self-engrossed只顧自己

先甩一句「你丈夫」，再讓畫面自己說話，抱怨全藏在細節裡。

Comes up for a day and heads straight for ...

想吐槽某人來了也不陪你時能用；當著本人面說容易當場吵起來。

Shows up for a day and parks himself in front of the TV. ／ Drops by for one day and goes straight for his phone.

口語

Your husband 後停一下，heads straight for 連讀，句尾放平收。

He came up for a day and headed straight for the video games. 他大老遠來待一天，結果一進門就扎進遊戲裡。

兩個反問連珠炮，self-engrossed 一詞把人釘死在自私上。

Are you so ...? You're so ..., you don't ...

當面質問自私的人時能用；出口很重，別對親近的人隨便說。

Are you that selfish? You're so wrapped up in yourself. ／ How can you be so self-absorbed and not see who you hurt?

口語

so selfish 拉長加重，didn't give a shit 快讀帶過。

Are you so busy? You're so wrapped up in your own work you forget the team. 你就那麼忙嗎？你滿腦子只有自己那點活，把整個團隊都忘了。

一句反問把對方貶到底，怒氣全壓在「你以為」三個字裡。

Who do you think you're talking to?

被人輕視、被當成好糊弄的物件時能用；對上級或長輩說會非常冒犯。

Who do you think you're talking to? ／ Do you know who you're talking to?

口語

think you're 連讀，talking to 後停頓，句尾上揚逼問。

Who do you think you're talking to, some intern you can push around? 你以為你在跟誰說話，把我當成隨便使喚的實習生？

give away 既指出賣，也指把她讓給姐姐，一句話算總賬。

You gave me away to ...

指控別人把自己出賣給親人時能用；語氣極重，別在飯桌上隨口說。

You sold me out to my own sister. ／ You handed me over to her.

口語

gave me away 連讀，to my sister 尾音壓低，像在判決。

You gave me away to the whole office. 你把我的事全捅給了整個辦公室。