“and as you're listening to the other person, I want you to see yourself in their shoes.”
聽對方講的時候,我要你把自己放到對方的處境裡想一想。
一句把調解的核心說透:聽別人時,先把自己放進他的鞋裡。
see yourself in someone's shoes
勸人換位思考時用;對剛吵完的兩個人說,比空講道理管用,正式報告裡別用。
put yourself in their position / stand in someone else's shoes
中性
see yourself 連讀,in their shoes 三個詞輕快連成一串。
Before you blame him, try to see yourself in his shoes. 在怪他之前,先試著站到他的位置上想想。
