出生在某種環境/家庭
有人用 born into 談世代，說生在哪個世代其實沒那麼要緊。
I don't think it really matters what generation you're born into.before-sunrise-1995 · 1995 — 第 7 / 12 章 · 3'13" · B2
聊父母與愛情：romantic projections
有人聊起父母當年憤怒反抗一切，父親後來成了成功的建築師；也有人說父母為了孩子硬撐沒離婚，末了補一句 thank you very much（句末道謝，常帶不滿或強調）。聊到感情，有人說人總愛加 romantic projections（浪漫想像），祖母卻 accepted her fate（認命了）。
發生了什麼
兩個人聊起各自的父母和感情。有人說，出生在哪個年代其實不要緊；父母當年憤怒地反抗一切，自己是在他們爭來的自由里長大的。也有人說，誰的父母沒把孩子搞壞過。話題轉到愛情，有人問認不認識幸福的伴侶，對方答認識，卻覺得他們互相說謊。born into（出生在某種環境）、accepted her fate（認命了）、romantic projections（浪漫想像）都出現了，聊家庭和感情時用得上。
這場戲看什麼
- 留意講父母時笑與停頓的落差
- 注意 shit/fucked up 的輕重
- 看誰在追問，誰在轉移話題
留意這幾個短語
born intosame old shitstuck aroundthank you very much
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本章短語
romantic projections
浪漫想像/投射idealized fantasies projected onto someone
有人聽完祖母的故事後，用 romantic projections 說人會把想像套到一切上面，不管現實；對方只追問了一句 Romantic projections?
She had romantic projections about the relationship before they even met.兩人還沒見面，她就對這段關係有了浪漫想像。
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- born into
出生在某種環境/家庭
- same old shit
老一套的爛事
- stuck around
留下來、待著不走
- thank you very much
句末道謝，常帶不滿或強調
- shaped the way I think
塑造了我的想法
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主語從句：what 從句是真正主語，it 只是佔位；意思是生在哪個世代不要緊。
I don't think it really matters what generation you're born into.born into 快說時讓 n 滑進 into，into 輕帶。
I don't think it really matters what generation you're born into.起來反抗某種體制或觀念
They were these angry, young May '68 people revolting against everything — the government, their conservative Catholic backgrounds.後來進而成為…
Then my father went on to become this successful architect and we began to travel all around the world while he built bridges and towers and stuff.對…沒什麼可抱怨的
I mean, I really can't complain about anything.在某種環境裡被養大
I've been raised with all the freedom they had fought for.應付老一套破事
We still have to deal with the same old shit, but we can't really know who or what the enemy is.賓語從句：who or what... 作 know 的賓語，語序保持陳述句，不用問句倒裝。
We still have to deal with the same old shit, but we can't really know who or what the enemy is.把…搞出心理問題——粗俗口語，朋友自嘲可用，正式場合停用
Everybody's parents fucked them up.留下來、待著不走
有人列舉父母的問題：有的離開，有的留下，卻在教孩子錯的東西。stuck around 只表示人留在原地沒走。
They either left them, or they stuck around, taught 'em the wrong things.教給孩子錯誤的觀念
They either left them, or they stuck around, taught 'em the wrong things.'em 只留一個很輕的音，別把 them 讀得太滿。
They either left them, or they stuck around, taught 'em the wrong things.儘自己最大努力
And they try their best to be nice to me.互相撐著不分開
They should've done it a lot sooner, but they stuck together for a while for the well-being of my sister and I, thank you very much.為了某人的福祉
They should've done it a lot sooner, but they stuck together for a while for the well-being of my sister and I, thank you very much.氣壞了/惱火——口語裡常見，帶火氣，別對上級或客戶說
to have me, that he was really pissed off when he found out that she was pregnant with me, that I was this big mistake.塑造了我的想法
有人回憶母親曾說這個孩子是‘大錯誤’，隨後用 shaped the way I think 說那件事塑造了自己的想法。
That really shaped the way I think.把世界看作…
I always saw the world as this place where I really wasn't meant to be.定語從句：where 從句修飾 place，說明世界是怎樣的地方；wasn't meant to be 是被動說法。
I always saw the world as this place where I really wasn't meant to be.為此感到自豪
Well, I mean, I eventually took pride in it, like my life was my own doing or something,是我自己造成/選擇的
Well, I mean, I eventually took pride in it, like my life was my own doing or something,不請自來地闖進派對 這裡不是真派對，是說自己像闖進本不屬於自己的世界
like I was crashing the big party.認命了
有人講祖母嫁給一個男人，卻一輩子想著另一個男人；最後用 accepted her fate 收束。
She just accepted her fate. It's so sad.慢慢了解他
If she'd ever got to know him, I'm sure he would have disappointed her eventually.虛擬條件：If she'd = If she had，假設過去沒發生；後面 would have disappointed 接想像結果。
If she'd ever got to know him, I'm sure he would have disappointed her eventually.浪漫想像/投射
有人聽完祖母的故事後，用 romantic projections 說人會把想像套到一切上面，不管現實；對方只追問了一句 Romantic projections?
It's just, people have these romantic projections they put on everything that's not based on any kind of reality.以現實為依據
It's just, people have these romantic projections they put on everything that's not based on any kind of reality.based on any 裡 d 很輕，on any 順勢滑過。
It's just, people have these romantic projections they put on everything that's not based on any kind of reality.看懂「聊父母與愛情」
發音重點
- born into — born into 快說時讓 n 滑進 into，into 輕帶。
- taught 'em — 'em 只留一個很輕的音，別把 them 讀得太滿。
- based on any — based on any 裡 d 很輕，on any 順勢滑過。
I don't think it really matters what generation you're born into.我覺得你生在哪個世代，其實沒那麼重要。 把世代標籤輕輕放下，用平靜口氣說出一整代人的爭論。
Everybody's parents fucked them up.每個人的父母都把孩子搞出了心理問題。 用粗話把創傷說成普遍現象，像自嘲又像認命。
I always saw the world as this place where I really wasn't meant to be.我一直覺得世界是個本來就沒打算讓我待的地方。 把不被需要的感覺寫成空間隱喻，句子慢而冷。
People can live their whole life as a lie.人可以一輩子活在謊言裡。 短句把‘幸福夫妻’的表面幸福一刀劃開，冷靜得刺人。
It's just, people have these romantic projections they put on everything that's not based on any kind of reality.只是人們會把自己那些浪漫想像投射到根本不基於現實的事情上。 把‘浪漫化’拆成 projections，抽象詞用得又準又帶刺。
關於這一章的問題
romantic projections 是什麼意思？
指人給某個人或事物加上浪漫濾鏡，把自己想像的東西投射上去，往往和現實無關。臺詞裡說，人總把這些想像套到一切事物上。
「認命了」英語怎麼說？
可以說 accepted her fate。臺詞裡是 She just accepted her fate，說的是她認了命；說話人緊接著說 It's so sad，帶著惋惜。
same old shit 在這句臺詞裡指什麼？
指上一代反抗之後，這代人還得應付的老一套爛事，卻說不清敵人是誰。shit 是粗話，適合私下吐槽，正式場合別用。
shaped the way I think 是什麼意思？
意思是塑造了我的想法，強調長期形成的看法。臺詞裡前面轉述母親說自己是個大錯誤，隨後一句 That really shaped the way I think。
thank you very much 在這裡是道謝嗎？
不一定。它常放在句末表示不滿或加重語氣；臺詞裡聽不出說話人是真心道謝還是帶刺，別急著斷定。
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