Let’s form a plan here.Barbie · 2023 — Chapter 15 of 26 · 2'45" · B1
Sasha and Her Mom Pick Up Barbie, Explained: come off it
A woman and her daughter find a life-size Barbie in their car, and the mom confesses the truth behind the drawings: "I’m just a boring mom with a boring job and a daughter who hates me." She wanted a little fun, and Barbie's deadpan face and cellulite turn out to be her own creations.
What happens
Barbie is picked up by Sasha and her mother, who are stunned to find a live doll in the car. The mother admits she is a bored woman who wanted some fun, and the two realize her sad drawings were what changed Barbie's world. Later she vents that everybody hates women, and Sasha argues back while they drive.
Listen for
come off itshotgunwide awakeshining
Phrase of the scene
come off it
得了吧;别装/别来这套
母亲对萨莎说想帮助女性,女儿不信这套说辞,当场用这句话反驳,并说出更刺耳的判断。
Come off it, you didn't forget, you just didn't want to come.
Also in this scene
- shotgun
the front passenger seat
- wide awake
fully awake and alert
- shining
glowing; also mind-reading, as in The Shining
Everything marked in this scene
23 notes across 51 lines
I would normally have shotgun. I’ll go in the first one.Hang on.liaison
Hang on.How are you here? You’re like an idea.used to
And I found those Barbies we used to play with--I thought we gave those away. - Well, I started playing with them.and maybe because I couldn’t be like you, I ended up making you like me.end up doing
and maybe because I couldn’t be like you, I ended up making you like me.Did any of these drawings by chance have thoughts of death and cellulite?liaison
Did any of these drawings by chance have thoughts of death and cellulite?- I came for you! - You came for me!elision
- I came for you! - You came for me!I don’t even know where to start with this wishing-a-Barbie-to-life crap.Can you blame me for wanting to have a little fun?gerund after preposition
Can you blame me for wanting to have a little fun?I gotta lose these chuckleheads.I think I owe you ladies an apology.I thought that Barbie had made the Real World better, but the Real World is forever and irrevocably messed up!past perfect
I thought that Barbie had made the Real World better, but the Real World is forever and irrevocably messed up!Oh, come off it, everybody hates women.Hate is a strong word. - Wake up, Mom!fully awake and alert
Sasha tells her mom to wake up, and her mom insists she is fully aware.
I am wide awake, Sasha! - [gasps]Sasha and Her Mom Pick Up Barbie, explained
What's really going on
The scene quietly hands the film's meaning to an ordinary woman. The mom is not a villain but someone worn down by a flat life, and her confession — "I’m just a boring mom with a boring job and a daughter who hates me." — explains why Barbie's world turned strange: the drawings came from her. Her later outburst, "Oh, come off it, everybody hates women.", is not a thesis the film endorses but the sound of exhaustion, and Sasha pushes back on it at once. What the film is really showing is that a mother and a daughter can love each other and still fail to understand each other, and that the woman who reinvents Barbie is also the one who needs to be seen. The car chase is comic, but the ache underneath is real.
Theme
Listen for
- Hang on — liaison
- by chance — liaison
- came for you — elision
How are you here? You’re like an idea.The question of the scene: Barbie has stepped out of the world of ideas and into the real one, which should be impossible.
I’m just a boring mom with a boring job and a daughter who hates me.The mother's self-description, delivered as both self-pity and an explanation for why she reached for a little joy.
I thought that Barbie had made the Real World better, but the Real World is forever and irrevocably messed up!Barbie's disillusioned conclusion: the belief that she improved the world has collapsed, and she says so bluntly.
Oh, come off it, everybody hates women.An outburst of exhaustion rather than a considered claim, and the film's own characters immediately push back on it.
It’s the one thing we can all agree on.A bitter punchline about a society that rarely agrees on anything except, as she claims, this.
Questions about this scene
Why does Barbie's world go wrong?
Because of the mother's drawings. As she admits, when she felt sad and weird, the drawings did too, and that is where the thoughts of death and cellulite came from.
What does the mother mean by "a boring mom"?
She is describing herself as an ordinary woman with a dull life who wanted a little fun. It is self-mocking but also an honest cry of loneliness.
Does the film believe that everybody hates women?
No. The line is spoken in frustration and immediately challenged, so it reads as the character's bitterness rather than the film's message.
Why is the mother driving so fast?
Mattel's people are chasing them, so she speeds up to shake them off. Her earlier confession about wanting a little fun makes the reckless driving feel very much in character.
How do the mother and daughter get along?
They snipe at each other constantly, yet they are driving together and clearly connected, and the banter is a working relationship rather than a broken one.
Barbie · 26 chapters
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Up next · Chapter 16dream upBarbie Flees to Barbie Land
Chapter 1burst their bubbleBarbie Rewrites the Doll Story
Chapter 2the voice of a generationBarbie's Perfect Day in Barbie Land
Chapter 3beach offKen Beaches Off and Gets Hurt
Chapter 4dying toBarbie Asks About Dying
Chapter 5fall into disrepairBarbie's Heels Touch the Ground
Chapter 6be that as it mayBarbie Opens a Portal to Reality
Chapter 7a figure of speechBarbie Leaves Barbie Land
Chapter 8hold it against meBarbie and Ken Hit the Real World
Chapter 9man upThe Mattel Men Celebrate Themselves
Chapter 10with all due respectMattel Panics Over Barbie in LA
Chapter 11the last resortSasha Confronts Barbie
Chapter 12seek my fortuneKen Tries to Bring Patriarchy Home
Chapter 13up the wazooMattel Execs Try to Box Barbie
Chapter 14Isn't that marvelousBarbie Meets Ruth at Mattel
Watching · Chapter 15come off itSasha and Her Mom Pick Up Barbie
Chapter 16dream upBarbie Flees to Barbie Land
Chapter 17fly off the shelvesBarbie Finds Ken's Casa House
Chapter 18snap out of itKen Takes Over Barbie Land
Chapter 19make a run for itBarbie Hits Her Lowest Point
Chapter 20existential crisisIt's Impossible to Be a Woman
Chapter 21tie herself into knotsGloria's Monologue About Women
Chapter 22the old standbyThe Barbies Plot Their Return
Chapter 23take advantage ofThe Kens Build a Patriarchy
Chapter 24took you for grantedBarbie Apologizes to Ken
Chapter 25hold on toBarbie Tells Ken to Find Himself
Chapter 26living in the shadowsBarbie Says Maybe She's Not Barbie