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I Love You, Man · 2009 — 第 13 / 19 章 · 5'02" · B2

为隐私跟未婚妻吵架：between you and me

订婚宴上西德尼越说越离谱，The Pistol is a pleasure-giver（手枪是个乐于付出的人）把双关开到全家面前。散场后佐伊追问彼得到底跟悉尼说了什么，因为有些事她只想 between you and me（只在你我之间）。想在饭局致辞、或者跟伴侣划清隐私边界，这几句都很传神。

发生了什么

订婚宴上西德尼的祝酒词彻底放飞：他称彼得 The Pistol is a pleasure-giver（手枪是个乐于付出的人），还劝佐伊要 return the favor（把这份情还回去）。散场后佐伊质问彼得，才知道他跟悉尼说了她不喜欢口交，两人为隐私吵起来——她认为有些事应该 remain between you and me（只留在你我之间），而彼得反过来说她跟闺蜜讲墨西哥按摩浴缸也一样。后来悉尼为那段荒唐祝酒道歉，承认自己 good intentions（本意是好的），还想介绍海莉认识。这些说法适合参加宴会、跟伴侣谈隐私、以及朋友之间道歉和好。

恋爱 · 情侣吵架社交 · 聚会质问道歉情侣B2中速美音
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这场戏看什么

  • 留意悉尼祝酒时宾客表情的变化
  • 看柔伊怎么把隐私话题挑明
  • 注意彼得道歉后如何反将一军

留意这几个短语

pleasure-giverin returna pleasure-filled uniondick

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本章短语

between you and me

只在你我之间kept private to us

柔伊和彼得为隐私争吵，彼得承认爱那些朋友，但希望有些事只留在两人之间，语气放软想收场。

Between you and me, I don't trust him.这话只跟你说，我不信他。

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  • pleasure-giver

    乐于付出的人（双关）

  • in return

    作为回报

  • a pleasure-filled union

    充满欢愉的结合

  • dick

    鸡巴（粗话）

  • raise a glass

    举杯敬酒

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短语 · B1be about to do something

即将、就要

Zooey, you are about to marry one of the most honest,
语法 · B1you are about to marry

be about to：be about to do 表示马上、即将发生，比 will 更强调就在眼前，这里指婚礼在即。

Zooey, you are about to marry one of the most honest,
发音about to

about 的 /t/ 被 to 吞掉，常连成 /əbaʊtə/，只留舌尖一顶，to 弱读为 /tə/。

Zooey, you are about to marry one of the most honest,
俚语 · B2puke pistol

呕吐手枪（戏称）——熟人之间给外号加码，带粗话别乱用

Yeah. A fucking puke pistol.
短语 · B1in return

作为回报

悉尼继续夸彼得从不图回报，说自己正是为此才站上台，语气像在铺垫一件大事。

is that he never asks for anything in return, and that's why I'm here.
短语 · B2someone's confidant

知己、心腹

I'm here as Peter's friend, as Peter's confidant,
短语 · B1return the favor

投桃报李、还这份情

Return the favor.
短语 · B1raise a glass to someone

举杯敬酒

悉尼结束长篇铺垫，用最标准的祝酒句式提议大家一起举杯，正式得和前面的失言格格不入。

With that, I'd like to raise a glass to Pete and Zooey.
短语 · B1aside from something

除了……之外

I mean, aside from how much I love you.
短语 · B2mention something in passing

顺口一提

I might have mentioned in passing or something that you don't like doing oral sex.
短语 · A2a hot tub

按摩浴缸

And telling Hailey and Denise about the hot tub in Mexico isn't?
短语 · B1remain between us

只留在你我之间

I do, I love them, but, you know, some things I want to remain between you and me.
语法 · B2would literally shiver when

would 表过去习惯：would 加动词原形表示过去反复发生的事，等于 used to shiver，强调那段时期一贯如此。

By the end of our relationship, he would literally shiver when I touched him.
短语 · B1no pressure

别有压力

彼得嘴上说别给压力，紧接着又举了个露骨的例子，越描越黑，把刚缓和的气氛又弄僵。

Perfect. I mean, no pressure. It's not like I'm saying, "Hey, let's go home tonight and get some BJs." But, you know. . .
发音get some

get some 连读，t 的爆破被 some 吞掉

Perfect. I mean, no pressure. It's not like I'm saying, "Hey, let's go home tonight and get some BJs." But, you know. . .
语法 · B2if Sydney hadn't asked

虚拟条件句（过去）：if + had done 配 wouldn't have done，是对过去事实的假设：他没问，我们本不会聊到。

Look, if Sydney hadn't asked me about our sex life, we wouldn't even be talking about this.
短语 · B1be really into someone

特别喜欢某人

-And Hailey was really into him. -She was?
俚语 · C1fucked her

跟她上过床（粗话）——露骨的粗话，正式场合绝不能说

-She was very nice-looking. -Yeah, I fucked her.
短语 · B1feel horrible about something

对……特别过意不去

I feel really horrible about that toast I gave at your engagement dinner.
俚语 · B2ridonculous

离谱得可笑（造词）——年轻人自嘲式口语，正式写作别用

It was ridonculous.
发音showed up

showed up 连读，up 轻短收尾

I was really excited to meet Zooey and your family, and then I showed up there and I was just. . . I got so nervous.
短语 · B1have good intentions

本意是好的

悉尼登门道歉，彼得没有追究，用一句宽慰把对方的动机和结果分开，语气轻松。

No, no, no. Look, you had good intentions.
俚语 · C1a hot piece of ass

身材很辣的人（粗俗）——物化人的粗俗说法，冒犯性很强

Was it Benji's wife? She's a hot piece of ass.
短语 · B2within minutes of doing something

在……几分钟内

She seems great, Pete, but honestly, within five minutes of meeting her, she was telling me how she can't wait to get married and have kids.
俚语 · C1blowies

口活（俚语）——粗俗俚语，朋友间玩笑都嫌重

Look, man, you told my fiancée that she needs to give me blowies in front of my whole family, all right? You owe me.
短语 · B2make a valid point

说得有道理

-You make a valid point. -It's golf. It's fun !
短语 · B1the ninth hole

第九洞（高尔夫）

悉尼给打球定规矩，说自己不到第九洞绝不喝啤酒，彼得顺势提议改改这条规矩。

I never have a beer until the ninth hole.

看懂「为隐私跟未婚妻吵架」

这一章能学到

  • 会用 be about to 说即将发生
  • 记住 in return 是作为回报
  • 听懂 raise a glass 的祝酒用法
  • 会用 between you and me 说要保密

发音重点

  • about to — about 的 /t/ 被 to 吞掉，常连成 /əbaʊtə/，只留舌尖一顶，to 弱读为 /tə/。
  • get some — get some 连读，t 的爆破被 some 吞掉
  • showed up — showed up 连读，up 轻短收尾
The Pistol is a pleasure-giver, that's for sure.

手枪是个乐于付出的人，这点毫无疑问。 一句看似夸奖的话，字面干净、暗里带刺，是整段祝酒翻车的引信。

I was really excited to meet Zooey and your family, and then I showed up there and I was just. . . I got so nervous.

我本来特别期待见到柔伊和你家人，结果到了那儿，我就……我太紧张了。 把一个搞砸场合的人怎么慌的、怎么结巴的，原样说给你听，特别真。

Look, man, you told my fiancée that she needs to give me blowies in front of my whole family, all right? You owe me.

你看，哥们儿，你当我全家人的面跟我未婚妻说我需要她给我口活，对吧？你欠我的。 把最尴尬的事说得像一桩明账，一句 you owe me 把道歉场面直接翻成讨债。

I do, I love them, but, you know, some things I want to remain between you and me.

我当然爱她们，但你知道，有些事我想只留在你我之间。 先认下感情，再划出界线，between you and me 是亲密关系里最常用的一句边界语。

关于这一章的问题

between you and me 是什么意思？

指这句话只在你我之间、别外传。剧中有人希望有些私事 remain between you and me，就是只想跟伴侣之间保留，不让第三者知道。

「举杯敬酒」英语怎么说？

可以说 raise a glass。剧中致辞的人说 I'd like to raise a glass to Pete and Zooey，就是「我想举杯敬彼得和佐伊」。

no pressure 是什么语气？

是「别有压力、我不逼你」的语气，通常后面还会跟一句「不过」。剧中有人嘴上说 no pressure，紧接着又暗示想要点什么，典型的口是心非。

you owe me 在吵架里怎么用？

指「你欠我人情，得还」。剧中有人拿对方在全家面前说漏嘴这件事当把柄，说你 owe me，借此让对方答应去打高尔夫。

good intentions 通常怎么用？

指做事的本意是好的，常用来替闯祸的人开脱。剧中有人安慰对方说 you had good intentions，意思是你好心办了坏事，别太自责。

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