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字幕
我的等级
背景介绍
看之前，知道这些就够了家宴本该围着逾越节仪式和篮球闲聊展开，Howard却在众人起哄时听到Julia的留言。她的暗示让他当场变脸：他压低声音划清界线，要求她今晚搬出公寓，还必须用短信确认。本章适合练习如何在情绪失控时下最后通牒，以及mind games、confirmation by text等口语表达。
发音关注
- How you doing 的 are 弱读
- pick up your 的连读与弱读
- Not a 的 t 弹舌，语气更硬
学习收获
- 掌握 play mind games 的含义
- 会用 out of my apartment 下令
- 学会用 by text 要求确认
重点关注
- 留意Howard从闲聊到爆发
- 听Julia留言里的边界暗示
- 观察重复句式如何加强命令
霍
霍华德 Howard珠宝商
朱
朱莉娅 Julia女友
拉
拉里 Larry家宴宾客
娜
娜塔莉 Natalie家人
霍
霍华德的母亲 Howard's mother母亲
章节
14 段 · AI 拆解01欠债上门当债主堵门你还能说什么C13'00"02情侣争吵吵完架还要不要抱抱C11'48"03球星逛店大客户来了先别急着报价C13'10"04黑欧泊赌局一块石头让人押上明天C14'32"05戒指抵押急着借钱时怎么谈条件C11'41"06餐桌设界线吃饭时也要把界线说清B22'46"07求复合求复合先承认自己搞砸了B22'23"08估价翻脸估价不公时怎么把话说硬C12'48"09拍卖抬价你敢抬价就得接住后果C14'11"10拍卖失算自己挖的坑要自己先认C12'02"11崩溃时有人接住崩溃时有人愿意接住你B23'24"12把欧泊变成赌注把赌注押在相信你的人身上C14'17"13困局里的说服被困住时先用话拖住对方C13'19"14押上全部赌注钱越押越多还要装镇定C17'44"
00:00 / 02:46
金句教学点
字幕稿
00:02
- [man] How you doing , Howie? - [Howard] All right.
- [男声] Howie，你最近怎么样？ - [霍华德] 还行。
00:05
- Pesach, Howard. - All right, Larry.
- 逾越节快乐，霍华德。 - 好的，拉里。
00:07
You're a Jew again? Welcome back.
你又当回犹太人了？欢迎回来。
00:11
- I got some diamonds. - Have a good Pesach.
- 我弄到了一些钻石。 - 逾越节过得愉快。
00:13
It's all right. Hi.
没事。嗨。
00:17
This fucking prick .
这个他妈的混蛋。
00:31
Dip the celery.
把芹菜蘸一下。
00:45
You know who kind of sucks a little bit, overrated? Chris Paul.
你知道谁有点不行、被高估了吗？克里斯·保罗。
00:49
- [man 2] Chris Paul? - [man 1] He's all-NBA , man.
- [男声2] 克里斯·保罗？ - [男声1] 他可是全联盟最佳阵容级别的，伙计。
00:51
He can't do it alone.
他一个人干不了。
00:53
Please, that's enough!
求你们了，够了！
00:56
- Shut up , everybody! - [man 2] All right. All right.
- 大家都闭嘴！ - [男声2] 好了，好了。
00:59
- [woman] Shh. Please. - Natalie, Natalie, you're up.
- [女声] 嘘，拜托。 - 娜塔莉，娜塔莉，到你了。
01:01
Wait, you skipped my dad.
等等，你们漏了我爸。
01:04
Uh, where are we?
呃，我们念到哪儿了？
01:06
Howard, why don't you read the plagues?
霍华德，你来念十灾吧？
01:12
Okay.
好。
01:13
Ma, you take the Hebrew, and I'll take the English.
妈，你念希伯来语，我来念英语。
01:16
Yes, my dear. Here we go.
好，我的宝贝。开始吧。
01:23
Blood.
血。
01:26
Frogs.
青蛙。
01:28
Lice.
虱子。
01:31
Wild animals.
野兽。
01:35
Pestilence.
瘟疫。
01:38
Boils.
疮。
01:41
Hail.
冰雹。
01:44
Locusts.
蝗虫。
01:47
Darkness.
黑暗。
01:50
Death of the firstborn.
长子之死。
01:52
Hard-core back there.
后面那几项可够狠的。
01:55
That can still happen if you don't watch yourselves , kids.
孩子们，你们要是不当心，那些事现在也可能发生。
02:03
Hey, it's Julia. Please don't leave me a message .
你好，我是朱莉娅。请别给我留言。
02:05
- I don't check this. Text me. - Excuse me.
- 我不看语音留言，发短信给我。 - 打扰一下。
02:08
You send me something like that and then you don't pick up your phone ?
你给我发那种东西，然后还不接电话？
02:13
Huh? You were fucking with me ?
啊？你他妈是在耍我？
02:16
I'm trying to have a nice, peaceful dinner with my family, which is something you wouldn't understand because you don't have one .
我正想和家人安安静静吃顿饭——这种感受你不会懂，因为你没有家人。
02:23
You want to play mind games with me?
你想跟我玩心理战？
02:25
Huh?
啊？
02:26
So whatever you meant by your little link , I meant when I said I want you out of my apartment tonight.
所以，不管你发那个小链接是什么意思，我说今晚要你搬出我的公寓，就是这个意思。
02:34
And I want confirmation by text . Not a link . Via text .
而且我要你用短信确认。不是发链接，是短信。
02:39
"Howie, I am gone, 10:00 p.m."
“霍伊，我晚上十点就走。”
02:42
Don't you fucking call me.
你他妈别给我打电话。
语言点
点击卡片，跳回它在片中的位置语法B1↩ 00:02
How you doing
口语省略：口语省略 are，完整说法是 How are you doing?
- [man] How you doing , Howie? - [Howard] All right.
- [男声] Howie，你最近怎么样？ - [霍华德] 还行。
发音↩ 00:02
How you doing
口语省掉 are，how-yə doing 连起来。
- [man] How you doing , Howie? - [Howard] All right.
- [男声] Howie，你最近怎么样？ - [霍华德] 还行。
俚语B2↩ 00:17
fucking prick
他妈的混蛋——粗鲁骂人，正式场合禁用
This fucking prick .
这个他妈的混蛋。
俚语B1↩ 00:45
sucks
很差劲——非正式评价，熟人间常用
You know who kind of sucks a little bit, overrated? Chris Paul.
你知道谁有点不行、被高估了吗？克里斯·保罗。
固定搭配B2↩ 00:49
all-NBA
all-NBA
入选NBA最佳阵容
- [man 2] Chris Paul? - [man 1] He's all-NBA , man.
- [男声2] 克里斯·保罗？ - [男声1] 他可是全联盟最佳阵容级别的，伙计。
俚语A2↩ 00:56
Shut up
闭嘴——命令口吻，冲突场合使用
- Shut up , everybody! - [man 2] All right. All right.
- 大家都闭嘴！ - [男声2] 好了，好了。
俚语B2↩ 01:52
Hard-core
够狠够猛——夸张口语，形容程度很高
Hard-core back there.
后面那几项可够狠的。
固定搭配B1↩ 01:55
watch yourself/yourselves
watch yourself/yourselves
当心点
That can still happen if you don't watch yourselves , kids.
孩子们，你们要是不当心，那些事现在也可能发生。
固定搭配A2↩ 02:03
leave someone a message
leave someone a message
给某人留言
Hey, it's Julia. Please don't leave me a message .
你好，我是朱莉娅。请别给我留言。
固定搭配B1↩ 02:08
pick up the phone
pick up the phone
接电话
You send me something like that and then you don't pick up your phone ?
你给我发那种东西，然后还不接电话？
发音↩ 02:08
pick up your phone
pick_up_your 连读，your 弱读成 yər。
You send me something like that and then you don't pick up your phone ?
你给我发那种东西，然后还不接电话？
俚语B2↩ 02:13
fucking with me
耍我逗我——粗俗口语，表达被戏弄的愤怒
Huh? You were fucking with me ?
啊？你他妈是在耍我？
语法B2↩ 02:16
which is something you wouldn't understand because you don't have one
定语从句：which 补充说明前句，because 从句再给出刺人的理由。
I'm trying to have a nice, peaceful dinner with my family, which is something you wouldn't understand because you don't have one .
我正想和家人安安静静吃顿饭——这种感受你不会懂，因为你没有家人。
发音↩ 02:16
trying to have a
to、a 弱读，trying-tə-hə 连成一串。
I'm trying to have a nice, peaceful dinner with my family, which is something you wouldn't understand because you don't have one .
我正想和家人安安静静吃顿饭——这种感受你不会懂，因为你没有家人。
固定搭配B2↩ 02:23
play mind games with someone
play mind games with someone
跟某人玩心理战
You want to play mind games with me?
你想跟我玩心理战？
固定搭配B2↩ 02:26
want someone out of somewhere
want someone out of somewhere
要某人离开某地
So whatever you meant by your little link , I meant when I said I want you out of my apartment tonight.
所以，不管你发那个小链接是什么意思，我说今晚要你搬出我的公寓，就是这个意思。
语法B2↩ 02:26
whatever you meant by your little link
whatever从句：whatever 引导名词性从句，指“不管你的链接是什么意思”。
So whatever you meant by your little link , I meant when I said I want you out of my apartment tonight.
所以，不管你发那个小链接是什么意思，我说今晚要你搬出我的公寓，就是这个意思。
语法B2↩ 02:26
when I said I want you out of my apartment tonight
时间从句：when 从句说明“我说这话”的时点，内含 want 宾语结构。
So whatever you meant by your little link , I meant when I said I want you out of my apartment tonight.
所以，不管你发那个小链接是什么意思，我说今晚要你搬出我的公寓，就是这个意思。
固定搭配B1↩ 02:34
confirmation by + channel
confirmation by + channel
用短信确认
And I want confirmation by text . Not a link . Via text .
而且我要你用短信确认。不是发链接，是短信。
固定搭配B1↩ 02:34
via + channel
via + channel
通过某个渠道
And I want confirmation by text . Not a link . Via text .
而且我要你用短信确认。不是发链接，是短信。
发音↩ 02:34
Not a link
Not a 中 t 轻弹，a 弱读，语气却重。
And I want confirmation by text . Not a link . Via text .
而且我要你用短信确认。不是发链接，是短信。
发音↩ 02:42
Don't you fucking call
Don't、fucking、call 重读，怒气层层加码。
Don't you fucking call me.
你他妈别给我打电话。
本章教学点
看完视频，正好复习我的等级
会自动暂停
搭配B1↩ 02:34
confirmation by text
用短信确认
剧中语境Howard要求Julia留下书面确认，拒绝她只发链接。
Please send confirmation by email before noon.请在中午前用邮件确认。
日常举例
请假I need confirmation by email for the schedule change.我需要用邮件确认日程变更。
高于我的等级
短语动词B2↩ 02:23
play mind games with someone
玩心理战
剧中语境Howard认为Julia用链接和沉默故意操控他。
I won't play mind games with a client.我不会和客户玩心理战。
日常举例
谈判Let's talk directly instead of playing mind games.我们直接谈，别玩心理战。
高于我的等级
脏话B2↩ 02:13
fucking with me
耍某人、逗弄某人
剧中语境Howard发现自己可能被Julia耍了，愤怒地追问。
Are you fucking with me, or are you serious?你是在耍我，还是认真的？
日常举例
调设备Stop fucking with the settings and help me.别乱动设置，来帮我。
高于我的等级
反讽B2↩ 00:07
welcome back
带刺的欢迎
剧中语境Larry拿Howard重新参加逾越节开玩笑，并非真诚欢迎。
Welcome back—did you survive the trip?欢迎回来——这趟旅行还撑得住吗？
日常举例
同事返岗Welcome back! How was your vacation?欢迎回来！假期过得怎么样？
高于我的等级
词汇B2↩ 01:06
the plagues
十灾
剧中语境家人请Howard朗读《出埃及记》中的十灾。
The book describes ten ancient plagues.这本书描述了古代的十场灾祸。
日常举例
读历史Students compared stories about ancient plagues.学生比较了古代灾祸的故事。
高于我的等级
话语B2↩ 02:26
want someone out of somewhere
要求某人离开某地
剧中语境Howard把含蓄暗示改成明确命令，要求Julia当晚搬走。
I want you out of the office before six.我希望你六点前离开办公室。
日常举例
结束聚会We want everyone out of the room by noon.我们要所有人中午前离开房间。
金句
这句话本身就很棒——棒在哪、怎么用“I'm trying to have a nice, peaceful dinner with my family, which is something you wouldn't understand because you don't have one.”
我正想和家人安安静静吃顿饭——这种感受你不会懂，因为你没有家人。
棒在哪里
前半句礼貌铺垫，后半句突然刺向对方，情绪转折很狠。
句型骨架
I'm trying to..., which is something you wouldn't...
使用场景
表达自己想要的平静，并指出对方无法共情。
同类表达
I'm trying to keep things simple. ／ You wouldn't understand what this feels like.
语域
informal
跟读提示
nice、peaceful 重读，which 前短停，后半句降调。
运用举例
拒绝加班I'm trying to finish this report, which is something you wouldn't understand.我正想把报告做完，这种感受你不会懂。
“And I want confirmation by text. Not a link. Via text.”
而且我要你用短信确认。不是发链接，是短信。
棒在哪里
重复 text 把要求钉死，短促节奏就是边界。
句型骨架
I want confirmation by [channel].
使用场景
要求对方留下可核对的书面确认。
同类表达
Please confirm this by email. ／ I need your confirmation in writing.
语域
neutral
跟读提示
confirmation、text 重读，Not a link 后停顿，再压低 Via text。
运用举例
改期确认I want confirmation by email, not a call.我要你用邮件确认，不要打电话。
精彩独白
一个人撑起的一段戏，值得整段跟读❝ 电话里的最后通牒
You send me something like that and then you don't pick up your phone? Huh? You were fucking with me? I'm trying to have a nice, peaceful dinner with my family, which is something you wouldn't understand because you don't have one. You want to play mind games with me? Huh? So whatever you meant by your little link, I meant when I said I want you out of my apartment tonight. And I want confirmation by text. Not a link. Via text. "Howie, I am gone, 10:00 p.m." Don't you fucking call me.
你给我发那种东西，然后还不接电话？ 啊？你他妈是在耍我？ 我正想和家人安安静静吃顿饭——这种感受你不会懂，因为你没有家人。 你想跟我玩心理战？ 啊？ 所以，不管你发那个小链接是什么意思，我说今晚要你搬出我的公寓，就是这个意思。 而且我要你用短信确认。不是发链接，是短信。 “霍伊，我晚上十点就走。” 你他妈别给我打电话。
从质问到下令，短句把怒气和控制感逐步推高。
本章要点
看完能带走什么- 掌握 play mind games 的真实口语含义
- 会用 want you out of 明确赶人
- 见到 confirmation by text 能听懂书面确认
- 听出 Not a link 的重复如何强化边界
常被搜到的问题
先看问题，再对照台词Setting a boundary at dinner 是什么意思？
指在晚餐冲突中明确告诉对方界限和后果；本章里Howard要求Julia当晚搬走并短信确认。
play mind games 是什么意思？
指用暗示、沉默或试探操控对方，也就是“玩心理战”。
confirmation by text 怎么翻译？
可以译成“用短信确认”或“通过短信给出确认”。
I'm trying to have a nice, peaceful dinner 怎么翻译？
意思是“我正想和家人安安静静吃顿饭”，语气表面平静，实际带着不耐烦。
Via text 和 by text 有什么区别？
两者都表示通过短信；via text 更像Howard在争执中反复强调渠道。