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午夜刚过才算婚礼日，表上刻不下相信时机，她改口永远
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我的等级
背景介绍
看之前，知道这些就够了午夜刚过，婚礼日算正式开始。奥利弗看见新娘，送上一块自动上弦的表，本想刻「相信时机」，字太多。谢恩改口：永远。她把童年的邓巴顿找回来当回礼——主日老师一直替他收着。盯他们怎么把抓紧和放手，收进一句铭文。
发音关注
- going to 弱读，to 几乎听不见
- behold 重音落在 hold
- hold on 和 let go 都要咬住
学习收获
- 带走别浪费这一刻的说法
- 学会 have something done
- 听懂 hold on 和 let go 成对
重点关注
- 铭文从相信时机改成永远
- 谢恩接上诺曼有表亲的老梗
- 邓巴顿怎么从圣坛找回来
奥
奥利弗 Oliver新郎
谢
谢恩 Shane新娘
诺
诺曼 Norman同事
根
根辛格太太 Mrs. Genzinger主日老师
章节
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金句教学点
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00:02
It's after midnight.
已经过了午夜。
00:04
You're seeing the bride on her wedding day.
你在婚礼当天见到了新娘。
00:06
And it is a beautiful sight to behold .
而且这景象美得让人挪不开眼。
00:11
Since it is our wedding day now ,
既然现在已经是我们的婚礼日，
00:15
I have a gift for you.
我有份礼物要给你。
00:26
Do you remember
你还记得
00:28
the last time we saw Theresa Capodiamonte?
我们上次见到特蕾莎·卡波迪亚蒙特吗？
00:32
Life is so beautiful.
生命如此美好。
00:37
Don't waste a moment of it.
别浪费其中任何一个片刻。
00:41
"Don't waste a moment ."
“别浪费这一刻。”
00:46
I remember.
我记得。
00:49
Go ahead.
打开吧。
01:07
Self-winding.
自动上弦的。
01:11
I love it.
我好喜欢。
01:15
I was going to have it engraved ,
我本来想找人刻字的，
01:16
but "Trust the timing" was a bit long.
但“相信时机”有点太长了。
01:25
What about "Forever"?
那“永远”怎么样？
01:29
I'll have it done by noon.
中午前我就能刻好。
01:31
Noon? How?
中午？怎么刻？
01:34
- Norman has... - Has a cousin?
- 诺曼有…… - 有个表亲？
01:55
Your dad helped me wrap it.
你爸帮我包的。
01:58
And...
还有……
01:59
an old friend helped me find it.
一位老朋友帮我找到的。
02:14
Dumbarton?
邓巴顿？
02:17
How...
怎么……
02:18
You said that
你说过
02:20
Mrs. Genzinger has known you longer than anyone .
根辛格太太认识你比谁都久。
02:24
So I thought
所以我就想
02:25
if she was your Sunday school teacher ,
如果她是你的主日学老师，
02:29
she spent a lot of time at your church.
那她一定在你的教堂待过很久。
02:31
So I gave her a call .
所以我就给她打了个电话。
02:33
Oh, my gosh .
我的天哪。
02:34
You told me
你跟我说过
02:35
she wanted you to learn
她想让你学会
02:38
when to hold on and when to let go .
什么时候抓紧，什么时候放手。
02:41
Turns out ,
结果呢，
02:42
you needed to let him go,
你得放手让他走，
02:44
and she was wise enough to hold on to him.
而她够聪明，一直把他留着。
02:50
She was the one who found him at the altar?
是她在圣坛那儿找到他的？
02:54
Sacred spaces have a way
神圣的地方总有办法
02:56
of turning into the lost and found .
变成失物招领处。
语言点
点击卡片，跳回它在片中的位置固定搭配B2↩ 00:06
a sight to behold
a sight to behold
值得一看的景象
And it is a beautiful sight to behold .
而且这景象美得让人挪不开眼。
发音↩ 00:06
sight to behold
behold 重音在 hold，to 弱读
And it is a beautiful sight to behold .
而且这景象美得让人挪不开眼。
语法A2↩ 00:11
Since it is our wedding day now
原因状语：Since 带出原因：午夜已过，所以今天算婚礼日。
Since it is our wedding day now ,
既然现在已经是我们的婚礼日，
固定搭配A2↩ 00:28
the last time
the last time
上一次
the last time we saw Theresa Capodiamonte?
我们上次见到特蕾莎·卡波迪亚蒙特吗？
固定搭配B1↩ 00:37
waste a moment of something
waste a moment of something
浪费哪怕片刻
这里 it=人生这段日子
Don't waste a moment of it.
别浪费其中任何一个片刻。
发音↩ 00:37
waste a moment
waste 与 moment 两头重，a 极轻
Don't waste a moment of it.
别浪费其中任何一个片刻。
固定搭配A2↩ 01:15
be going to do something
be going to do something
本来打算做
这里是未完成的打算，不是将来时
I was going to have it engraved ,
我本来想找人刻字的，
固定搭配B1↩ 01:15
have something engraved
have something engraved
找人把字刻上去
I was going to have it engraved ,
我本来想找人刻字的，
语法B1↩ 01:15
was going to have it engraved
过去打算：was going to：本来打算；have it engraved 是让别人刻。
I was going to have it engraved ,
我本来想找人刻字的，
发音↩ 01:15
going to have
going to 常糊成 gonna，to 几乎消失
I was going to have it engraved ,
我本来想找人刻字的，
固定搭配A2↩ 01:25
What about + suggestion
What about + suggestion
那……怎么样（提议）
What about "Forever"?
那“永远”怎么样？
固定搭配B1↩ 01:29
have something done
have something done
找人把某事办妥
I'll have it done by noon.
中午前我就能刻好。
语法B1↩ 02:20
has known you longer than anyone
现在完成时：has known 从过去一直认识到现在，再加比较级 longer than。
Mrs. Genzinger has known you longer than anyone .
根辛格太太认识你比谁都久。
语法A2↩ 02:25
if she was your Sunday school teacher
条件从句：if 假设已知身份，用来推出她常去那座教堂。
if she was your Sunday school teacher ,
如果她是你的主日学老师，
固定搭配A2↩ 02:29
spend a lot of time
spend a lot of time
花很多时间
she spent a lot of time at your church.
那她一定在你的教堂待过很久。
固定搭配A2↩ 02:31
give someone a call
give someone a call
给某人打了个电话
So I gave her a call .
所以我就给她打了个电话。
发音↩ 02:31
gave her a
gave her 连成 gav-er，h 常脱落
So I gave her a call .
所以我就给她打了个电话。
俚语A2↩ 02:33
Oh, my gosh
我的天哪——惊讶时脱口而出，正式书面别用
Oh, my gosh .
我的天哪。
固定搭配B1↩ 02:38
hold on
hold on
抓紧、不放手
这里不只是抓住，也是感情上不放弃
when to hold on and when to let go .
什么时候抓紧，什么时候放手。
固定搭配B1↩ 02:38
let go
let go
放手、放下
这里是放下旧物，不是手上松劲
when to hold on and when to let go .
什么时候抓紧，什么时候放手。
语法B1↩ 02:38
when to hold on and when to let go
疑问词不定式：when to + 动词，成对并列，表示该在何时做两件相反的事。
when to hold on and when to let go .
什么时候抓紧，什么时候放手。
发音↩ 02:38
hold on and
hold on 两词都咬住，and 轻轻带过
when to hold on and when to let go .
什么时候抓紧，什么时候放手。
固定搭配A2↩ 02:41
it turns out that
it turns out that
结果发现、原来
Turns out ,
结果呢，
固定搭配B1↩ 02:44
hold on to someone
hold on to someone
抓紧某人不放
这里 him=邓巴顿那件旧物
and she was wise enough to hold on to him.
而她够聪明，一直把他留着。
固定搭配B1↩ 02:44
adjective enough to do something
adjective enough to do something
足够……所以能
and she was wise enough to hold on to him.
而她够聪明，一直把他留着。
语法B1↩ 02:44
wise enough to hold on to him
enough to：形容词 + enough + to do：够聪明，所以一直留着它。
and she was wise enough to hold on to him.
而她够聪明，一直把他留着。
固定搭配B2↩ 02:54
have a way of doing something
have a way of doing something
往往会、总有一套办法
这里不是“有办法”，是总会变成
Sacred spaces have a way
神圣的地方总有办法
固定搭配A2↩ 02:56
turn into something
turn into something
变成
of turning into the lost and found .
变成失物招领处。
固定搭配B1↩ 02:56
lost and found
lost and found
失物招领处
这里把教堂圣坛说成失物招领处
of turning into the lost and found .
变成失物招领处。
发音↩ 02:56
lost and found
lost、found 两端重，and 弱成 n
of turning into the lost and found .
变成失物招领处。
本章教学点
看完视频，正好复习我的等级
会自动暂停
习语B1↩ 00:37
waste a moment
浪费哪怕片刻
剧中语境奥利弗转述特蕾莎的话，把人生说成不该空过的一段。
The reunion is one night. Don't waste a minute of it on your phone.同学聚会就一晚。别把任何一分钟耗在手机上。
日常举例
假期开头We finally got a day off. Don't waste a minute of it indoors.终于放一天假。别把这一天耗在屋里。
高于我的等级
词汇B2↩ 00:06
a sight to behold
值得一看的景象
剧中语境奥利弗在婚礼日看见新娘，把人说成一幅要凝视的画面。
The harbor at dawn is a real sight to behold.黎明时的港口真是值得一看。
日常举例
看烟花The fireworks over the river were a sight to behold.河上的烟花美得让人挪不开眼。
会自动暂停
搭配B1↩ 01:15
have something engraved
找人把字刻上
剧中语境奥利弗本想在表上刻座右铭，自己不刻，是找人刻。
We had the inside of the ring engraved with the date.我们让人把日期刻在戒指内侧。
日常举例
定制礼物I'm having the flask engraved before his birthday.生日前我会让人把酒壶刻上字。
会自动暂停
短语动词B1↩ 02:38
hold on and let go
抓紧与放手
剧中语境谢恩转述主日老师的功课：什么该抓住，什么该放下。
Parenting is knowing when to hold on and when to step back.养孩子就是知道何时抓紧、何时退后。
日常举例
清理旧物I kept the letters, then finally let them go.信我留了很久，最后还是放手了。
高于我的等级
双关B2↩ 02:56
lost and found
失物招领处
剧中语境谢恩说教堂圣坛收走了邓巴顿，把神圣空间说成招领处。
Our attic has turned into the family's lost and found.阁楼快变成全家人的失物招领处了。
日常举例
学校门口Check the lost and found before you buy a new jacket.先去失物招领处看看，再买新外套。
会自动暂停
话语A2↩ 02:41
turns out
结果发现、原来
剧中语境谢恩把寻找邓巴顿的结局亮出来：该放手的人，老师替他留着。
Turns out the keys were in my other coat.结果钥匙在另一件外套里。
日常举例
揭晓误会Turns out she never got the invite.原来她根本没收到邀请。
会自动暂停
俚语A2↩ 02:33
oh my gosh
我的天哪
剧中语境奥利弗认出邓巴顿，来不及组织句子，先喊出来。
Oh my gosh, you still have that photo?我的天哪，那张照片你还留着？
日常举例
拆礼物Oh my gosh, this is the same mug I lost.我的天哪，这就是我丢的那只杯子。
金句
这句话本身就很棒——棒在哪、怎么用“Don't waste a moment of it.”
别浪费其中任何一个片刻。
棒在哪里
把整个人生收成一句叮嘱，moment 比 time 更贴皮肤。
句型骨架
Don't waste a moment of + 名词
使用场景
劝人别空过一段好日子、一场旅行、一次重逢。
同类表达
Don't let a second slip by. ／ Make every moment count.
语域
literary
跟读提示
Don't 落下，moment 拉长，of it 轻轻收。
运用举例
送行叮嘱This trip is short. Don't waste a second of the view.这趟很短。别浪费窗外的任何一秒。
“What about "Forever"?”
那「永远」怎么样？
棒在哪里
四个音节换掉一句座右铭，短才配得上表背。
句型骨架
What about + 提议？
使用场景
对方方案太长、太满，你丢出一个更干净的选项。
同类表达
How about Forever? ／ Why not just Forever?
语域
informal
跟读提示
What about 上扬，Forever 顿住像落锤。
运用举例
改贺卡What about just thank you?那只写谢谢怎么样？
“when to hold on and when to let go.”
什么时候抓紧，什么时候放手。
棒在哪里
两个短语对仗，把一辈子的功课收进半句。
句型骨架
when to A and when to B
使用场景
讲分寸、讲感情、讲该不该继续时。
同类表达
know when to stay and when to leave ／ when to fight and when to walk away
语域
literary
跟读提示
hold on 与 let go 两头一样重，and 轻。
运用举例
劝辞职You have to know when to push and when to walk.你得知道什么时候加力，什么时候走人。
精彩独白
一个人撑起的一段戏，值得整段跟读❝ 谢恩说明寻找路径
You said that Mrs. Genzinger has known you longer than anyone. So I thought if she was your Sunday school teacher, she spent a lot of time at your church. So I gave her a call.
你说过 根辛格太太认识你比谁都久。 所以我就想 如果她是你的主日学老师， 那她一定在你的教堂待过很久。 所以我就给她打了个电话。
从认识最久的人推到教堂，再落到一个电话。
❝ 抓紧与放手的收束
You told me she wanted you to learn when to hold on and when to let go. Turns out, you needed to let him go, and she was wise enough to hold on to him.
你跟我说过 她想让你学会 什么时候抓紧，什么时候放手。 结果呢， 你得放手让他走， 而她够聪明，一直把他留着。
把旧功课翻成礼物：该放手的，有人替他留着。