“You're a broad-minded guy. People change. You gonna hold her past against her?”
你是個心胸開闊的人。人是會變的。你打算拿她的過去來為難她嗎?
先給對方戴高帽,再連拋兩個反問,把「別揪著過去」說得讓人無法反駁。
You gonna hold ... against ...?
勸朋友別拿別人的過去說事時用,語氣直接;對長輩或客戶說會顯得冒犯。
Are you really going to judge her for her past? / People change, give her that much.
口語
People change 短促斷開,最後一問句尾上揚施壓。
People change. You gonna hold one mistake against him forever? 人是會變的。你打算為一次錯誤記他一輩子嗎?