That's a 常连成 /ðætsə/，s 直接滑进 a，重音压在 lot 上，中间别停顿。
$8,000. That's. . . That's a lot of. . .I Love You, Man · 2009 — 第 16 / 19 章 · 5'02" · B2
请新朋友当伴郎：hit it off
悉尼开口问彼得借八千块，彼得要自己出婚礼钱，一时为难；紧接着一个叫道格的男人当面控诉他约会完就消失。后来两人把心里话讲开——他们明明 hit it off（一见如故），彼得却从没承认自己没朋友，最后还邀悉尼当伴郎。想学跟朋友开口谈钱、把心结讲开，这段又尴尬又真诚。
发生了什么
这是《寻找伴郎》里彼得和西德尼友谊定型的一段。悉尼先开口，问彼得能不能拿八千块去投一个保密项目，彼得要自己掏钱办婚礼，一时没有答应。接着一个叫道格的男人当众控诉彼得：那晚明明很美好，事后却再没联系过他。尴尬过后，两人终于把话讲开——彼得说自己从小没几个男性朋友，现在要结婚更觉得自己像怪人，西德尼回他「你是我朋友，什么都能跟我说」。最后彼得请他把自己挂的费里尼奥那套房卖掉，还正式请他当自己的伴郎。想学开口谈钱、掏心窝、正式邀请人，这段全是现成句。
这场戏看什么
- 注意皮特被道格堵住时的尴尬
- 留意祖伊反对时措辞的克制
- 看西德尼替朋友出头的分寸
留意这几个短语
a lot of nervefill outhit it offbe good for it
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hit it off
一见如故，聊得投缘click right away
皮特跟道格解释，他和西德尼在看房会上一见如故，聊起Rush就停不下来。
We hit it off right away at the interview.面试时我们一聊就特别投缘。
本章还有
- a lot of nerve
胆子大，也指脸皮厚
- fill out
凑够、填满人数
- be good for it
有信用、还得起
- psyched
兴奋、特别期待
- haunt me
让某人久久不安
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不在了、不再参与
It just. . . It might be a little tricky, just 'cause Zooey's dad is out of the picture, and, you know, we're paying for the wedding ourselves.冒出来、忽然出现
An opportunity came up. I thought I would ask. No big deal.胆子大，也指脸皮厚
道格当众堵住皮特，用一句客气的控诉说自己被放鸽子，表面平静，话很重。
You know, it takes a lot of nerve to spend a beautiful evening with someone and then never call them again.现在完成时：haven't felt in years 表示很多年都没再有过的感觉，一直持续到现在。
kiss, because I felt something that I haven't felt in years, and now I know it was the taste of betrayal.婊子（极重的骂人话）——极侮辱性的骂人话，任何场合都别用
It was the taste of betrayal, you fucking whore.被选中、获得认可
Wow. I mean, I knew when I got the nod for the engagement dinner you didn't have a ton of friends, but凑够、填满人数
道格把皮特的动机说穿：你请我，只是想凑够你的伴郎团，语气酸得很明显。
It's like, you were basically just using me because you needed to fill out your wedding party.一见如故，聊得投缘
皮特跟道格解释，他和西德尼在看房会上一见如故，聊起Rush就停不下来。
I'd actually given up on meeting someone, and then you wandered into that open house, we hit it off, and three-quarters of the Rush songbook later, here we are.对某人某事不再指望
I'd actually given up on meeting someone, and then you wandered into that open house, we hit it off, and three-quarters of the Rush songbook later, here we are.过去完成时：l'd given up 是过去完成时，说明在遇见你之前就已经放弃了。
I'd actually given up on meeting someone, and then you wandered into that open house, we hit it off, and three-quarters of the Rush songbook later, here we are.wandered 的词尾 d 弹舌接 into，连成 /ˈwɑndərdɪntə/，中间不留缝。
I'd actually given up on meeting someone, and then you wandered into that open house, we hit it off, and three-quarters of the Rush songbook later, here we are.我明白、我懂
I get it. But I just want you to know that you're my friend, and you can tell me anything.有信用、还得起
皮特决定借钱，还主动说知道西德尼肯定还得上，一句话把信任摆了出来。
I'd be happy to lend you the money. I know you're good for it.lend you 之间无停顿，听起来像 len-joo
I'd be happy to lend you the money. I know you're good for it.不定式作宾语：want someone to do 的结构，把「想让你做某事」说清楚，这里指一起站在台上。
I want you to stand up there with me. Are you cool with that?对某事特别兴奋
I'm not an idiot. You're not psyched about this at all.兴奋、来劲——朋友之间说期待，正式场合换成 excited
I'm not an idiot. You're not psyched about this at all.背着某人、在背后
He's gonna think I'm saying stuff behind his back.让某人久久不安
皮特懊恼自己在订婚宴上的祝酒词搞砸了，觉得这事要跟他一辈子。
This dumb toast is gonna haunt me forever.混蛋（粗俗骂人话）——背后骂人用，攻击性强，别当面说
Dude, why is Ferrigno eating with that urinal-cake-faced fuckhead?独家代理权
西德尼替皮特出头，当面告诉费里尼奥：这栋房子的独家代理权在皮特手里。
-Do I know you? -No, you don't know me, but I believe you know my friend Peter Klaven, who has an exclusive listing on this man's property.什么都没干（粗话）——粗俗的强调说法，职场别用
I know, but he's not doing shit with it.一派胡言、全是鬼话
That is total crap, Hulk, all right?鬼话、胡说——口语里说事情不靠谱，比 shit 轻一点
That is total crap, Hulk, all right?看懂「请新朋友当伴郎」
这一章能学到
- 会用 hit it off 说一见如故
- 会用 a lot of nerve 委婉损人
- 知道 good for it 指还得起
- 听懂请人当伴郎的几种说法
发音重点
- That's a lot — That's a 常连成 /ðætsə/，s 直接滑进 a，重音压在 lot 上，中间别停顿。
- wandered into — wandered 的词尾 d 弹舌接 into，连成 /ˈwɑndərdɪntə/，中间不留缝。
- lend you — lend you 之间无停顿，听起来像 len-joo
You know, it takes a lot of nerve to spend a beautiful evening with someone and then never call them again.你知道吗，跟人度过一个美好的夜晚就再也不联系，这得有多大的脸皮。 把「一顿痛骂」说成一句体面的控诉，越平静越有杀伤力。
I'd actually given up on meeting someone, and then you wandered into that open house, we hit it off, and three-quarters of the Rush songbook later, here we are.我其实已经放弃认识什么人了，结果你晃进了那场看房会，我们一见如故，后来聊完四分之三个Rush歌单，就成了现在这样。 把一段友情的来龙去脉压进一句话，细节具体，听着像回忆也像表白。
It's the least I could do for the best man at my wedding.这是我给自己的伴郎最起码能做的。 把借钱说成情分里最小的一件事，重情又不居功。
I get it. But I just want you to know that you're my friend, and you can tell me anything.我懂。但我只想让你知道，你是我的朋友，什么都可以跟我说。 先接纳对方，再给出承诺，是安慰朋友时最有分量的一句话。
关于这一章的问题
hit it off 是什么意思？
意思是「一见如故、一聊就投缘」，常形容两人第一次见面就特别合拍。台词里彼得回忆两人在看房会上 hit it off，后来又聊完四分之三个 Rush 歌单，就再也分不开了。
「脸皮真厚」英语怎么说？
a lot of nerve。nerve 本来是「胆量」，说某人 takes a lot of nerve 就是「脸皮真厚、真敢」。台词里有人就是被这样当面数落的。
「还得起、有信用」英语怎么说？
be good for it。它指这个人靠得住、这笔钱他一定还得上。有人愿意借钱给朋友时常说 I know you're good for it，就是「我知道你还得起」。
psyched 是什么意思？
是口语，意思是「特别兴奋、特别期待」，比 excited 更随意。台词里有人说 You're not psyched about this，就是「你根本一点都不兴奋」。
haunt me 在这里指什么？
指让某人心里过不去、迟迟放不下。台词里有人在订婚宴致辞上说错了话，后悔说 This dumb toast is gonna haunt me forever，就是这段破致辞要缠他一辈子。
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