 04:05
it takes a village
养孩子要靠众人
剧中语境诺曼说收养查理后大家一起带娃，后面还补一句带地下室。
New parents learn fast: it takes a village, not one hero.新手爸妈很快明白：靠的是一群人，不是一个英雄。
日常举例
组项目This launch takes a village. Nobody ships it alone.这次上线靠全组。没人能一个人发出去。
高于我的等级
双关B2↩ 04:22
labor-labor
真的在生孩子
剧中语境诺曼把 labor 听成上班，丽塔叠词强调：是分娩那种临产。
I need a break-break, not a coffee at my desk.我要的是真休息，不是在工位喝杯咖啡。
日常举例
纠正误会He is leaving-leaving, not just going for lunch.他是真走，不是去吃个午饭。
会自动暂停
反讽B1↩ 04:18
full-time labor force
把临产听成上岗
剧中语境查理说 I'm in labor，诺曼当她重新全职上班，还搬出联邦法。
She said she was toast. He handed her jam and a plate.她说自己完了。他递给她果酱和盘子。
日常举例
听错词I asked for a minute. He started a timer.我要一分钟缓冲。他真去按了计时器。
会自动暂停
搭配A2↩ 04:16
in labor
临产、正在分娩
剧中语境查理刚说完愿意又改口不行，原来是宫缩又来了。
Call the midwife. She has been in labor since dawn.打电话给助产士。她从天亮就在临产。
日常举例
医院走廊Her sister is in labor on the third floor.她姐姐在三楼临产。
会自动暂停
短语动词A2↩ 03:26
talk it over
商量过了
剧中语境丽塔说和诺曼谈妥了，接着抛出收养查理。
We talked the move over and decided to wait until spring.搬家的事我们商量过了，决定等到春天。
日常举例
家务分工Let's talk the chores over before we assign rooms.分房间之前，先把家务商量清楚。
会自动暂停
词汇B1↩ 04:53
going-away dress
婚礼后换上的礼服
剧中语境谢恩试穿离开婚礼去度蜜月的那件裙子，问奥利弗觉得怎样。
She packed the going-away dress in a separate bag for the station.她把启程礼服单独装袋，带到车站。
日常举例
婚礼筹备The going-away dress is simpler than the gown. Easier to sit in a car.启程礼服比婚纱简单。坐车更方便。
金句
这句话本身就很棒——棒在哪、怎么用“Because love is a choice...”
因为爱是一种选择……
棒在哪里
把爱情从感觉改成动词：你可以选，也可以不选。
句型骨架
X is a choice.
使用场景
劝人别等感觉来了再行动，把关系说成决定。
同类表达
Love is something you choose. ／ Staying is a choice too.
语域
literary
跟读提示
choice 拉长下沉，省略号处留气口。
运用举例
劝朋友留下Forgiveness is a choice. You can make it tomorrow.原谅是一种选择。你可以明天再做。
“and you're a choice I want to make.”
而你是我想做的那个选择。
棒在哪里
把对方直接做成宾语：不是爱这个词，是选你。
句型骨架
You're a choice I want to make.
使用场景
向家人或伴侣表态：我主动选你进我的生活。
同类表达
You're the person I choose. ／ I want you on my team.
语域
informal
跟读提示
you're 轻，choice 和 make 两头加重。
运用举例
认新家人You're a teammate I want to keep.你是我想留下的队友。
“I would like to become the mother you deserve.”
我想成为你应得的那个妈妈。
棒在哪里
一个男人把父亲角色说成应得的妈妈，温柔得越界。
句型骨架
I would like to become the X you deserve.
使用场景
承诺补上对方一直缺的那种照顾时。
同类表达
I want to be the parent you needed. ／ Let me be the family you deserve.
语域
literary
跟读提示
mother 轻托，deserve 清楚落地。
运用举例
补上缺位I would like to become the mentor you deserve.我想成为你应得的那种导师。
精彩独白
一个人撑起的一段戏，值得整段跟读❝ 乔劝奥利弗选择爱
Well, you begin by doing the thing that scares you the most. All you have to do is face up to the scary, and the rest is easy. You need to heal. But you don't have to do it alone. You have a whole family of people who love you, dearie. and that includes me. Because love is a choice... and you're a choice I want to make. if you want, I would like to become the mother you deserve. What do you say? Serve God, love Shane, and mend. "Much Ado About Nothing."
那就从做那件事开始 从最让你害怕的那件事开始。 你只要正视那份可怕， 剩下的就简单了。 你需要疗伤。 但你不必一个人扛。 有一整家人爱着你，亲爱的。 其中也包括我。 因为爱是一种选择…… 而你是我想做的那个选择。 如果你愿意， 我想成为你应得的那个妈妈。 你怎么说？ 侍奉上帝， 爱谢恩， 然后疗伤。 《无事生非》。
从最怕的事说到当妈妈，用莎翁一句收束。