你呢；你怎麼樣
So how about you?Before Sunrise · 1995 — 第 13 / 20 章 · 2'41" · B2
坦白馬德里失戀：let it sink in
旅途中有人問 So how about you?（那你呢？），被問的人沒直接答，先講起馬德里：攢錢飛過去，前女友卻想盡辦法 avoid being alone with me（避免和我獨處），他多待了一陣，讓這件事 let it sink in（慢慢消化）。聊舊感情、講自己怎麼熬過來，這兩句都用得上。
發生了什麼
旅途中，一人問 So how about you?（那你呢？），被問的一方先說愛情是兩個不會獨處的人的逃避，仔細想想沒有比這更自私的。對方回了一句 You sound like you've just been hurt（聽起來像剛受過傷），他才坦白：自己 save up（攢錢）一整個春天飛去馬德里，前女友卻想盡辦法 avoid being alone with me（避免和我獨處）。他多待了一陣，讓這件事 let it sink in（慢慢消化）。想聊舊感情、講失戀經歷時，這幾個說法都能用。
這場戲看什麼
- 留意先繞後坦白的話術變化
- 注意自嘲如何把尷尬變笑點
- 聽心理醫生段如何轉向黑色幽默
留意這幾個短語
avoid being alone withlet it sink insave upsound like
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let it sink in
慢慢消化；讓人真正意識到take in the full weight of something
講述者說自己沒有馬上離開馬德里，而是多待了一陣，為的是讓「她希望我沒來」這件事 let it sink in，也就是真正沉到心裡。
Give me a day to let it sink in.給我一天時間，讓我消化一下這個訊息。
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- avoid being alone with
避免和某人獨處
- save up
攢錢
- sound like
聽起來像
- how little
（某事）有多麼少
- shift my obsession
轉移執念
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about 的 t 快說時輕輕帶過，直接滑向 you
So how about you?在跟某人交往 這裡不是問身邊有沒有人，而是問是否在戀愛。
- What? - Are you with anyone?迴避這個話題
Um — It's funny how we managed to avoid this subject for so long.如何獨處
Well, I kind of see love as this escape for two people who don't know how to be alone, you know?定語從句：who 從句修飾 two people，說明是哪兩種人：不會獨處的人。
Well, I kind of see love as this escape for two people who don't know how to be alone, you know?談論……如何
People always talk about how love is this totally unselfish, giving thing.介詞賓語從句：about 後接 how 從句，整塊作賓語，說明人們談論的內容。
People always talk about how love is this totally unselfish, giving thing.仔細想想
But if you think about it, there's nothing more selfish.沒有比這更自私的
But if you think about it, there's nothing more selfish.跟某人分手
So, who just broke up with you?聽起來像
對方聽完那段話，回了一句 You sound like you've just been hurt or something，用 sound like 點出他聽起來像剛受過傷。
You sound like you've just been hurt or something.you've 夾在 like 和 just 之間，輕短帶過
You sound like you've just been hurt or something.閒逛；消磨時間 這裡不是把東西掛出去，而是閒逛、消磨時間。
I didn't come to Europe just to hang out and read Hemingway in Paris and shit like that, you know.之類的破事——熟人吐槽可用，正式場合和陌生人面前別用
I didn't come to Europe just to hang out and read Hemingway in Paris and shit like that, you know.和某人一起過夏天
fly to Madrid and spend the summer with my girlfriend who has been — - Your girlfriend? - My ex-girlfriend.終於
and we were reunited at long last, and we went out to dinner our first night with six of her friends — Pedro, Antonio,設法避開
She pretty much managed to avoid being alone with me for the first couple of days,逗留；沒走 不是被粘住，而是留在原地沒走。
and I stuck around for a while just to kinda let it really sink in that she wished I hadn't come.let it 兩個詞幾乎黏在一起，t 在母音間輕輕彈一下
and I stuck around for a while just to kinda let it really sink in that she wished I hadn't come.有點兒——口語裡軟化語氣，寫作和正式發言別用
and I stuck around for a while just to kinda let it really sink in that she wished I hadn't come.……最糟的地方
You know what's the worst thing about somebody breaking up with you?賓語從句：realize 後第一個 that 引導賓語從句，第二個 that 指前文事實；how little 再套一層。
with and you realize that that is how little they're thinking about you.沉浸在痛苦中
You'd like to think that you're both in all this pain, but really, they're心理醫生——熟人聊治療時用，正式介紹或病歷裡別用
That's what the shrink told me, you know?專注於亮色
I was paying her 900 francs an hour to hear that I was a homicidal maniac, but I could perhaps shift my obsession if I would concentrate on bright colors.轉移執念
講述者轉述心理醫生的話：如果能專注看鮮豔的顏色，說不定能把那股執念 shift my obsession，也就是挪個方向。
I was paying her 900 francs an hour to hear that I was a homicidal maniac, but I could perhaps shift my obsession if I would concentrate on bright colors.看懂「坦白馬德里失戀」
發音重點
- how about you — about 的 t 快說時輕輕帶過，直接滑向 you
- like you've — you've 夾在 like 和 just 之間，輕短帶過
- let it — let it 兩個詞幾乎黏在一起，t 在母音間輕輕彈一下
Well, I kind of see love as this escape for two people who don't know how to be alone, you know?嗯，我有點把愛情看成兩個不會獨處的人的逃避，你懂嗎？ 把愛情從浪漫拉回孤獨，kind of 讓斷言變軟，像自我說服。
But if you think about it, there's nothing more selfish.但你要是仔細想想，沒有比這更自私的了。 用 if you think about it 拉人入局，再甩出 nothing more selfish，短促有力。
and I stuck around for a while just to kinda let it really sink in that she wished I hadn't come.我還多待了一陣，就為了讓‘她巴不得我沒來’這件事慢慢沉進心裡。 用 stuck around 和 sink in 寫自虐式清醒，越平靜越扎心。
You know what's the worst thing about somebody breaking up with you?你知道被人分手最糟的是什麼嗎？ 先問再答，把私人經驗變成可共享的洞察，聽者很難不接話。
I was paying her 900 francs an hour to hear that I was a homicidal maniac, but I could perhaps shift my obsession if I would concentrate on bright colors.我每小時付她九百法郎，就為了聽她說我是殺人狂，不過要是我多盯著亮色看，也許能轉移執念。 把心理治療寫成荒誕交易，價錢、診斷、亮色並置，冷麵笑匠。
關於這一章的問題
let it sink in 是什麼意思？
意思是讓一件事慢慢被自己消化、真正意識到。戲裡說他多待了一陣，就是為了讓「她希望我沒來」這件事慢慢沉到心裡。
「避免和某人獨處」英語怎麼說？
可以說 avoid being alone with someone，意思是「避免和某人獨處」。戲裡說前女友頭幾天一直 avoid being alone with me，就是躲著不跟他單獨待在一起。
sound like 和 look like 有什麼區別？
sound like 是「聽起來像」，靠對方說的話或語氣判斷；look like 是「看起來像」，靠眼睛看。戲裡 You sound like you've just been hurt or something 就是聽口氣判斷對方像剛受過傷。
how little they're thinking about you 這句結構怎麼理解？
how little 是「（某事）有多麼少」，後面跟從句，這裡接 they're thinking about you，合起來就是「他們有多麼不在意你」，不是問數量。
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