lower the boom突然動真格發難

用生意人口頭禪挽留關係：我們在賺錢，何必拆夥。溫情和算計擠在同一句裡。

We got a good thing going.

勸對方別破壞現有合作或關係時用；對已經心冷的人別用，只會像算計。

This is working, don't break it. ／ We're onto something good here.

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good thing going 連讀，Big Daddy 放慢收尾。

We've got something good here. Let's not blow it up. 咱們這攤子挺好，別給搞砸了。

The two of us work well together. Why break that? 咱倆配合得挺好，幹嗎要拆夥？

把被拋棄說成一次交易升級：找到更好的就換掉舊的。一句點破關係裡的功利邏輯。

You find a better deal, and you just dump me.

指責對方見利忘義、用完就丟時用；氣頭上對親近的人說，往往再也收不回。

You trade people in when something better comes along. ／ I was useful until I wasn't.

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better deal 重讀，dump me 下沉收尾。

You found a cheaper option and dropped me without a word. 你找到更便宜的，就一聲不吭把我甩了。

They found a better fit and just moved on. 他們找到更合適的人，就直接把我換了。

用反問清點自己多年的付出，把感激算成債務。付出越多的人越容易這樣算賬。

Who's always been there for you when ...?

關係破裂時清點自己的付出、質問對方時用；對還愛著的人別用，是把情分當賬本。

Who stuck around when nobody else did? ／ I was there every time you needed someone.

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always 重讀，moping, complaining 並列放慢。

Who drove you to every appointment when you had no one else? 你沒別人可依靠時，是誰開車陪你去每一趟？

Who listened to you complain every night for a year? 整整一年，是誰每晚聽你抱怨？

用 It's you who 的強調句把責任釘死，還把自己稱作第三人稱的 Bob Crane——連自我都交了出去。

It's you who brought ... down.

強烈指責某人是失敗的根源時用；對還想挽回的人別用，這句話說出就再難回頭。

You're the one who ruined it. ／ It was you all along.

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It's you who 重讀，brought ... down 放慢收尾。

It's you who wrecked the whole project. 是你把整個專案搞砸的。

You're the one who brought the team down. 是你把整個團隊拖垮的。

用第三人稱為自己辯護，像在替一個陌生人作證。最痛的自我肯定，往往要借別人的名字說。

Someone is a good guy.

在被人貶低後替自己正名時用；對正在氣頭上的人別用，你越辯解對方越不信。

He's a decent man. ／ I know I'm a good person.

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good guy 重讀，句尾下沉。

Sam is a decent man, whatever people say. 不管別人怎麼說，山姆是個正派人。

I'm not a bad person, no matter what happened. 不管發生了什麼，我都不是壞人。