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我的等级
背景介绍
看之前，知道这些就够了贝丝宿醉醒来，桌上已摆好解酒的咖啡和水。弗兰克试探：知道我是同性恋，你还会一样看我吗？贝丝说不难受，却从没认识过出柜的人。他求她别告诉家里；沃利揭开假妻子照片，用荣誉和斩首说明自己回不了家。学 get past it。
发音关注
- 'cause 是 because 的吞音
- How you 后面省了 are
- I'd 里的 would 要弱读
学习收获
- 掌握 bring shame on 用法
- 学会用 get past it 表释怀
- 学会礼貌请求 appreciate it
重点关注
- 注意弗兰克如何试探贝丝
- 听沃利何时拆穿假妻子
- 对比两家荣誉的分量
弗
弗兰克 Frank贝丝的叔叔
贝
贝丝 Beth侄女
沃
沃利 Wally弗兰克伴侣
章节
17 段 · AI 拆解01生日冷落叔叔全家没人拿她当回事，只有叔叔会对着她说话B23'25"02改名叫贝丝离开小镇才看见世界能有多大，他把Betty改成BethB23'05"03假女友晚餐饭桌上禁忌一提全场变了B22'10"04食堂识布鲁斯食堂里互报家乡，他对外却说来自格林尼治B11'53"05酒后坦白出柜醉得站不稳，叔叔才把同居十年说出口B13'14"06早餐谈出柜宿醉醒来咖啡已经摆好，他求她别把出柜告诉家里B12'26"07父亲猝死噩耗来时该不该带伴侣回去B12'56"08车上剖布鲁斯再也见不到麦老爹，车里却要把布鲁斯这个混蛋骂到位B22'11"09半路杀出沃利说好留下的人还是追上来了B11'42"10车上拆家族别把客气当成没有秘密B13'07"11弟弟道歉灵堂里弟弟先把父亲讲完整，才承认自己几乎没联系B11'58"12名声与旅馆电话里还叫她Betty，她顶回去：我叫贝丝，不是一个人住B11'56"13悼词叠旧伤颂词里他是慈父，切回去却在把儿子骂进火湖B22'58"14守灵闲话守灵席上从纽约口音聊到名人，话锋却要绕开沃利B23'36"15遗嘱当众羞辱当着全家人宣读遗嘱，长子分到的只有对他的厌恶C11'53"16墓前认家人墓前他说没有家人，沃利顶回来：我就是B14'35"17带他见家人他把沃利带进老家，弟弟只甩出两个字：没问题B12'59"
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金句教学点
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00:02
There's coffee on the table,
桌上有咖啡，
00:03
two aspirin and a big glass of water.
两片阿司匹林，还有一大杯水。
00:05
You should... You should drink it.
你该……你该把它喝了。
00:11
Oh, please tell me you eat bacon.
噢，求你告诉我你吃培根。
00:15
Good, 'cause Wally, he hates even the smell of it.
太好了，因为沃利连闻都不想闻。
00:18
But I'm a good Southern boy, and bacon's in my blood .
可我是正经南方小子，培根都刻在骨头里。
00:29
So, you feel any different about me?
那，你对我的看法有没有变？
00:34
Oh, I don't think so .
噢，我觉得没有。
00:37
Never known anybody who was gay before.
以前从没认识过同性恋。
00:39
Of course you have.
你当然认识过。
00:41
You just weren't aware of it.
你只是当时不知道而已。
00:44
Choir director at First Baptist Church.
第一浸信会的唱诗班指挥。
00:46
Mr. Dickerson? But he's so...
迪克森先生？可他那么……
00:49
What?
怎么了？
00:51
Religious. Beth...
虔诚。贝丝……
00:56
I'd appreciate it if you didn't tell anyone in the family about me.
如果你不跟家里任何人说我的事，我会很感激。
01:01
Oh, sure, of course.
噢，当然，没问题。
01:03
Eh, we're from such different worlds now.
呃，我们现在已经是两个世界的人了。
01:06
It wouldn't do any... [Wally] Change anything?
反正也不会有任何……〔沃利〕改变？
01:08
You don't see them anyways , Frank.
反正你也不见他们，弗兰克。
01:13
Hey, Beth. How you feeling ?
嘿，贝丝。感觉怎么样？
01:15
When's the last time you saw your family?
你上次见家人是什么时候？
01:18
Uh, I think August of last year.
呃，我想是去年八月。
01:22
Good morning, Barbara Stanwyck.
早上好，芭芭拉·斯坦威克。
01:26
I go there at least every two years . You know that.
我至少每两年回去一次。这你知道。
01:28
He shows them photographs of a phony wife,
他还给他们看假妻子的照片，
01:31
who's also played by Charlotte, by the way .
顺便说一句，假妻子也是夏洛特演的。
01:33
You want eggs ? [chuckling] Yes, please.
要鸡蛋吗？〔轻笑〕要，谢谢。
01:36
If I told them I was with a man , it would bring shame on them.
要是我告诉他们我跟一个男人在一起，会给他们带来耻辱。
01:39
Why do you think it wouldn't bring shame on my family?
你凭什么觉得这不会给我的家人带来耻辱？
01:41
Americans don't care about honor , Frank.
美国人不在乎荣誉，弗兰克。
01:44
Ha!
哈！
01:45
I wish I thought my family could get past it , but I don't.
我真希望我相信家里能跨过这件事，可我不信。
01:49
I think your family would eventually accept it.
我觉得你的家人最终会接受的。
01:51
Here you go. Yeah, well, you don't know my family.
给你。是啊，可你不了解我的家人。
01:55
Thank you. No, but you came from them, so how bad can they be ?
谢谢。不，可你是从他们那儿出来的，能有多糟？
02:05
How about this ?
这样怎么样？
02:07
How about...
要不……
02:08
you tell your family, and then I'll tell mine.
你先告诉你家里，然后我再告诉我家里。
02:10
Are you kidding ? In Saudi Arabia, they would behead me.
你开玩笑吗？在沙特阿拉伯，他们会砍我的头。
02:15
Ugh.
呃。
02:17
Your bacon smells like death.
你的培根闻起来像死亡。
02:22
Delicious death.
美味的死亡。
02:23
And this music.
还有这音乐。
02:24
[Wally] Ugh.
〔沃利〕呃。
语言点
点击卡片，跳回它在片中的位置发音↩ 00:15
'cause Wally
because 缩成 'cause，元音很轻
Good, 'cause Wally, he hates even the smell of it.
太好了，因为沃利连闻都不想闻。
俚语A2↩ 00:15
'cause
因为（口语缩音）——熟人闲聊用，写作要写 because
Good, 'cause Wally, he hates even the smell of it.
太好了，因为沃利连闻都不想闻。
固定搭配B1↩ 00:18
in someone's blood
in someone's blood
骨子里就有、天生如此
这里说南方人天生爱培根
But I'm a good Southern boy, and bacon's in my blood .
可我是正经南方小子，培根都刻在骨头里。
固定搭配B1↩ 00:29
feel different about someone
feel different about someone
对某人的看法有没有变
So, you feel any different about me?
那，你对我的看法有没有变？
发音↩ 00:29
feel any different
feel any 连读，l 连到后面的 a
So, you feel any different about me?
那，你对我的看法有没有变？
发音↩ 00:34
don't think so
don't 的 t 几乎吞掉
Oh, I don't think so .
噢，我觉得没有。
语法B1↩ 00:37
anybody who was gay
定语从句：who 修饰 anybody；句首还省了 I've，口语里常见。
Never known anybody who was gay before.
以前从没认识过同性恋。
固定搭配B1↩ 00:56
appreciate it if someone did something
appreciate it if someone did something
如果你能……我会很感激
I'd appreciate it if you didn't tell anyone in the family about me.
如果你不跟家里任何人说我的事，我会很感激。
语法B1↩ 00:56
if you didn't tell anyone in the family about me
礼貌条件句：it if + 过去时，把请求说成假设，语气比祈使句软。
I'd appreciate it if you didn't tell anyone in the family about me.
如果你不跟家里任何人说我的事，我会很感激。
发音↩ 00:56
I'd appreciate it
I'd 里 would 弱读成 /əd/
I'd appreciate it if you didn't tell anyone in the family about me.
如果你不跟家里任何人说我的事，我会很感激。
固定搭配B1↩ 01:03
from different worlds
from different worlds
两个世界的人，生活差太远
Eh, we're from such different worlds now.
呃，我们现在已经是两个世界的人了。
俚语B1↩ 01:08
anyways
反正、无论如何——口语，正式写作用 anyway
You don't see them anyways , Frank.
反正你也不见他们，弗兰克。
发音↩ 01:13
How you feeling
省掉 are，口语里很常见
Hey, Beth. How you feeling ?
嘿，贝丝。感觉怎么样？
固定搭配B1↩ 01:26
at least every + period
at least every + period
至少每隔这么久一次
I go there at least every two years . You know that.
我至少每两年回去一次。这你知道。
发音↩ 01:26
at least every
least every 的 t 打成弹舌
I go there at least every two years . You know that.
我至少每两年回去一次。这你知道。
俚语B1↩ 01:28
phony
假的、冒牌的——口语贬义，正式场合改用 fake
He shows them photographs of a phony wife,
他还给他们看假妻子的照片，
固定搭配A2↩ 01:31
by the way
by the way
顺便说一句
who's also played by Charlotte, by the way .
顺便说一句，假妻子也是夏洛特演的。
发音↩ 01:33
You want eggs
want eggs 的 t 弹成接近 /d/
You want eggs ? [chuckling] Yes, please.
要鸡蛋吗？〔轻笑〕要，谢谢。
固定搭配B2↩ 01:36
bring shame on someone
bring shame on someone
给某人带来耻辱
If I told them I was with a man , it would bring shame on them.
要是我告诉他们我跟一个男人在一起，会给他们带来耻辱。
语法B2↩ 01:36
If I told them I was with a man
虚拟条件句：If + 过去式，主句 would，谈现在不愿发生的假设。
If I told them I was with a man , it would bring shame on them.
要是我告诉他们我跟一个男人在一起，会给他们带来耻辱。
固定搭配B1↩ 01:41
care about something
care about something
在乎某件事
这里 honor=家族荣誉
Americans don't care about honor , Frank.
美国人不在乎荣誉，弗兰克。
固定搭配B1↩ 01:45
get past something
get past something
跨过这件事，不再被它困住
I wish I thought my family could get past it , but I don't.
我真希望我相信家里能跨过这件事，可我不信。
语法B2↩ 01:45
I wish I thought my family could get past it
wish虚拟句：I wish + 过去式表示与事实相反的愿望，后面 but 收回。
I wish I thought my family could get past it , but I don't.
我真希望我相信家里能跨过这件事，可我不信。
固定搭配B1↩ 01:55
how bad can someone be
how bad can someone be
能有多糟呢（反问）
Thank you. No, but you came from them, so how bad can they be ?
谢谢。不，可你是从他们那儿出来的，能有多糟？
固定搭配A2↩ 02:05
How about this
How about this
这样怎么样（提出新方案）
How about this ?
这样怎么样？
固定搭配A2↩ 02:10
Are you kidding
Are you kidding
你开玩笑的吧
Are you kidding ? In Saudi Arabia, they would behead me.
你开玩笑吗？在沙特阿拉伯，他们会砍我的头。
俚语A2↩ 02:10
kidding
开玩笑——质疑对方是否认真，非正式
Are you kidding ? In Saudi Arabia, they would behead me.
你开玩笑吗？在沙特阿拉伯，他们会砍我的头。
本章教学点
看完视频，正好复习我的等级
会自动暂停
习语B1↩ 00:18
in my blood
骨子里就有
剧中语境弗兰克说自己是南方小子，培根像刻在血液里。
Early shifts are in my blood after years in a bakery.在面包房干了多年，早班已经刻在我骨头里。
日常举例
聊家乡菜Chili is in my blood; I grew up on it.辣椒是我骨子里的味道，从小吃到大。
会自动暂停
短语动词B1↩ 01:45
get past it
跨过这件事
剧中语境弗兰克不相信家里能跨过他是同性恋这件事。
Give it a month. Most people get past a clumsy first meeting.给它一个月。多数人能跨过第一次见面的笨拙。
日常举例
安慰失恋You'll get past this breakup; it just will not be this week.你会跨过这次分手，只是不会是这周。
高于我的等级
搭配B2↩ 01:36
bring shame on
给某人带来耻辱
剧中语境沃利说若向家人承认和男人在一起，会辱没全家。
Leaking those files would bring shame on the whole lab.泄露那些文件会让整个实验室蒙羞。
日常举例
谈家丑He thinks a public breakup would bring shame on his parents.他觉得公开分手会让父母丢脸。
会自动暂停
话语B1↩ 00:56
i'd appreciate it if
请你……我会感激
剧中语境弗兰克请贝丝对家人保密，用客气句把请求说软。
I'd appreciate it if you kept this off the group chat.这事你别发到群里，我会很感激。
日常举例
请同事保密I'd appreciate it if you didn't mention my interview at lunch.午饭时请别提我面试的事，谢谢。
高于我的等级
反讽B2↩ 00:51
religious
虔诚并不能排除
剧中语境贝丝卡在半句，弗兰克替她补上：虔诚。潜台词是虔诚不等于不是同性恋。
Shy. Right, that's why she runs the debate team.害羞？对，所以她才管着辩论队。
日常举例
纠正偏见Quiet. Sure, and he still closed the biggest deal.话少？是啊，最大那单还是他拿下的。
会自动暂停
双关B1↩ 02:22
delicious death
把恶心说成美味
剧中语境沃利嫌培根像死亡，弗兰克把比喻接成美味的死亡。
Terrible coffee. Perfect terrible coffee.咖啡糟透了。糟透了的完美咖啡。
日常举例
接梗玩笑You call it a mess; I call it organized chaos.你说是一团糟，我说是有组织的混乱。
会自动暂停
习语A2↩ 02:10
are you kidding
你在开玩笑吗
剧中语境沃利用这句顶回交换出柜的提议，后面立刻落到斩首。
Are you kidding? I'm not driving through that storm.你开玩笑吗？我才不开车去闯那场暴雨。
日常举例
拒绝加班Are you kidding? I already stayed till midnight.你开玩笑吗？我都留到半夜了。
金句
这句话本身就很棒——棒在哪、怎么用“I'd appreciate it if you didn't tell anyone in the family about me.”
如果你不跟家里任何人说我的事，我会很感激。
棒在哪里
用客气条件句把最大的秘密收成请求，软，但边界很硬。
句型骨架
I'd appreciate it if...
使用场景
求人保密、别转发、别声张时，比直接 don't 更得体。
同类表达
I'd be grateful if you didn't... ／ Please keep this to yourself.
语域
neutral
跟读提示
I'd 弱读，family 加重再收住。
运用举例
拜托保密I'd appreciate it if you kept tonight's news off the group chat.今晚这事你别发到群里，我会很感激。
“If I told them I was with a man, it would bring shame on them.”
要是我告诉他们我跟一个男人在一起，会给他们带来耻辱。
棒在哪里
虚拟条件把出柜说成辱没全家，冷静却比喊疼更沉。
句型骨架
If I told them..., it would...
使用场景
想象坦白某件事会伤害家人或团队时用。
同类表达
It would disgrace them. ／ They would never live it down.
语域
neutral
跟读提示
If I told 连读，shame 和 them 下沉。
运用举例
怕辱没家If I told them I quit law school, it would bring shame on my parents.要是我告诉他们我退了法学院，会让我父母丢脸。
“I wish I thought my family could get past it, but I don't.”
我真希望我相信家里能跨过这件事，可我不信。
棒在哪里
先许一个愿望，再用 but I don't 当场收回，比直接说不更痛。
句型骨架
I wish..., but I don't.
使用场景
想乐观但做不到时，用来承认自己其实不信。
同类表达
I wish I believed they could move on. ／ I'd like to think they'd accept it.
语域
informal
跟读提示
wish 上扬，past it 连读，don't 降。
运用举例
劝人释怀I wish I thought the team could get past that mistake, but I don't.我真希望我觉得团队能跨过那个失误，可我不信。
本章要点
看完能带走什么- 学会用 get past it 说跨过难堪
- 见到 bring shame on 知道是辱没
- 会用 I'd appreciate it if 提请求
- 听懂 How about this 是在提交换
常被搜到的问题
先看问题，再对照台词弗兰克叔叔里 get past it 什么意思
意思是跨过这件事、不再被它困住。弗兰克说他不相信家里能跨过他是同性恋这件事。
bring shame on them 怎么翻译
给他们带来耻辱，也就是辱没家人。沃利用来解释为什么不能向家里出柜。
I'd appreciate it if 是在下命令吗
不是。这是客气请求，后面常接否定，等于请你别做某事，比直接说 don't 更软。
Delicious death 是脏话吗
不是。沃利嫌培根像死亡，弗兰克接过比喻说成美味的死亡，把抱怨拧成玩笑。
沃利为什么说在沙特会被斩首
他用最极端的后果说明自己无法对家人出柜，和弗兰克的南方家庭形成对比。