talk down your nose居高临下

一句把伤害翻转成理解，是玛丽最深的偏爱，也是她的盲点。

If X hurt me, it's because X has been hurt

替一个伤害过你的人辩解时用；清醒的朋友听了通常会劝你别这样想。

He only lashes out because he's hurting. ／ If she's cruel, it's because life was cruel to her first.

中性

hurt 重读两次，because 轻带，句尾下沉。

If he snapped at you, it's because he's been under pressure. 他要是冲你发火，那是因为他一直压力太大。

把「你站着说话不腰疼」说得又准又疼，落差一句话交代完。

It's all right for you, you ...

觉得对方处境好、体会不到你的难时用；对不熟的人说会显得刻薄。

Easy for you to say, you have options. ／ Must be nice to know where you're headed.

口语

all right 连读，you're secure 重读，句尾带刺上扬。

It's all right for you, you already have a job lined up. 你当然轻松，你工作都找好了。

一句拆穿所有借口，gonna 的口语味让这句更不留情面。

You weren't gonna do X, and you know it

拆穿熟人嘴硬时用；语气很冲，别对长辈或客户这么说。

You never meant to wait, and you know it. ／ We both know you weren't going to stay.

口语

gonna 读成一词，know it 重读，句尾干脆。

You weren't gonna call him anyway, and you know it. 你本来就没打算给他打电话，你自己清楚。

用一串具体名词摆出两个人出身的差距，不控诉却比控诉更有分量。

[Someone]'s had none of the things you've had: [X], [Y], [Z].

替处境差的人辩解、请对方多体谅时用；在争执里说，也可能让对方觉得被道德绑架。

He never had the start you had. ／ You had everything he went without.

中性

none of the things 连读，home, education, friends 三个词逐个落重。

She's had none of the things you've had: training, mentors, time. 她从没有过你有的那些：培训、导师、时间。