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Chasing Amy · 1997 — 第 19 / 20 章 · 4'03" · C1

拒絕三人行提議：hung up on

一方把越界嘗試說成共同經歷，等來的卻是一句 No（不行）；緊接著一句 I thought you'd be into this（還以為你會願意接受），把「你怎麼會不願意」的壓力推了回去。後面 hung up on（對…耿耿於懷、放不下）點破真正卡住的地方，想練拒絕和勸說的分寸，這幾句都能直接用。

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一方提出一起嘗試親密關係，本以為對方會願意，沒想到只等到一句 No（不行）；隨後一句 I thought you'd be into this（還以為你會願意接受）又把話推回來：你怎麼會不願意？接著 no big deal（沒什麼大不了、別當回事）被拿來淡化這件事的分量，另一邊卻沒繞彎子，直接說 Doing this won't help you forget about the things you're hung up on（這不會幫你忘掉那些你放不下的事），用 hung up on（對…耿耿於懷、放不下）點破真正卡住的地方。後面還有 feel hurt and let down（感到受傷又失望），把拒絕背後的情緒講透。想練拒絕和勸說的分寸，這些表達都能直接搬去用。

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  • 聽 maybe 排比如何把拒絕推向決斷
  • 留意親密詞與髒話並置的語氣落差

留意這幾個短語

be into somethingno big dealhung up ongo along with

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本章短語

hung up on

對…耿耿於懷、放不下unable to stop worrying about or let go of something

有人想用一場越界經歷解決舊心結；對方用 hung up on（對…耿耿於懷、放不下）點破：這樣做不會幫你忘掉那些事。

He's still hung up on a mistake he made ten years ago.他仍對十年前犯的錯耿耿於懷。

本章還有

  • be into something

    對某事感興趣、願意接受

  • no big deal

    沒什麼大不了、別當回事

  • go along with

    順從、配合著做

  • broaden your horizons

    開闊眼界、增長見識

  • feel hurt and let down

    感到受傷又失望

本章全部批註

51 句台詞裡標了 28 處

俚語 · B1Thank Christ

謝天謝地——熟人間鬆口氣時說；正式場合改用 Thank goodness。

Thank Christ.
短語 · B1be into something

對某事感興趣、願意接受

有人提出一項越界安排，原以為對方會 be into something（對某事感興趣、願意接受）；這句反問裡帶著錯愕，也帶著“你本來不是這樣的人嗎”的壓力。

No? I thought you'd be into this.
發音thought you'd

thought you'd 快說時擠成一拍，you'd 只留輕聲和 d。

No? I thought you'd be into this.
短語 · B1stuff like this

這類事、這種事

Sweetheart, you've done stuff like this before.
短語 · B1no big deal

沒什麼大不了、別當回事

對方用“你以前也做過”來壓低拒絕的分量，把越界說成 no big deal（沒什麼大不了）；這句聽起來像安慰，實際在否定對方的難受。

This should be no big deal for you.
發音no big deal

重音落在 no big deal，前面 should be 輕快帶過。

This should be no big deal for you.
語法 · B2whose names you can hardly remember

定語從句：whose 引導定語從句，說明 two guys 的名字你幾乎記不住，不是問句。

You can take it from two guys whose names you can hardly remember,
短語 · B1share an experience

共同經歷一件事

but I ask you to share an experience about intimacy, and you say no?
短語 · B2be through something

一起熬過、經歷過這件事 字面是穿過，這裡指一起經歷。

'cause we'll have been through this together.
語法 · B2we'll have been through this

將來完成時：will have done 表示到那時已經經歷完，強調未來的回顧，不是單純將來。

'cause we'll have been through this together.
短語 · B2on the same level

處在同一水平、平起平坐

Then we'll be on the same level and there'll be nothing we can't accomplish.
短語 · B2nothing we can't accomplish

沒有我們辦不成的事

Then we'll be on the same level and there'll be nothing we can't accomplish.
語法 · B2nothing we can't accomplish

雙重否定：nothing 與 can't 連用，字面‘沒有我們不能’，實際說‘沒有辦不成的事’。

Then we'll be on the same level and there'll be nothing we can't accomplish.
短語 · B2hung up on something

對…耿耿於懷、放不下

有人想用一場越界經歷解決舊心結；對方用 hung up on（對…耿耿於懷、放不下）點破：這樣做不會幫你忘掉那些事。

Doing this won't help you forget about the things you're hung up on.
短語 · B2see someone differently

用不同眼光看我

Maybe you'll see me differently from then on.
發音Maybe you'll

Maybe you'll 裡 you'll 常壓成很輕的一拍，別拖長。

Maybe you'll see me differently from then on.
短語 · B2go along with something

順從、配合著做 字面是一起走，這裡指勉強配合。

Maybe you'll despise me for going along with it once you're in the moment.
短語 · B2suspicious of someone

對我們起疑心

Maybe I'll moan differently, and then you'll resent Banky and become suspicious of us.
短語 · B2grow to do something

漸漸開始責怪 grow 不是長大，是漸漸變得。

You'll grow to blame and hate me for the deterioration of your friendship.
短語 · B2have been down this road before

以前走過類似的路 road 不是實路，是經歷/老路。

I've been down roads like this before.
短語 · B2broaden your horizons

開闊眼界、增長見識

有人把越界嘗試包裝成 broaden your horizons（開闊眼界、增長見識），對方承認你確實這麼想，但馬上說那些事自己早就經歷過。

I know you feel doing this will broaden your horizons...
短語 · B1on one's own

靠自己、獨自 不是“在我身上”，而是“獨自”。

But I've had those experiences, on my own.
短語 · B2be past something

已經過了那個階段 past 不是經過，而是不再停留在那個階段。

I'm past that now.
短語 · B2feel hurt and let down

感到受傷又失望

這句不再只講後果，而是直接說出 feel hurt and let down（感到受傷又失望）；語氣低下來，卻比爭吵更重。

And I feel hurt and let down that you would want to share me with anyone.
短語 · B2share someone with someone

把我分享給別人

And I feel hurt and let down that you would want to share me with anyone.
語法 · B2that you would want to share me with anyone

形容詞補語從句：hurt 是形容詞，that 從句是它的補足語，說明為什麼受傷，不作 feel 的賓語。

And I feel hurt and let down that you would want to share me with anyone.
短語 · B1be a part of something

參與這件事

Regardless, I can't be a part of this.
俚語 · B2fucking whore

粗俗辱罵，極度物化——關係破裂時的粗話；任何正式場合都別用。

But I'm not your fucking whore.

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發音重點

  • thought you'd — thought you'd 快說時擠成一拍，you'd 只留輕聲和 d。
  • no big deal — 重音落在 no big deal，前面 should be 輕快帶過。
  • Maybe you'll — Maybe you'll 裡 you'll 常壓成很輕的一拍，別拖長。
Doing this won't help you forget about the things you're hung up on.

做這件事不會幫你忘掉那些你放不下的事。 把越界說成解藥，won't help 一句拆穿，冷靜又準。

You'll grow to blame and hate me for the deterioration of your friendship.

你遲早會因為我毀掉你們的友誼而怪我、恨我。 grow to blame and hate 把緩慢惡化的後果推到盡頭。

Or maybe I just love you too much.

又或者，我只是太愛你了。 前面全是理性推演，這一句突然收成告白，輕卻重。

And I feel hurt and let down that you would want to share me with anyone.

而你想把我分享給別人，這讓我又受傷又失望。 hurt and let down 並列，把被辜負感說透。

Because I would never want to share you.

因為我永遠不想和別人分享你。 would never 把佔有慾翻成受傷的告白，底線說死。

But I'm not your fucking whore.

可我不是你的婊子。 整場理性陳詞後突然爆粗，短句把邊界砸實。

關於這一章的問題

be into something 是什麼意思？

意思是「對某事感興趣、願意接受」。臺詞裡用 I thought you'd be into this 表示原以為對方會願意接受這個提議。

「沒什麼大不了」英語怎麼說？

可以說 no big deal。臺詞裡說 This should be no big deal for you，意思是這對你來說應該不算什麼、別當回事。

hung up on 是「放不下」嗎？

是。hung up on 表示對…耿耿於懷、放不下。臺詞裡說 Doing this won't help you forget about the things you're hung up on，就是做這件事也忘不掉那些放不下的事。

feel hurt and let down 是什麼語氣？

這是又受傷又失望的語氣，比單純生氣更強調被辜負。臺詞裡說 I feel hurt and let down that you would want to share me with anyone，意思是對方居然願意把我分享給別人，讓人難受又失望。

「要是……會怎樣」英語怎麼說？

用 what if。臺詞裡連續用 what if 設想後果，像 Or what if... and God, I sincerely doubt it...，就是「又或者……萬一……會怎樣」。

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