这场戏：父女为冰淇淋吵翻
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乔端着巧克力碎冰淇淋去哄十三岁的女儿达里安，女儿却甩脸子、骂他废物。乔没发火，反而冷冷地回一句 I'll miss all those pleasant things（我会想念你那些暖心话），接着又拿亲戚开涮。想学怎么在家庭争吵里保持毒舌、又怎么表达「慢慢就习惯了」，这场很地道。
「我可讨厌浪费食物了」：I hate to waste food
got some ice cream 弄到了一些冰淇淋go out on a date 出去跟人约会chocolate chip 巧克力碎口味waste food 浪费食物
乔买了巧克力碎冰淇淋想哄女儿达里安，可十三岁的她正因为被禁止跟汤米约会而火大，张口就是别烦我、我恨你、你就是个混蛋。乔不接招，反而一脸讽刺地说，会想念女儿平时那些暖心话，还揶揄她要不要再来几句更狠的；两人越说越僵，乔罚她禁足一星期。好友劝他 go easy on（对孩子别太苛刻），乔立刻回呛别教他怎么跟孩子说话。吵到最后，达里安骂他废物，乔反问凭什么，才知道妻子也在电话里这么叫他；他于是反讽那位从不搞砸的杰伊叔叔，才是真正的 a stand-up guy（所谓正人君子）。
A1–C2 是欧标等级。点一个等级后，比它高的卡片会变淡，播放到那里不会自动暂停。
“You wanna be left alone, don't you?”
你想一个人待着，对吧？
一句就把对方的抵触摸透，问得像让步，其实是看穿了。
You wanna ..., don't you?
对方明显在闹别扭时用这句点破又不逼人；正式场合别用。
You need some space, right? ／ You want to be by yourself, don't you?
口语
wanna 连读，don't you 轻轻收，尾音上扬。
You wanna be left alone for a while, don't you? 你想一个人待会儿，对吧？
“I'll miss all those pleasant things you always say to me. "Hey, Dad, I hate you."”
我会想念你老跟我说的那些暖心话。「嘿，老爸，我恨你。」
把女儿的骂声反着夸成暖心话，冷幽默里全是当爹的无奈。
I'll miss all those ... you always ...
被熟人甩狠话时用来反讽，熟人之间才用，正式场合别学。
I'll miss all that love you send my way. ／ I sure will miss your kind words.
口语
重读 miss 和 pleasant，引语前稍停再压低。
I'll miss all those helpful comments you always leave. 我会想念你老留的那些「热心」评论。
“You know how I hate to waste food.”
你知道我多讨厌浪费食物。
把不肯让步说成节约，耍赖还占着理，父亲的小算盘全在里头。
You know how I hate to ...
想让对方接受你的理由时用，带点玩笑的压迫感，别对领导说。
You know how much I hate wasting things. ／ You know I can't stand to throw food away.
口语
hate to waste 连读，waste 重读。
You know how I hate to waste food, so let's box it up. 你知道我最见不得浪费，咱们打包吧。
“It's bad enough I gotta hear this shit all day, I gotta get it from you too?”
我成天听这些屁话就够受了，还得从你嘴里再听一遍？
把白天的憋屈一股脑倒出来，反问里全是一个中年男人的疲惫。
It's bad enough I gotta ..., I gotta ... too?
自己已经受够还想再被加码时用，气头上说，别在正式场合用。
It's bad enough I hear it at work, now from you too? ／ I get enough of this all day without it at home.
口语
bad enough 重读，gotta 各缩成一词，句尾上扬。
It's bad enough I gotta hear it all day, I gotta get it at home too? 我白天听一天就够受了，回家还得再听？
“You are my daughter, you're in my house. You will respect me. You got that?”
你是我女儿，你住在我家里。你得尊重我。听明白了吗？
三句短句层层加码，把当爹的最后一点权威硬撑出来。
You are ..., you're in ... . You will ... . You got that?
被晚辈顶撞到没词时用来立规矩，压得住场面，亲人间说很重。
You live under my roof, so you will respect me. ／ I'm your father and you'll do as I say. Understood?
正式
三处 You 都重读，句间停顿，最后 got that 下压。
You're in my house, and you will respect me. You got that? 你住在我家，就得尊重我。听明白了吗？
“Oh, Christ. I'm a fuckup, but Uncle Jay, now, there's a real stand-up guy.”
哦，天呐。我是个废物，可杰伊叔叔，啧啧，那才叫真正的正人君子。
先认下自己的骂名，再拿反话把舅舅捧上天，酸得一句顶三句。
I'm a ..., but ..., now, there's a real ...
要用反话挤对别人时用，熟人听得懂，正式场合别拿来骂人。
I may be bad, but he's a real gentleman. ／ I'm the mess, and he is the saint.
口语
real 重读拖长，stand-up guy 放慢咬清。
I'm no angel, but cousin Jay, now, there's a real role model. 我不算好人，可杰伊表哥，那才叫真正的榜样。
下一章 · 12out of nowhere毫无征兆这场戏：酒吧里倒出丧子往事意思是「对某人手下留情、别太苛刻」，常劝人批评或惩罚时留点余地。go easy on someone 就是「对某人温和一点」。
意思是「坐牢、服刑」。time 在俚语里指刑期，do time 就是蹲监狱，do time for something 指因为某事坐牢。
本意是「靠得住的正派人」，形容一个人有担当、讲信用。片里是反着用，乔讽刺那个逃税的亲戚，语气全是鄙夷。
字面是「讨人喜欢的性格」，但常被反着说。说某人 got your winning personality，其实是在挖苦对方脾气差、招人烦。
get used to it。used to 后接名词或动名词，表示对某事逐渐习以为常，比如 You get used to it 就是「你慢慢就习惯了」。
