We're the Millers · 2013 — Chapter 19 of 21 · 3'51" · B1

The Fake Family Falls Apart, Explained: dead in a ditch

The Millers' arrangement cracks when David lets slip that he stands to make half a million dollars. Casey walks out, Kenny follows, and the family splinters over money: "You leave, you get nothing."

What happens

Back at the motel, Kenny returns with a minor injury, but David only cares about the deadline and reveals he is making half a million dollars. Casey and Kenny decide to leave, and Rose is caught between them as the group splits.

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worried sickdead in a ditchout of your minda total joke

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Phrase of the scene

dead in a ditch

死在水沟里;横尸荒野

假父母责备凯西不报平安,说都不知道她是不是死沟里了。

We thought you might be dead in a ditch somewhere.

Also in this scene

  • worried sick

    担心死了、急坏了

  • out of your mind

    疯了、脑子不清醒

  • a total joke

    从头到尾就是个笑话;完全不可信

  • deserve each other

    彼此真配(多指都不怎么样)

Everything marked in this scene

28 notes across 75 lines

Phrase · B1very funnyVery funny.
Soundhave a hair

liaison

You have a hair...
Phrase · A2what's going onWhoa. What's going on in here?
Phrase · B1worried sick- We've been worried sick. - That's right.
Grammar · B1We've been worried sick

present perfect

- We've been worried sick. - That's right.
Phrase · B2dead in a ditchWe didn't know if you were dead in a ditch! Huh?
Grammar · B2if you were dead in a ditch

noun clause with if

We didn't know if you were dead in a ditch! Huh?
Sounddead in a ditch

flap

We didn't know if you were dead in a ditch! Huh?
Phrase · B1couldn't have calledYou couldn't have called? Something?
Slang · B1WhateverFine! Whatever!
Phrase · B1was that so hard- Was that so hard? - Appreciate that.
Slang · B2Un-fucking-believableUn-fucking-believable.
Phrase · B2look like a thousand bucks- Doesn't he? - Like a thousand bucks. Let's go.
Phrase · A2take it easy- Come on, we gotta hurry. Come on! - Take it easy!
SoundTake it easy

liaison

- Come on, we gotta hurry. Come on! - Take it easy!
Phrase · B2run around like a crazy personLook what happens when you run around like a crazy person.
Grammar · B1when you run around like a crazy person

when clause

Look what happens when you run around like a crazy person.
Slang · B2Ken-dollWhat do mean? He's fine. Come on, Ken-doll, hop up. Here we go.
Phrase · B2be out of one's mind...then you're out of your mind. - Whoa. Wait a second.
Soundout of your mind

liaison

...then you're out of your mind. - Whoa. Wait a second.
Phrase · B2if it wasn't for someoneI believe we are, right now, because you wouldn't even be here if it wasn't for us.
Grammar · C1you wouldn't even be here if it wasn't for us

subjunctive if it wasn't for

I believe we are, right now, because you wouldn't even be here if it wasn't for us.
Phrase · B1slow someone downI'd be in Denver now if it wasn't for you slowing me down.
Phrase · A2stay togetherCasey, come back. We have to stay together.
Phrase · B1spend a holiday togetherYou want to spend Christmas together? Help me with my homework?
Phrase · B2be a total jokePlease. This whole thing has been a total joke.
Phrase · B2screw someoneWhat? Are you kidding me? She left! Screw her, okay?
Phrase · B2deserve each otherYou all deserve each other.

The Fake Family Falls Apart, explained

What's really going on

The scene is where the business arrangement finally gets said out loud. Until now the fake family has been a running joke, but the moment money appears, the affection they have built starts to look like a con. David's line, "You leave, you get nothing," shows what he thinks a family is: a contract with a payout. Casey's decision to walk out anyway is the first time someone chooses loyalty over cash. One of them pins it down: "We can't leave her." The group that spent the movie pretending to be a family has to decide whether any of it was real.

Theme

MoneyThe moment a half-million payout is mentioned, the fake family's loyalty turns into a negotiation.
BetrayalCasey and Kenny walk out on David over the lie, while Rose stays, and the group fractures.

Listen for

  • have a hair — liaison
  • dead in a ditch — flap
  • Take it easy — liaison
  • out of your mind — liaison
We didn't know if you were dead in a ditch! Huh?

A melodramatic scolding that treats a late arrival as a family emergency, played for comedy.

You couldn't have called? Something?

The complaint underneath the act: a real family would at least get a text.

You know what? You leave, you get nothing.

David's threat to anyone who walks away, revealing that the whole arrangement runs on payment.

I'd be in Denver now if it wasn't for you slowing me down.

David blaming the others for his delay, dismissing everything they have done for him.

We can't leave her, David. It's not right.

The moral objection that stops the group from abandoning one of their own.

Questions about this scene

Why does Casey decide to leave?

She learns David is making a fortune while keeping the others in the dark. To her the whole trip was a lie dressed up as a family.

Why does David refuse to renegotiate?

He already made a deal with Brad and does not want to share more of the payout. He treats the others as hired help, not partners.

Why does Kenny want to go back for Casey?

He has come to see them as a real family and thinks leaving her behind is wrong. His loyalty is the opposite of David's attitude.

What does dead in a ditch mean?

It is a dramatic way of saying someone has gone missing and might be hurt. The speaker uses it to scold someone for not checking in.

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