We're the Millers · 2013 — Chapter 11 of 21 · 6'06" · C1

How David and Rose Met, Explained: a bit of a hiatus

To pass the drive, David tells the story of how he and Rose met: he tried to help her move a painting and it turned into a tug of war that ended in a screaming match. The story is funny because it is honest, and it sets up the real danger waiting ahead.

What happens

On the long drive, David tells the others the story of meeting Rose, which turns a moving-day fight over a painting into a romance. Later the RV breaks down, forcing them to camp overnight with the Fitzgeralds, a friendly couple who turn out to work for the DEA.

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a bit of a hiatus

暂时歇一歇;短暂停摆

唐自称在缉毒局工作,却说自己眼下只是暂时歇业,用来掩饰被撤出一线的真相。

The band is on a hiatus while the singer recovers.

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  • carry one's own weight

    自己的份自己扛;各尽其责

  • a tug of war

    拔河;拉锯战

  • come off like

    给人留下……的印象;显得像

  • a screaming match

    大吵一架;互相吼叫

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Phrase · B2have so many layersYou gotta do a one-woman show. It's, like, so many layers, you know?
Phrase · B2do a one-woman showYou gotta do a one-woman show. It's, like, so many layers, you know?
Phrase · B2heard something a thousand timesNow, hon, just because you've heard it a thousand times...
Grammar · B2just because you've heard it a thousand times

just because ... doesn't mean

Now, hon, just because you've heard it a thousand times...
Phrase · B1all by oneselfShe was unloading this U-Haul all by herself.
Phrase · B2come off like somethingI wanna go help her, but I don't wanna come off like I'm hitting on her, because...
Phrase · B1hit on someoneI wanna go help her, but I don't wanna come off like I'm hitting on her, because...
Phrase · B1at some point...you know, I'd like to hit on her maybe at some point.
Phrase · B2here's someone's shotAnd I'm like, "Okay, here's my shot." All right, so I go outside...
Phrase · B1snap at someone- She just snaps at me. - You started yanking at it.
Phrase · B2a tug of warNext thing you know, it's a tug of war...
Phrase · B2out of nowhere...pulling it back and forth and out of nowhere--
Soundout of nowhere

liaison

...pulling it back and forth and out of nowhere--
Phrase · B2go right through somethingHis fat fist goes right through the canvas.
Phrase · A2it doesn't matter- But it was an accident. - Doesn't matter! You ruined my painting.
Phrase · B2a screaming matchSo we get in this screaming match in front of the whole building.
Phrase · A2fall in love- And then you fell in love. Oh! - Yeah. Then we fell in love.
Phrase · B2be on a hiatusOn a bit of a hiatus at the moment.
Phrase · A2at the momentOn a bit of a hiatus at the moment.
Soundat the moment

liaison

On a bit of a hiatus at the moment.
Phrase · C1not half the something someone isThose young guns aren't half the agent you are, those crumb-bums.
Grammar · C1aren't half the agent you are

not half as

Those young guns aren't half the agent you are, those crumb-bums.
Slang · C1crumb-bumsThose young guns aren't half the agent you are, those crumb-bums.
Soundtake a dump

flap

- We're gonna check on the baby. - Gonna take a dump.
Slang · B2take a dump- We're gonna check on the baby. - Gonna take a dump.
Phrase · B2get one's hands on somethingI'm getting my hands on that baby.
Slang · B2a narcHe's a narc? Are you fucking kidding me?!
Grammar · B2We haven't done anything suspicious yet

present perfect with yet

Stop panicking! We haven't done anything suspicious yet, so just relax!
Phrase · B2game faceGame face, okay? Miller time. Here we go.
Phrase · B2send someone on their wayAh, shoot. I'd give you the hose out of our rig and send you on your way...
Phrase · B2carry one's own weightThat's okay. Millers carry their own weight.
Grammar · B1Millers carry their own weight

simple present for general truth

That's okay. Millers carry their own weight.
Soundtheir own weight

liaison

That's okay. Millers carry their own weight.
Slang · B1a hoot- Hey. - This will be a hoot.

How David and Rose Met, explained

What's really going on

The scene does two jobs at once. The met-story is the film's warmest moment, because it lets the fake couple sound like a real one, and because the fight it describes is more honest than any sweet version would be. "I mean, from that moment, we hated each other" earns the affection that follows. Then the scene quietly turns the corner into danger: the helpful strangers are drug enforcement, and their kindness is about to put the whole lie under a microscope. The narration and the threat are cut together so that the audience feels the drop from warmth to dread, which is where the film's tension actually lives.

Theme

RomanceThe story of how David and Rose met is told as a fight first and a love story second, which makes it feel real.
DeceptionThe family camps with strangers who are actually drug agents, putting the whole fake-family act at risk.

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  • out of nowhere — liaison
  • at the moment — liaison
  • take a dump — flap
  • their own weight — liaison
On a bit of a hiatus at the moment.

A polite way of saying someone has been pulled from active duty, dressed up as a temporary break.

I mean, from that moment, we hated each other.

The punchline of the love story: the honest version is more convincing than any romantic one.

If you're into that kind of mean, pretty thing.

A backhanded compliment about Rose, admitting her looks while naming her temper.

That's okay. Millers carry their own weight.

Their proud refusal of help, which is really the fake family performing competence.

Questions about this scene

How did David and Rose actually meet?

He saw her moving in, tried to help her carry a painting, and the two ended up in a tug of war that tore the canvas. They fought in front of the building before falling for each other.

Why is David's story important?

It shows the fake couple sounding like a real one, which sells the act to the people around them. It also gives the film its warmest scene before the danger returns.

Who are the Fitzgeralds?

A friendly couple who invite the family to camp with them for the night. They are later revealed to work for the DEA, which makes the kindness a threat.

Why does the family panic after meeting Don?

Because Don is a drug enforcement agent, and their whole trip is a drug run. The kids joke about him inspecting the baby, which is exactly what would expose them.

What goes wrong with the RV?

It breaks down near a repair shop that is closed until morning. That forces the family to spend the night with strangers instead of driving on.

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