“I know it's a pain in the arse, but it's a necessary pain in the arse.”
我知道這玩意兒煩死了,但不煩不行。
承認它討厭,同時認定它躲不掉:不是用「為你好」來粉飾,而是把麻煩和必要放在同一句裡。這種先共情再堅持的說法,比單純下命令更容易被接受。
I know it's a ..., but it's a necessary ...
要求別人做一件確實煩人卻必須做的事時用,先認同對方的感受再堅持立場。
It's a pain, but it has to be done. / Nobody likes it, and we still need it.
口語
a pain in the arse 重讀,necessary 放慢強調,句尾略降。
I know it's a hassle, but it's a necessary hassle. 我知道這很麻煩,但這是必須的麻煩。
