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I Love You, Man · 2009 — Chapter 1 of 19 · 5'00" · B1

Peter Proposes to Zooey, Explained: put a down payment on

Peter proposes and Zooey says yes, then puts her friends on speakerphone to spread the news. The surface is pure celebration, but a line like "He works two cubicles away from me" hints at the real problem the film is about: Peter has no close male friend to stand beside him.

What happens

Peter Klaven proposes to his girlfriend Zooey after eight months of dating, and she happily accepts. She immediately calls her friends Hailey and Denise on speakerphone to share the news. Later, over dinner with his parents and brother, it becomes clear that Peter has never had close male friends, which sets the movie's search for a best man in motion.

ProposalsPhone callsConfessing loveTeasingCoupleB1fastamerican
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put a down payment onin love with youfirst on my speed dialasshole

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Phrase of the scene

put a down payment on

make a deposit payment

At the open house Peter works out how to afford the land and still pay for the reception.

They put a down payment on a small house last spring.

Also in this scene

  • in love with you

    deeply loving you

  • first on my speed dial

    the person I call first

  • asshole

    a vulgar insult

  • set a date

    fix a date

  • cubicles away from

    a few desks away

Everything marked in this scene

25 notes across 103 lines

Phrase · B2dining and retail area

food and shopping zone

I also am planning this neighborhood-y kind of dining and retail area in the central square.
Phrase · B1a little pricey

somewhat expensive

Look, the land is a little pricey, so I couldn't develop it right away,
Phrase · B2put a down payment on something

make a deposit payment

At the open house Peter works out how to afford the land and still pay for the reception.

I figured out I could at least put a down payment on it and still have enough money left over for the reception in Santa Barbara.
Phrase · B1figure out something

work out

I figured out I could at least put a down payment on it and still have enough money left over for the reception in Santa Barbara.
Grammar · B1figured out I could

object clause: The that-clause after figured out spells out exactly what he worked out.

I figured out I could at least put a down payment on it and still have enough money left over for the reception in Santa Barbara.
Phrase · A2be in love with someone

deeply loving you

Peter confesses to Zooey with three adverbs stacked on top of each other, giddy and sincere.

Zooey, I know it's only been eight months, but I am so madly, insanely, ridiculously in love with you.
Grammar · B1it's only been eight months

present perfect: The present perfect stresses that the eight months run right up to now.

Zooey, I know it's only been eight months, but I am so madly, insanely, ridiculously in love with you.
Soundin love with

Link in, love and with so they run together.

Zooey, I know it's only been eight months, but I am so madly, insanely, ridiculously in love with you.
Phrase · A2find a good guy

a decent man

It is impossible to find a good guy in this city.
Phrase · B1a piece of land

a plot of land

-I love that piece of land. It's perfect. -I'm glad.
Slang · B2fucking

an intensifier — A strong intensifier; never in polite or formal talk.

Oh, my God, Zo! I cannot fucking beIieve you didn't caII me first!
Soundpsyched for you

Stress psyched and let for slip by weakly.

No, no, no, I'm totaIIy kidding. I'm so psyched for you.
Slang · B1psyched

excited — Casual and upbeat, common among friends.

No, no, no, I'm totaIIy kidding. I'm so psyched for you.
Slang · C1fat douche

a nasty insult — A crude insult; recognize it, do not reuse it.

Would you give me a second, you fat douche?
Slang · B2asshole

a harsh insult — Heavy slang; avoid it at work or with strangers.

You are such an asshole.
Phrase · B1set a date

fix a date

A friend on the phone asks whether the wedding date has been fixed yet.

Sorry, Zo. Have you set a date?
Phrase · B1book a place

reserve a venue

Peter already booked the place we went for that long weekend.
Phrase · B1a long weekend

an extended weekend

Peter already booked the place we went for that long weekend.
Phrase · A2for the first time

the very first time

That's the place where you guys fucked for the first time, right?
Soundwanna call

Wanna swallows the t of want to in fast speech.

-Who do you wanna call? -I'm okay.
Phrase · B2N cubicles away from someone

a few desks away

Peter explains that Tevin sits only two cubicles away, so calling feels unnecessary.

Well, yeah. He works two cubicles away from me.
Phrase · B2a call-right-away kind of friend

instantly available

No, he's not really a "call right away" kind of friend.
Phrase · A2growing up

while growing up

But did Peter have any good friends growing up?
Grammar · B1so we moved a lot

result clause: So introduces the result of his father's job: the family kept moving.

All right, look, Zooey, just to clarify here, my dad worked for IBM, so we moved a lot when I was a kid.
Phrase · B1connect better with someone

click better with

The point is, Zooey, Peter always connected better with women.

Peter Proposes to Zooey, explained

What's really going on

On the surface this is a happy engagement scene, but the movie is quietly setting up its real subject. When Zooey asks Peter who he'll tell, the only names that come up are a coworker and a fencing buddy, and Peter admits, "He's not really a 'call right away' kind of friend." That one line is the whole premise. Dinner with his family makes it worse: asked about his childhood friends, nobody can name one, and his father insists Peter "always connected better with women." Peter is getting married with no one to stand beside him.

Theme

FriendshipPeter gets engaged surrounded by women but without a single close male friend, which is exactly what the rest of the film tries to fix.
LonelinessZooey has people to call and scream with; Peter, asked who he'll tell, can only name a coworker two cubicles away.

What you'll learn

  • A proposal can be giddy and over the top.
  • Friends cheer loudest when they are a little jealous.
  • A mother can expose a grown man with one question.
  • The phrase 'call right away' quietly ranks a friendship.

Listen for

  • in love with — Link in, love and with so they run together.
  • psyched for you — Stress psyched and let for slip by weakly.
  • wanna call — Wanna swallows the t of want to in fast speech.
Zooey, I know it's only been eight months, but I am so madly, insanely, ridiculously in love with you.

Peter turns a short relationship into a grand, over-the-top declaration, stacking three adverbs to show he isn't embarrassed to sound ridiculous about how he feels.

It is impossible to find a good guy in this city.

A friend's blunt verdict on dating in the city, delivered right after celebrating Zooey's engagement, so it lands as both a joke and a real complaint.

No, he's not really a "call right away" kind of friend.

Peter's own description of his buddy Gil — someone you see at a hobby, not someone you'd phone the moment big news happens.

You do not know how Iucky you are.

One friend tells Zooey she has no idea how lucky she is to have found Peter, cutting straight to how hard good partners are to come by.

Questions about this scene

Why does Zooey put Hailey and Denise on speakerphone?

She's excited and wants to share the engagement immediately. Putting Hailey and Denise on speakerphone lets them hear everything live, which is also why the scene turns chaotic and funny.

Is Peter really as friendless as the dinner suggests?

Yes, that's the point of the dinner. Peter moved constantly as a kid because his father worked for IBM, so he never kept long-term friends, while his brother Robbie always made some. The rest of the film is about Peter fixing that.

Why do Zooey's friends bring up the hot tub in Mexico?

They're close friends with no filter. As soon as the engagement comes up, they drag Zooey's sex life into the conversation, bring up the hot tub in Mexico, and joke that she was old-fashioned in Santa Barbara.

What is Peter planning to do with the land he mentions?

He wants to build a neighborhood-style dining and retail area, possibly with a second location for Zooey's store. He can't develop it right away because the land is pricey, but selling the Ferrigno estate would cover a down payment.

Who is Gil, and why doesn't Peter call him right away?

Gil is someone Peter fences with. Peter says he's not a "call right away" kind of friend, meaning they're activity buddies rather than the person you phone the second you get engaged.

I Love You, Man · 19 chapters

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Up next · Chapter 2take the leapPeter Misses the Joshua Tree Trip
Watching · Chapter 1put a down payment onPeter Proposes to ZooeyChapter 2take the leapPeter Misses the Joshua Tree TripChapter 3strike up a conversationPeter Tries to Make FriendsChapter 4get the hang of itPeter's Awkward Man-DatesChapter 5let one ripPeter Meets Sydney at an Open HouseChapter 6in a jiffPeter Calls Sydney for a Man-DateChapter 7Hands downPeter and Sydney's First Man-DateChapter 8wet my beakTevin Tries to Wet His BeakChapter 9man cavePeter Tours Sydney's Man CaveChapter 10squeeze inPeter Bonds with Sydney Over MusicChapter 11rock your worldPeter Introduces Zooey to RushChapter 12smoking hotPeter Introduces Sydney to His FamilyChapter 13between you and mePeter and Zooey Fight About PrivacyChapter 14bail onSydney Tempts Peter to Skip HBOChapter 15weirded outZooey Confronts Peter About SydneyChapter 16hit it offPeter Asks Sydney to Be Best ManChapter 17good faithZooey Leaves Peter Before the WeddingChapter 18sick ofPeter Confronts Sydney Over BillboardsChapter 19broke the moldPeter and Sydney Make Up
Chapter 1 of 19 · about 80 min to go