“Kyle, we can't help you unless you tell us what's going on.”
凱爾,你不說發生了什麼,我們就幫不了你。
把幫助的前提講清楚,既是界限也是不放棄,是大人給少年的尊重。
We can't help you unless you …
想幫人但對方不肯開口時用,對朋友或孩子說;別在氣頭上說成威脅。
We can't help unless you talk to us. / We're here, but you have to let us in.
中性
can't help you 稍停,unless you tell us 加重。
We can't fix this unless you tell us the truth. 你不說實話,我們沒法解決。
