為童貞定義抬槓：up close and personal

I haven't liked a man in a long time.

我很久沒有喜歡過一個男人了。 坦白得近乎脆弱，又用時間跨度把分寸留住，適合跟讀。

And I want you to feel comfortable with me, because I'd really like us to be friends.

我想讓你跟我相處時自在，因為我真的很想我們做朋友。 把親密和邊界一次說清，語氣穩，不逼迫。

I think virginity is lost when you make love for the flrst time.

我認為第一次做愛時，童貞就失去了。 把抽象定義壓成一句可爭論的命題，節奏乾淨。

I move to have that remark stricken from the record, on account of it makes you come off as completely naive and infantile.

我動議把這句話從記錄裡刪掉，因為它讓你顯得完全天真又幼稚。 法庭腔砸進私密對話，諷刺感立刻拉滿。

And it's only a once-in-a-while thing reserved for really special occasions.

那只是偶爾為之、留給真正特別場合的事。 輕描淡寫裡帶挑逗，once-in-a-while 很地道。