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Lose It Finally 终于要破处IMDb ↗
终于要丢掉处男这回事了
I Love You, Man · 2009
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The story so far
Everything you need before watchingThe fencing team jokes that Eugene is finally going to lose his virginity. Peter just got engaged and nobody invited him camping. A girls' night warns that a man with no friends will cling, and Robbie coaches a male date: lunch and drinks only, no fashion comedies. Learn hitting the road, clinginess, and pickup boundaries.
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Benoit Blancdetective
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Miles Bronbillionaire
Chapters
19 parts · AI-cut01Neighborhood Dining他还在规划一条社区餐饮街A25'05"02Be Proud泳裤里一坨钢丝球，还让人自豪B15'05"03Lose It Finally终于要丢掉处男这回事了B25'04"04Robbie Hooked This多亏罗比牵上线，这局才这么爽B15'05"05Dinner With A Client跟我说去见客户，人却不在饭局C15'06"06My Plezh一句我的荣幸，就把场面圆过去B14'53"07Meeting Him Now我现在正要去见他B25'07"08How Was The Open开放日怎样——他用黑话问回家B15'03"09That Was Really Good他只挤得出一句：那真的很好B25'06"10Rush Is The GreatestRush 是史上最强乐队，没有讨论C14'57"11For The Most Part我不喜欢那个，但大体上还行B25'05"12Bro Namath一上来就兄弟相称，见面先套近乎B15'04"13Raise A Glass举杯先祝这两个人B25'06"14Move Down There海莉，咱们把东西挪到那边去B15'06"15You Look Stiff你看起来僵得要命C15'05"16Thanks Sydney谢谢悉尼，这句我领了B15'11"17Never Rode Bikes我们从没一起骑过车，再见B25'05"18Name Out There至少你的名字传出去了B15'04"19Rikey The Billboards广告牌他倒是喜欢A25'05"
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-Great. -Dirty little slut.
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He's gonna lose his virginity finally.
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l've fucked my girlfriend. He's kidding.
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Right on ! Very cool. Very, very cool. That's cool.
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l would've invited you , man. l just didn't think that you'd be into it .
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You never really come out with us after practice and stuff.
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Oh, no, dude. . . Don't even.
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lt's so fine. Really. Thanks, though. Thank you, but. . .
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You know, it's funny, actually. l just got engaged myself.
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-Wow. That's awesome. -You did? Congratulations.
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-MazeI tov. -That's great.
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Good luck with that.
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-Thank you. And you, too. -Thanks.
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Yeah.
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All right, well, we should probably hit the road .
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-Traffic. -Yes.
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- Have a blast . - Shotgun .
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-We'll be back on Wednesday, right? -Yeah.
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Play a U2 record while you're there.
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-Good. 'Cause of Joshua Tree. -That's right.
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lt's hilarious, know what l mean?
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No, l'm serious. You know what my favorite nights are?
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Hanging out with you girls, and l can do that guilt-free because Barry loves hanging out with his friends, too.
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l mean, every weekend, there's a golf getaway, a ski trip, a weekend in Vegas.
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Wait, Vegas? You're not worried he's gonna cheat on you?
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He's 40 pounds overweight with a Jewfro and a small dick.
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Look, l love the guy to death , but l'm far and away the best-looking woman he's ever gonna get, and l'm only a 7, so, come on.
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Oh, my God. You're not a 7.
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Peter's not a freakazoid .
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l don't know, Zo. l mean, l think this is kind of serious.
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01:41
A guy without friends can be really clingy.
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Like, my brother-in-law drives my sister crazy.
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He's always like, "When are you gonna be home?
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"Where're you going? Can l come with you?
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"But nothing's on TV. What am l gonna do?"
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-That's. . . No, come on. What the. . . -"Be home before midnight."
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Peter's not like that. Please. He's just not like that.
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Well, just wait.
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But anyway, you've got six bridesmaids and a maid of honor.
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lt's gonna be a little weird if we're walking down the aisle alone.
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-Yeah, l know. -He's great.
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-So who's gonna be his best man? -l have no idea.
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l honestly think that his best friend is his mom.
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-Terrible. -No, no, no. Not like that.
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Peter?
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Honey?
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Hey!
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-Hey! -Hey!
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02:29
l made you guys some root beer floats.
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Peter, are those chocolate straws?
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Yeah. Pirouettes. Pepperidge Farm.
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Thank you so much for the floats, baby. That was so sweet.
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My pleasure. Enjoy.
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-Hey, congratulations on the wedding. -Congratulations!
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l know. lt's so exciting. l feel so grown-up.
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-All right, sir. -Okay, ma'am.
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Okay.
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Shit! Do you think he heard us?
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-No. -No way.
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l gotta get some fucking friends.
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This is cool. You're coming to me for help.
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Well, the good news is not only do l know men, but straight guys are my specialty.
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What does that mean?
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l get bored pursuing gays. l like to give myself more of a challenge.
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-Yeah ! -Excuse me one second.
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There you go, brother. Dig deep, come on.
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Push that shit out. Look at me, l'm pinkies. l'm barely touching it.
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You're clear. Locked it in, dude. Nice job. Nice lift.
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-Thanks, man. -You're welcome.
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All right, l'll see you around.
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l hope so.
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-That guy was totally flirting with you. -l told you.
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And did you see his wedding ring? Straight as an arrow.
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l'm telling you, hooking up is easy.
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Meeting platonic male friends, not so much.
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So, what do l do? l mean, how do l meet friends?
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lt's such a weird concept.
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Well, l can do some recon around the gym, but you're gonna have to be aggressive about this, man.
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-Yeah, yeah. -Use the lnternet to meet guys.
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Get Mom to fix you up.
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l mean, if you see a cool-looking guy, strike up a conversation -and ask him on a man-date. -A what?
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-A man-date. -Okay.
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-You know what l mean? -No.
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By that, l mean a casual lunch or after-work drinks, okay?
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No dinner and no movies.
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You're not taking these boys to see The DeviI Wears Prada.
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God, l love that movie.
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No, l won't. l got you. l know what you mean.
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This is really exciting. We're gonna find you some friends.
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-So l'm gonna. . . What do l do? -You don't play much?
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-l used to play a lot of Hearts in college. -This is the same thing.
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l don't even know why he called. This guy hasn't even played poker.
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l don't know. l don't know, but it's Zooey's fiancé, so just shut the fuck up and be nice.
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Well, if l do this, we have sex with the lights on when you get home.
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-Really? -Yeah. Like in Jamaica.
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-Fine. -All night long.
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-Fine. Love you. -All right.
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My brother's a great guy, you know? l mean, he's smart, he's. . .
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Well, actually, l don't know him that well, but l'll give you five free sessions if you take him out.
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Go Beckham !
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05:02
So glad Robbie hooked this up. This is awesome! This is awesome!
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Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoCollocationB1↩ 00:02
lose one's virginity
lose one's virginity
破处；第一次
He's gonna lose his virginity finally.
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Pronunciation↩ 00:02
gonna lose
gonna 是 going to 的口语缩合，lose 才是语义核，别把 gonna 念成三个清晰音节。
He's gonna lose his virginity finally.
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CollocationB1↩ 00:11
be into something
be into something
会对这事感兴趣
l would've invited you , man. l just didn't think that you'd be into it .
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GrammarB2↩ 00:11
l would've invited you
过去虚拟：would have invited：当时若觉得你会来，早就请了。没请的理由叠在后半句。
l would've invited you , man. l just didn't think that you'd be into it .
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CollocationA2↩ 00:22
get engaged
get engaged
刚订了婚
You know, it's funny, actually. l just got engaged myself.
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CollocationB1↩ 00:38
hit the road
hit the road
上路；出发
All right, well, we should probably hit the road .
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Pronunciation↩ 00:38
hit the road
hit the 的 t 在美音里常闪成近似 d，road 重读。
All right, well, we should probably hit the road .
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CollocationB1↩ 00:41
have a blast
have a blast
玩得尽兴
- Have a blast . - Shotgun .
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Shotgun
我要坐副驾——上车前抢前排。这里他们要去约书亚树，有人先喊。
- Have a blast . - Shotgun .
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GrammarB1↩ 01:03
l can do that guilt-free because
因果 because：因为 Barry 也跟兄弟玩，她才能 guilt-free 跟闺蜜耗着。
Hanging out with you girls, and l can do that guilt-free because Barry loves hanging out with his friends, too.
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SlangC1↩ 01:15
Jewfro
犹太人的爆炸头——拿发型开玩笑，带刻板印象，课堂说明即可，别学着骂人。
He's 40 pounds overweight with a Jewfro and a small dick.
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CollocationB2↩ 01:19
far and away the + 最高级
far and away the + 最高级
遥遥领先；绝对是
Look, l love the guy to death , but l'm far and away the best-looking woman he's ever gonna get, and l'm only a 7, so, come on.
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GrammarB2↩ 01:19
l'm far and away the best-looking woman he's ever gonna get
far and away + 最高级：far and away 把最高级锁死：她认定自己绝对是他能得到的最漂亮的。ever gonna get 是她嘴里的将来极限，不是语法练习题。
Look, l love the guy to death , but l'm far and away the best-looking woman he's ever gonna get, and l'm only a 7, so, come on.
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Pronunciation↩ 01:19
love the guy to death
love 和 death 两端加重，中间 the guy 带过。
Look, l love the guy to death , but l'm far and away the best-looking woman he's ever gonna get, and l'm only a 7, so, come on.
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SlangB2↩ 01:36
freakazoid
怪胎；离谱的人——比 freak 更卡通。Denise 说彼得不是那种怪人。
Peter's not a freakazoid .
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Teaching points
Review right after watchingMy level
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IdiomA2↩ 00:00
hit the road
上路离开
In the scene约书亚树车要开了，队友用堵车当借口结束彼得这场尴尬祝贺。
We should hit the road before the freeway jams.趁高速还没堵，我们该上路了。
In daily life
聚会收场It's late. I'm gonna hit the road.不早了，我先走。
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IdiomA2↩ 00:00
have a blast
玩得超开心
In the scene彼得被排除在露营单身派对外，还得笑着祝他们玩得痛快。
Have a blast in Joshua Tree, and text when you have signal.在约书亚树玩开心，有信号再发消息。
In daily life
送行Have a blast at the concert tonight.今晚演唱会玩开心。
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VocabularyB1↩ 00:00
clingy
黏人
In the scene海莉警告：没朋友的男人会把未婚妻当唯一出口，像她姐夫那样。
He texts every hour. It feels clingy, not romantic.他每小时都发消息，这是黏人，不是浪漫。
In daily life
劝朋友Needing a hobby isn't clingy. Asking where you are every night is.缺爱好不算黏；每晚问你在哪才算。
above my level
SlangB2↩ 00:00
do some recon
先去侦察
In the scene罗比答应在健身房帮彼得物色直男，但要他自己主动出击。
I'll do some recon at the gym and see who actually talks.我先在健身房侦察，看谁真会聊天。
In daily life
找餐厅Do some recon on the menu before we book.订位前先把菜单侦察一遍。
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Phrasal verbB1↩ 00:00
strike up a conversation
主动搭话
In the scene罗比教彼得：看见顺眼的男人就开口，再约一顿男性约会。
Strike up a conversation about the game, not about your wedding panic.从比赛聊起，别一开口就是婚礼焦虑。
In daily life
通勤He struck up a conversation about the delayed train.他从晚点火车聊起来。
above my level
SlangB2↩ 00:00
man-date
男性约会
In the scene罗比发明规则：只能午饭或下班喝酒，不准晚饭看电影，以免像约会。
It's a man-date: lunch, no candles, no two-hour movie.这是男性约会：午饭，不点蜡烛，不看两小时电影。
In daily life
约同事Call it a man-date if it helps you actually show up.你要是怕，就叫它男性约会，但人得来。
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SwearingB1↩ 00:00
shut the fuck up
给我闭嘴
In the scene牌局上有人嫌彼得不会打，罗比用脏话按住场面，因为那是佐伊的未婚夫。
Shut the fuck up and just be decent for one night.闭上嘴，今晚就做一回体面人。
In daily life
压场If you can't be nice, shut the fuck up.不能友善就闭嘴。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“Look, l love the guy to death, but l'm far and away the best-looking woman he's ever gonna get, and l'm only a 7, so, come on.”
听着，我爱死这家伙，可我绝对是他这辈子能得到的最好看的女人，而我自己才七分，得了吧。
Why it's great
love to death 先护着，far and away 再把自己锁定成他的上限，最后 only a 7 把自嘲拧紧。
Pattern
love someone to death, but far and away the + 最高级
When to use
护短之后立刻泼冷水，朋友吐槽伴侣时很好用。
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爱死他了 ／ 遥遥领先 ／ 绝对是最…的
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informal
Shadowing tip
to death 往下砸，far and away 拉长，7 轻轻抛出去。
Use it yourself
闺蜜夜I love him to death, but I'm far and away the patient one in that house.我爱死他，可那屋里绝对是我更有耐心。
同事She's far and away the best designer they'll ever hire.她绝对是他们能请来的最好的设计师。
Takeaways
What you walk away with- Hear the fencing team joke that Eugene is finally losing it.
- Learn how to smooth over not being invited camping after a proposal.
- Catch girls' night warning that a man with no friends will cling.
- Follow Robbie's man-date rules: lunch and drinks, no fashion comedies.
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Questions, then the linesWhat happens in this chapter?
The fencing team jokes that Eugene is finally going to lose his virginity. Peter just got。
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