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They Figured Out Nothing 他们没搞懂你IMDb ↗
博物馆里他突然沉默，她说离开你的人根本没搞懂自己
Signed, Sealed, Delivered: The Vows We Have Made · 2021
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The story so far
Everything you need before watchingInside the London mail museum, Oliver goes quiet. Robin Walker's letter has pulled something up: as a boy he wanted to deliver mail; as a man he had to return to strangers what was lost, because he could not restore what he himself had lost. His mother left. His wife left. He is sure Shane will leave too once she sees who he really is. Shane says they left because they had no clue who they were. She knows him, and she will never leave.
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Oliverfiancé
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Shanefiancée
Chapters
18 parts · AI-cut01Sticky Dead Letters糖浆把死信粘成一团，里面还夹着小孩的画B22'46"02Trust the Timing四天后大婚，礼服戒指都齐了，问她怀没怀上，她没有B11'57"03A Kettle of Crazy亲家提前一天堵在门口，她说妈妈是一壶疯B12'37"04Owen Is Asking for Fred病童还在等一个不知能否回来的人B12'36"05Don't Say Baby医院查不到欧文，孕妇来面试，规矩是别提那个宝宝B12'47"06Mother in the Inner Sanctum妈妈提前一天推开办公室门，说要看看他日常怎么栖息B14'52"07About to Agree With Mom有人憋着一口气承认这次妈说得对B14'05"08The Station on the Envelope有人拿表亲关系把死信送到消防站B13'25"09I'm Not in a Good Place房租和预产期叠在一起，她说自己状态不好，没法当妈B12'59"10The Rest of Us Can't Enter帐篷只留给新郎新娘B13'41"11A Boy and His Stuffed Toy找玩具比结婚还要紧B24'20"12A Tabernacle of Love教堂要把爱藏进圣所B16'09"13The Rest of Your Life Together有人拿余生打圆场却问出了父亲B24'56"14What If We're Hers收养孩子其实在选父母B13'55"15She Left You at the Museum前妻曾把他丢在邮政博物馆，婚礼前他怕再被丢下B15'02"16Love Is a Choice结婚要选最怕的那件事B25'05"17They Figured Out Nothing博物馆里他突然沉默，她说离开你的人根本没搞懂自己B23'19"18Don't Waste a Moment午夜刚过才算婚礼日，表上刻不下相信时机，她改口永远B22'55"
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standing in the London Museum of Mail,
站在伦敦邮政博物馆里，
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reveling in the epic archives
沉浸在那些浩瀚的档案里
00:04
of the British Postal Service.
英国邮政的档案。
00:05
Oh!
哦！
00:07
What are your thoughts on ballooning over Stockholm?
你觉得坐热气球飞过斯德哥尔摩怎么样？
00:11
Oliver?
奥利弗？
00:20
Oliver, you're...
奥利弗，你……
00:22
you're scaring me .
你把我吓坏了。
00:28
You were right.
你说得对。
00:32
Robin Walker's letter...
罗宾·沃克的那封信……
00:36
has awakened...
唤醒了……
00:39
something in me I realize I now must face .
我心里有些东西，我现在必须去面对。
00:46
When I was little...
我小时候……
00:48
I wanted to deliver mail.
就想送信。
00:52
As a man, I had to.
长大成人后，我不得不送。
00:56
I had to...
我必须……
00:58
return to strangers what was lost .
把丢失的东西还给陌生人。
01:06
Because I realized...
因为我明白……
01:08
that what I'd lost ...
我失去的那些……
01:12
I couldn't restore.
我补不回来。
01:15
Go on .
说下去。
01:20
My mother left me.
我妈妈离开了我。
01:27
My wife left me.
我妻子离开了我。
01:33
How long will it be before you --
还要多久你也会——
01:35
Oliver, no.
奥利弗，别这样。
01:37
I can't get it out of my head
我没法把这念头赶出脑子
01:38
that "forever"...
那个「永远」……
01:41
is a promise not everyone can keep ,
是一份不是人人都能守住的承诺，
01:43
especially to me.
尤其是对我。
01:45
Not after they realize that I'm really--
一旦他们看清我其实——
01:47
I'm just--
我不过是——
01:49
Just exactly who you are?
就是你现在这个人？
01:53
Hmm?
嗯？
01:55
Oliver, I'm sorry your wife left.
奥利弗，你妻子离开了，我很难过。
01:59
And I am so sorry your mother left.
你妈妈离开了，我也真心难过。
02:02
But...
可是……
02:05
I'm afraid that somewhere along the line ,
恐怕是从某一步开始，
02:09
you started believing
你开始相信
02:10
that all that leaving had something to do with you.
那些离开都跟你有关。
02:16
They left...
他们离开……
02:18
not because they figured out who you are,
不是因为他们搞懂了你是谁，
02:23
but because they had no clue who they were.
而是因为他们根本没搞懂自己是谁。
02:30
I know who I am, Oliver.
我知道我是谁，奥利弗。
02:36
And I know you.
我也了解你。
02:39
I know you.
我了解你。
02:43
You are the man that I have loved ,
你是我爱过的那个男人，
02:46
and worked with,
一起工作过，
02:49
and cried with,
一起哭过，
02:51
and fought with,
一起吵过，
02:53
and prayed with ,
一起祈祷过，
02:55
and prayed for .
也为你祈祷过。
02:59
I know you.
我了解你。
03:04
And I still love you .
而且我依然爱你。
03:07
I always will,
永远都会，
03:09
and I will never leave you .
我也永远不会离开你。
03:12
I will never leave you .
我永远不会离开你。
03:15
I will never leave you .
我永远不会离开你。
03:20
I will never leave you .
我永远不会离开你。
Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoCollocationB2↩ 00:02
revel in something
revel in something
沉浸、陶醉于
reveling in the epic archives
沉浸在那些浩瀚的档案里
CollocationA2↩ 00:07
one's thoughts on something
one's thoughts on something
对某事的看法
What are your thoughts on ballooning over Stockholm?
你觉得坐热气球飞过斯德哥尔摩怎么样？
Pronunciation↩ 00:22
you're scaring me
you're 弱成 yər，直接连到 scaring
you're scaring me .
你把我吓坏了。
GrammarB2↩ 00:39
something in me I realize I now must face
定语从句：something 后省了 that，I realize…face 整段修饰心里那件事。
something in me I realize I now must face .
我心里有些东西，我现在必须去面对。
GrammarB2↩ 00:58
return to strangers what was lost
宾语后置：本是 return what was lost to strangers，把间接宾语提前，丢失的东西压到句尾。
return to strangers what was lost .
把丢失的东西还给陌生人。
GrammarB1↩ 01:08
what I'd lost
主语从句：what I'd lost 是「我失去的那些」，后面接 I couldn't restore。
that what I'd lost ...
我失去的那些……
SlangA2↩ 01:15
Go on
说下去、继续——催对方把难话说完，口气轻
Go on .
说下去。
GrammarB1↩ 01:33
How long will it be before you
时间从句：How long will it be before… 问还要多久某事就会发生。
How long will it be before you --
还要多久你也会——
CollocationB1↩ 01:37
get something out of one's head
get something out of one's head
没法把这念头甩掉
I can't get it out of my head
我没法把这念头赶出脑子
Pronunciation↩ 01:37
out of my
of 弱成 /əv/，out of 几乎并成一个词
I can't get it out of my head
我没法把这念头赶出脑子
CollocationB1↩ 01:41
a promise someone cannot keep
a promise someone cannot keep
不是人人都能守住的承诺
is a promise not everyone can keep ,
是一份不是人人都能守住的承诺，
CollocationB2↩ 02:05
somewhere along the line
somewhere along the line
不知从哪一步开始
I'm afraid that somewhere along the line ,
恐怕是从某一步开始，
CollocationA2↩ 02:10
have something to do with
have something to do with
跟…有关系
这里指那些离开被他揽成自己的错
that all that leaving had something to do with you.
那些离开都跟你有关。
CollocationA2↩ 02:18
figure someone/something out
figure someone/something out
搞清楚、弄明白
这里是看清你到底是什么样的人
not because they figured out who you are,
不是因为他们搞懂了你是谁，
GrammarB2↩ 02:18
not because they figured out who you are
原因状语：not because 先否定错误原因，下一句 but because 才给真因。
not because they figured out who you are,
不是因为他们搞懂了你是谁，
Pronunciation↩ 02:18
figured out who
figured 的 d 常被吞，听成 figr-out
not because they figured out who you are,
不是因为他们搞懂了你是谁，
CollocationA2↩ 02:23
have no clue
have no clue
完全没头绪
这里是完全不了解自己是谁
but because they had no clue who they were.
而是因为他们根本没搞懂自己是谁。
Pronunciation↩ 02:23
had no clue
重音落在 clue，no 也要咬住
but because they had no clue who they were.
而是因为他们根本没搞懂自己是谁。
SlangA2↩ 02:23
no clue
完全没数——口语里比 don't know 冲，正式写作少用
but because they had no clue who they were.
而是因为他们根本没搞懂自己是谁。
GrammarB1↩ 02:43
the man that I have loved
定语从句：that I have loved 修饰 the man，完成时把爱从过去接到现在。
You are the man that I have loved ,
你是我爱过的那个男人，
CollocationA2↩ 02:53
pray with someone
pray with someone
和某人一起祈祷
and prayed with ,
一起祈祷过，
CollocationA2↩ 02:55
pray for someone
pray for someone
为某人祈祷
and prayed for .
也为你祈祷过。
Pronunciation↩ 03:04
still love you
still 加重，表示爱还在
And I still love you .
而且我依然爱你。
Pronunciation↩ 00:00
never leave you
never 最重，leave you 平稳收
Teaching points
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Phrasal verbA2↩ 02:18
figured out
搞清楚、弄明白
In the scene谢恩说前人离开不是因为看清了奥利弗是谁。
I still haven't figured out why the app keeps crashing.我还没搞清楚这应用为什么一直崩。
In daily life
查账单We need to figure out who charged the extra night.咱们得搞清楚谁多刷了一晚。
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IdiomB1↩ 01:37
get it out of my head
没法甩掉某个念头
In the scene奥利弗说「永远」在脑子里挥之不去，怕没人守得住。
I can't get that interview question out of my head.那道面试题我脑子里甩不掉。
In daily life
失眠复盘I can't get the missed call out of my head.那个没接的电话我怎么都甩不掉。
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 02:05
somewhere along the line
不知从哪一步起
In the scene谢恩说奥利弗中途开始把离开怪到自己头上。
Somewhere along the line, this project became about speed, not quality.不知从哪一步起，这项目变成了拼速度，不拼质量。
In daily life
复盘合作Somewhere along the line we stopped checking with each other.不知从哪一步起，我们不再互相核对了。
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CollocationA2↩ 02:10
had something to do with
跟某事有关系
In the scene谢恩点破：那些离开被他理解成是自己的错。
The delay had something to do with the new vendor.这次延误跟新供应商有关系。
In daily life
解释迟到The traffic jam had something to do with the match.堵车跟那场比赛有关系。
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IdiomA2↩ 02:23
had no clue
完全没头绪
In the scene谢恩说离开的人根本不了解自己是谁。
I have no clue where the spare keys went.备用钥匙去哪了我完全没头绪。
In daily life
问路线I have no clue which bus stops at the hospital.哪班车停医院我完全没数。
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DiscourseB1↩ 00:00
i will never leave you
用重复把誓言钉死
In the scene谢恩把同一句连说四遍，把「永远」从可疑承诺改成她的保证。
I'll be there. I'll be there. I'll be there.我会到。我会到。我会到。
In daily life
安抚孩子I'm right here. I'm right here.我就在这儿。我就在这儿。
above my level
VocabularyB2↩ 00:02
reveling in
沉浸、陶醉于
In the scene开场写两人沉浸在邮政档案展览里，反衬奥利弗突然失神。
She was reveling in the quiet after the guests left.客人走后，她沉浸在那片安静里。
In daily life
周末赖床He's reveling in a morning with no alarms.他沉浸在一个不用闹钟的早晨。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“not because they figured out who you are,”
不是因为他们搞懂了你是谁，
Why it's great
一刀切开他的自我审判：离开不是被看穿。
Pattern
not because they figured out + 从句
When to use
对方把坏事怪到自己头上时，帮他翻案。
Similar
not because they saw through you ／ they didn't leave because they knew you
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literary
Shadowing tip
not because 顿一下，figured out 咬清。
Use it yourself
劝自责朋友They quit not because they figured out your flaws.他们走，不是因为搞懂了你的缺点。
“I will never leave you.”
我永远不会离开你。
Why it's great
最短的承诺句，重复才从安慰变成发誓。
Pattern
I will never + 动词 + you.
When to use
要当面向对方钉死一条底线时。
Similar
I'm not going anywhere. ／ I won't walk away from you.
Register
informal
Shadowing tip
never 加重，leave you 平稳落地。
Use it yourself
安抚伴侣I will never walk out on this.我绝不会甩手不干。
“that all that leaving had something to do with you.”
那些离开都跟你有关。
Why it's great
leaving 当名词，把一串抛弃收成他的错误归因。
Pattern
have something to do with someone
When to use
指出对方把无关的事揽到自己身上时。
Similar
that none of that was about you ／ that their leaving wasn't your fault
Register
informal
Shadowing tip
all that leaving 连成一块，you 落下。
Use it yourself
开导同事The layoffs had nothing to do with your review.裁员跟你的考评没关系。
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ 谢恩的认人誓言
Oliver, I'm sorry your wife left. And I am so sorry your mother left. But... I'm afraid that somewhere along the line, you started believing that all that leaving had something to do with you. They left... not because they figured out who you are, but because they had no clue who they were. I know who I am, Oliver. And I know you. You are the man that I have loved, and worked with, and cried with, and fought with, and prayed with, and prayed for. And I still love you. I always will, and I will never leave you.
奥利弗，你妻子离开了，我很难过。 你妈妈离开了，我也真心难过。 可是…… 恐怕是从某一步开始， 你开始相信 那些离开都跟你有关。 他们离开…… 不是因为他们搞懂了你是谁， 而是因为他们根本没搞懂自己是谁。 我知道我是谁，奥利弗。 我也了解你。 你是我爱过的那个男人， 一起工作过， 一起哭过， 一起吵过， 一起祈祷过， 也为你祈祷过。 而且我依然爱你。 永远都会， 我也永远不会离开你。
先共情两段离开，再翻案，最后用重复钉死承诺。