Chapter 2 of 19 · 5'05"
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泳裤里一坨钢丝球，还让人自豪
I Love You, Man · 2009
CEFR B1IELTS 5.0homerelationships雅思
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The story so far
Everything you need before watchingAt dinner Dad jokes about steel wool in swim trunks and says Peter poured all his energy into dating, so the guys dropped off. At the office Tevin slips him a vibrating-saddle clip. On the fencing strip he tries to ask someone for a drink; they are already booked for a Joshua Tree bachelor camp. Learn being left out, tagging along, and taking the first step.
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Benoit Blancdetective
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Miles Bronbillionaire
Chapters
19 parts · AI-cut01Neighborhood Dining他还在规划一条社区餐饮街A25'05"02Be Proud泳裤里一坨钢丝球，还让人自豪B15'05"03Lose It Finally终于要丢掉处男这回事了B25'04"04Robbie Hooked This多亏罗比牵上线，这局才这么爽B15'05"05Dinner With A Client跟我说去见客户，人却不在饭局C15'06"06My Plezh一句我的荣幸，就把场面圆过去B14'53"07Meeting Him Now我现在正要去见他B25'07"08How Was The Open开放日怎样——他用黑话问回家B15'03"09That Was Really Good他只挤得出一句：那真的很好B25'06"10Rush Is The GreatestRush 是史上最强乐队，没有讨论C14'57"11For The Most Part我不喜欢那个，但大体上还行B25'05"12Bro Namath一上来就兄弟相称，见面先套近乎B15'04"13Raise A Glass举杯先祝这两个人B25'06"14Move Down There海莉，咱们把东西挪到那边去B15'06"15You Look Stiff你看起来僵得要命C15'05"16Thanks Sydney谢谢悉尼，这句我领了B15'11"17Never Rode Bikes我们从没一起骑过车，再见B25'05"18Name Out There至少你的名字传出去了B15'04"19Rikey The Billboards广告牌他倒是喜欢A25'05"
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00:00
Come on. Okay. Dad, please, stop talking.
这句对白推动了人物关系。
00:00
-Good to know. -Nice.
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00:02
Come on. He had a Speedo full of Brillo. Be proud.
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00:05
God.
天哪。
00:06
Who invited the stand-up comedian over here?
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00:09
Zooey, here's the deal . Peter's always been a " girlfriend guy ."
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00:13
He put all his focus and energy into his relationships, and all his dude friends just fell by the wayside .
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00:18
Zooey, don't listen to him, all right? l mean, we're eight years apart.
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00:21
Barely grew up together in the same house.
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00:23
This is ridiculous. Why is it weird that l had girlfriends?
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00:26
Nothing. We're just saying you never really had a best friend, is all .
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00:28
-Well, who's your best friend? -l have two.
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00:31
Hank Mardukas has been my closest friend since our first year at lBM.
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00:34
-Best man at our wedding. Yeah. -Yeah. Yeah, he was.
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00:36
Talk to him two, three times a week on the phone for 30 years now.
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00:40
And then there's Robbie.
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00:42
What's up?
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00:45
-Robbie is your other best friend? -Correct. And Hank Mardukas.
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01:32
What the shit is he looking at?
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01:42
Davis Dunn Realty, how may l direct your call? Please hold.
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01:46
Hold, please. Put him through to Tevin.
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01:49
lt's very close to downtown. How close do you wanna be?
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01:54
Thank you, sweetheart.
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01:56
l can't get you that close. 'Cause the schools are terrible.
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02:01
The skyscrapers were all lit up. l got down on one knee .
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02:04
She was totally surprised.
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02:06
Well, l'm jealous, Peter, 'cause you never gave me a shot.
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02:10
But you're gonna make the best husband.
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02:12
Stop it. Stop. All right, you can continue now.
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02:19
Morning, Trayce.
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02:24
-Hey, Tevin. -Hey, man.
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02:25
What's so funny?
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02:27
One of the guys in my fantasy football league just sent me a QuickTime.
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02:29
lt's a grandma riding a Sybian machine.
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02:32
What's that?
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02:33
lt's one of those vibrating saddles that women sit on to give them, like, super intense orgasms.
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02:39
Check it out.
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02:42
-Damn! -How sick is that?
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02:44
lt's very. That's very sick.
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02:46
So awesome.
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02:49
Hey. So, what up, dog? How's that Ferrigno dealio coming?
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02:52
lt's coming good. Yeah. l'm getting ready to show in a couple of weeks.
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02:55
Great. Dude, l'm just gonna throw this out there because it's a big piece of house.
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02:59
lf you want a copilot on this, l'd be happy to team up with you.
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03:02
No, l know. l feel like l wanna give myself the challenge -and just see how it goes. . . -Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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03:07
-l appreciate the offer. -No sweat.
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03:09
Hey, anyway, you know, my girlfriend and l. . .
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03:12
Well, we had this very special evening planned, and l. . .
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03:15
She's a squirter! She's squirting ! Peter, we got a squirter!
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03:21
Old Faithful !
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03:24
Hello, fiancée.
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03:26
Hey, baby. I totaIIy forgot. It's my turn to host Iadies' night.
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03:29
No prob. l have fencing practice, anyway.
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03:32
l'll grab a beer with Gil and the boys afterward. Hit them with the big news.
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03:36
-Great! I gotta go. Love you. -l love you, too.
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03:40
Peter! Peter!
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03:42
l'm sending it to you.
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03:44
-No. l don't want it. -You got it.
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03:47
God !
天哪！
03:48
Wait a minute, l didn't even click. . . How does it. . . l didn't even click it on.
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03:52
She's got a bush like a porcupine.
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03:54
l don't wanna know anything about her bush. Hi, Lynette.
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04:04
-Suck it! -Good bout, Gil. Sweet bout!
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04:09
Good job.
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04:11
Wow. Way to go, buddy.
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04:15
-Great bout. -Fuck off!
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04:19
Bro, really sorry l lost my shit out there.
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04:22
l just did not see that ln Quartata coming.
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04:24
Hey, man, don't worry.
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04:25
You know, you came in with a pretty sweet glissade.
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04:27
Anybody seen my manchette?
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04:30
Did you look under your plastron, dick wicker?
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04:32
-Fuck you, Larry! -Fuck you, Eugene.
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-Classic. -Thank you, Larry.
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04:40
Hey, so you guys want to, like, get some grub or grab a beer or something?
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04:44
We're actually heading up to Joshua Tree tonight.
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04:46
Oh, yeah? What's going on up there?
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04:48
We're just doing this thing for Eugene, you know.
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04:50
Kind of a bachelor party/camping trip kind of thing, you know.
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04:55
l didn't even know you were getting married.
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04:57
Yeah. Taking the leap next Sunday.
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05:00
-Great. -Dirty little slut.
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He's gonna lose his virginity finally.
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Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoCollocationB1↩ 00:09
here's the deal
here's the deal
事情是这样的；听好了
Zooey, here's the deal . Peter's always been a " girlfriend guy ."
这句对白推动了人物关系。
GrammarB1↩ 00:09
Peter's always been a "girlfriend guy."
完成时表一贯如此：has always been：到现在一直都是这种人。引号把 girlfriend guy 当成家里的固定标签。
Zooey, here's the deal . Peter's always been a " girlfriend guy ."
这句对白推动了人物关系。
Pronunciation↩ 00:09
here's the deal
here's 的 s 贴 the，deal 重读。听成 heres-the-DEAL。
Zooey, here's the deal . Peter's always been a " girlfriend guy ."
这句对白推动了人物关系。
SlangB2↩ 00:09
girlfriend guy
只会跟女友混的男人——家里拿来损彼得：把精力全给恋爱，兄弟被晾着。
Zooey, here's the deal . Peter's always been a " girlfriend guy ."
这句对白推动了人物关系。
CollocationB2↩ 00:13
fall by the wayside
fall by the wayside
半路被丢掉；渐渐没了
He put all his focus and energy into his relationships, and all his dude friends just fell by the wayside .
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GrammarB1↩ 00:13
put all his focus and energy into
put ... into：把精力全部投入恋爱，后面 and 才说出兄弟被挤掉的结果。
He put all his focus and energy into his relationships, and all his dude friends just fell by the wayside .
这句对白推动了人物关系。
Pronunciation↩ 00:13
fell by the wayside
by / the 都弱读，wayside 才是落点。
He put all his focus and energy into his relationships, and all his dude friends just fell by the wayside .
这句对白推动了人物关系。
CollocationA2↩ 00:21
grow up together
grow up together
一起长大
Barely grew up together in the same house.
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GrammarB2↩ 00:26
you never really had a best friend, is all
口语句尾 is all：is all 把指责收成轻描淡写：我们只是说你从没真正有过死党。
Nothing. We're just saying you never really had a best friend, is all .
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SlangB2↩ 01:32
What the shit
搞什么鬼——What the hell 的加粗版，看着别人发呆时脱口。
What the shit is he looking at?
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CollocationB1↩ 02:01
get down on one knee
get down on one knee
单膝跪下（求婚）
The skyscrapers were all lit up. l got down on one knee .
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Pronunciation↩ 02:01
got down on one knee
down on 连成 dow-non，one knee 的 n 相贴。
The skyscrapers were all lit up. l got down on one knee .
这句对白推动了人物关系。
CollocationB1↩ 04:40
get some grub
get some grub
去搞点吃的
Hey, so you guys want to, like, get some grub or grab a beer or something?
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SlangB1↩ 04:40
grub
吃的、饭菜——口语里的 food。get some grub or grab a beer 是约饭套话。
Hey, so you guys want to, like, get some grub or grab a beer or something?
这句对白推动了人物关系。
CollocationB2↩ 04:57
take the leap
take the leap
跨出那一大步（结婚）
Yeah. Taking the leap next Sunday.
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Teaching points
Review right after watchingMy level
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 00:00
fell by the wayside
半路被丢掉
In the scene家里人说彼得把精力全砸进恋爱，男性朋友全掉在路边。
Gym nights fell by the wayside once the baby arrived.孩子一来，健身夜全被扔路边了。
In daily life
工作The side project fell by the wayside during tax season.报税季一到，副项目就没人管了。
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girlfriend guy
女友脑男友
In the scene老爸给彼得定性：永远把女友放在兄弟前面的那种男人。
He's a girlfriend guy: Friday plans die if she texts.他是女友脑：她一发消息，周五局就黄。
In daily life
吐槽Don't be a girlfriend guy at the reunion. Talk to your old teammates.同学聚会别当女友脑，去跟老队友说两句。
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CollocationA2↩ 00:00
best man
伴郎
In the scene彼得父母把三十年来每周通话的同事汉克当成婚礼伴郎。
I asked my cousin to be best man because we actually grew up together.我请表哥当伴郎，因为我们是一起长大的。
In daily life
婚礼筹备The best man still hasn't written a toast.伴郎还没写祝酒词。
above my level
Phrasal verbB2↩ 00:00
throw this out there
先抛个想法
In the scene特文盯上费力高这栋大房子，随口提出要跟彼得组队卖。
Can I throw this out there? We split the listing and both win.我先抛个想法：房源平分，大家都赢。
In daily life
会议Just throwing this out there: we could move the deadline.先说一句：截止日期也许能挪。
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Phrasal verbB1↩ 00:00
team up with you
跟你组队
In the scene特文要当副驾驶，想跟彼得一起拿下费力高这单大房子。
I'd rather team up with you than fight over the same clients.与其抢同一批客户，我宁可跟你组队。
In daily life
项目Want to team up with me on the presentation?这个汇报要不要跟我组队？
above my level
SwearingB2↩ 00:00
lost my shit
当场失控
In the scene击剑场上彼得没看清那一招，事后向队友道歉自己爆发。
I lost my shit when the referee ignored the foul.裁判当没看见那次犯规，我当场崩了。
In daily life
通勤I almost lost my shit after missing two trains.连误两班车，我差点失控。
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IdiomB1↩ 00:00
taking the leap
跨出那一步
In the scene尤金下周结婚，击剑队轻描淡写说他终于要跨出去了。
She's taking the leap and moving to another city for the job.她要跨出那一步，为工作搬去另一座城。
In daily life
恋爱After three years, they're taking the leap next fall.谈了三年，他们明年秋天要跨出那一步。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“He put all his focus and energy into his relationships, and all his dude friends just fell by the wayside.”
他把全副心思和力气都砸进恋爱里，那帮兄弟就慢慢掉出了路边。
Why it's great
前半句投入，后半句 fall by the wayside 把友情写成被爱情挤掉的路肩，整部片的病因一句话。
Pattern
put all one's energy into X, and Y fall by the wayside
When to use
说某人顾了这头丢了那头：事业、恋爱、健身都能套。
Similar
半路掉队 ／ 渐渐没了 ／ 被挤到一边
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informal
Shadowing tip
focus and energy 连着走，wayside 拉长往下落。
Use it yourself
加班He put every night into the launch, and his gym habit fell by the wayside.他把每晚都砸进上线，健身就半路没了。
恋爱Once the baby came, date nights fell by the wayside.孩子一来，约会夜就掉出了路边。
Takeaways
What you walk away with- Hear Dad joke about a Speedo full of Brillo and tell him to be proud.
- Learn girlfriend guy: all energy into dating, dude friends gone.
- Catch Tevin slipping him a vibrating-saddle clip at the office.
- Watch the fencing invite land after Joshua Tree already booked them.
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At dinner Dad jokes about steel wool in swim trunks and says Peter poured all his energy。
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