這場戲：飯後夫妻為上司吵翻
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漢森夫婦來家裡吃飯，人一走朱莉安娜就翻臉：You have to have boundaries, even with a boss.（就算對上司你也得有分寸）。她還說 It's like you're someone else when he's around.（他一在場你就跟變了個人似的），逼埃裡克辭職。夫妻間想劃清界限、說對方變了一個人，這兩句很實用。
「你得有分寸」：You have to have boundaries
have boundaries 守住界線、有分寸bullshit 胡扯、鬼話It's complicated 說來話長someone else 另一個人、別人
「那樣你更省事吧」：that'd be easier for you
someone else 另一個人、別人that'd be easier for you 那樣你更省事an FBI kind of wife 某種型別的妻子spend my life 把一輩子花在……上
漢森夫婦帶著剩菜到埃裡克家吃飯，席間邦妮拿朱莉安娜的瘦身材打趣，還讓埃裡克做飯前禱告。客人一走，矛盾就爆了：朱莉安娜怪埃裡克連對上司都沒有 boundaries（界線、分寸），質問他母親撞到頭那套 bullshit（鬼話）是怎麼回事，一句「It's complicated」被她拆成「是我聽不懂，還是你不能說」。她越說越委屈，覺得 It's like you're someone else when he's around.（他一在場你就跟變了個人似的），甚至反問 Maybe you want me to be someone else, too.（是不是你也希望我變成另一個人）。想學夫妻吵架時怎麼追問、怎麼表達委屈，這一場全是口語。
A1–C2 是歐標等級。點一個等級後，比它高的卡片會變淡，播放到那裡不會自動暫停。
“You have to have boundaries, even with a boss.”
你得有界線，就算對方是上司也一樣。
把「界線」這條全片主題壓進一句大白話，even with a boss 讓道理落地。
You have to have boundaries, even with (someone).
跟朋友聊怎麼拒絕越界時用；語氣直接，正式報告裡別這麼隨口說。
You need limits, even with your boss. ／ Even a boss should respect your boundaries.
中性
重音在 boundaries 和 boss，even 輕帶。
You have to set limits, even with close friends. 就算對好朋友，你也得劃清界線。
“It's like you're someone else when he's around.”
他一在場，你就像變了個人。
用 like 打個直白的比方，把「你不再是原來的你」說成一句控訴。
It's like you're (someone else) when (someone) is around.
對親近的人說對方在某人面前變了樣時用；語氣重，別在玩笑場合說。
You're a different person around him. ／ It's like you turn into someone else with him.
中性
someone else 連讀，when he's around 一氣呵成。
It's like you're someone else when your old friends are around. 老朋友們一來，你就像變了個人。
“"Complicated," as in I wouldn't understand, or as in you can't tell me?”
「說來話長」，是怕我聽不懂，還是你根本不能告訴我？
把對方一句敷衍拆成兩個選項，用 as in 逼他二選一，句句見血。
"X," as in A, or as in B?
拆穿別人含糊其辭時用；語氣鋒利，談判或正式溝通裡要慎用。
As in you don't want to, or as in you can't? ／ Do you mean A, or do you mean B?
口語
兩個 as in 平行，語調一次比一次低。
"Later," as in tonight, or as in never? 「回頭再說」，是今晚，還是永遠不說？
“Maybe you want me to be someone else, too.”
也許你也希望我是另一個人。
一句 maybe 把猜疑說出口，too 又把矛頭指回自己，委屈裡帶著刺。
Maybe you want me to be (someone/something).
對伴侶或朋友試探對方是否嫌棄自己時用；語氣委屈，別當玩笑說。
Maybe you wish I were someone else. ／ Maybe I'm not the one you want.
口語
Maybe 後微停，someone else 重讀。
Maybe you want me to be more like your sister. 也許你希望我更像你姐姐。
“Bonnie, you really didn't have to go to all this trouble.”
邦妮，你真的不必這麼麻煩的。
標準客套話，really 和 all this trouble 讓感謝聽起來真誠又不失分寸。
You really didn't have to go to all this trouble.
做客、收禮後道謝時用；語氣客氣，對熟人太正式會顯得見外。
You shouldn't have gone to so much trouble. ／ You really didn't have to do all this.
中性
all this trouble 連讀，trouble 尾音壓低。
You really didn't have to go to all this trouble for my birthday. 我過生日，你真的不必這麼費心。
“I just want to grab a drink and go to bed.”
我只想喝一杯，然後去睡覺。
用兩個輕動詞把疲憊和逃避一起說盡，越平淡越顯得撐不住。
I just want to (do something) and (do something).
累到不想多說、想結束談話時用；語氣疲倦，對上級顯得消極要慎用。
I just want a drink and some sleep. ／ All I want is a drink and my bed.
口語
just 弱讀，grab a drink 連讀。
I just want to finish this and go home. 我只想趕緊弄完回家。
下一章 · 14put on yourself把責任往自己身上攬這場戲：門外夜談放棄與責任意思是「界線、分寸」，指人和人之間該守的邊界。You have to have boundaries, even with a boss. 就是「就算對上司也得有分寸」，常用來提醒別把工作關係處得太隨便。
piques my curiosity。It piques my curiosity, as you can imagine. 意思就是「這勾起了我的好奇心」，比 I'm curious 更書面、更有味道。
意思是「住手、別說了」，語氣直接、有點不耐煩。臺詞裡 Knock it off, Jule. 就是讓妻子別再往下說，朋友或夫妻拌嘴時很常用。
that'd be easier for you，常用於反諷。No, that'd be easier for you, wouldn't it? 就是「不，那樣你就輕鬆了，對吧」，指責對方其實是圖自己省事。
她受不了埃裡克一見漢森就變樣，也受不了自己像被矇在鼓裡。她要的不是答案，而是界限和坦白——丈夫卻用「說來話長」「我累了」把她擋回去。
