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我的等级
背景介绍
看之前，知道这些就够了灵堂里，迈克叫了一声大哥。他不跟哥哥叙旧，先讲刚走的父亲：婚礼硬拉他当伴郎，彩排宴后喝到烂醉，那晚父亲像换了个人，又逗又自卑，还看不上基蒂。讲完才承认自己几乎没跟弗兰克联系。看点是南方口语里绕弯的道歉。
发音关注
- 'cause 是 because 的吞音
- kept in 的 t 发成弹舌
- don't need to 连读吞音
学习收获
- 会用 keep in touch 说联系
- 学会 best man 当伴郎
- 掌握 hung over 表宿醉
重点关注
- 听迈克如何绕到道歉
- 抓 shit-faced 和土比喻
- 注意弗兰克如何接歉
迈
迈克 Mike弗兰克弟弟
弗
弗兰克 Frank迈克的哥哥
老
老爹麦克 Daddy已故的父亲
基
基蒂 Kitty迈克的妻子
章节
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金句教学点
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00:02
Hey, big brother .
嘿，大哥。
00:03
Oh, hey, Mike.
哦，嘿，迈克。
00:05
He's the best friend I'll ever have .
他是我这辈子最好的朋友。
00:09
Really? Mm-hm . Yeah.
真的？嗯哼。是啊。
00:13
I only asked him to be best man in my wedding
我请他在我婚礼上当伴郎，
00:16
'cause I was scared not to . [chuckles]
其实是因为不敢不请。（轻笑）
00:23
After the rehearsal dinner , we got shit-faced .
彩排宴之后，我俩喝得烂醉。
00:27
Goddamn , he was like another man .
见鬼，他简直像换了个人。
00:30
He was, like, funny.
他变得……挺逗的。
00:33
Told me how, uh, he felt like
跟我说，他觉得
00:36
he was never good enough for Mama.
自己从来配不上妈妈。
00:39
He told me how he thought
他还告诉我，他觉得
00:40
Kitty wasn't good enough for me,
基蒂配不上我，
00:42
which he was wrong about .
这点他可想错了。
00:46
We were both hung over at the wedding.
婚礼上我俩都还宿醉着。
00:48
You didn't notice ?
你没看出来？
00:50
Uh-uh .
没有。
00:52
I just thought you seemed nervous .
我只当你看起来很紧张。
00:56
I was shaking like an old hound dog
我抖得像条老猎狗
00:58
trying to shit out a peach pit .
想把桃核给拉出来。
01:00
Oh. [chuckles softly]
哦。（轻笑）
01:06
You know, I've been driving up here
你知道，我一直开车上来
01:08
once a week for more than 20 years...
二十多年来每周一次……
01:12
just to have breakfast with Daddy.
就为了跟爸爸吃个早饭。
01:24
He'd ask if I had heard from you .
他会问我有没有你的消息。
01:29
Course , I hadn't.
当然没有。
01:31
But I never kept in touch much with you, neither.
不过我也没怎么跟你联系。
01:34
Well, it's... Hey.
这个……嘿。
01:39
And for that...
为了这个……
01:46
I...
我……
01:48
I'm sorry.
对不起。
01:52
You don't need to be sorry. It's okay.
你不用道歉。没关系。
语言点
点击卡片，跳回它在片中的位置固定搭配A1↩ 00:02
big brother
big brother
大哥（对哥哥的称呼）
Hey, big brother .
嘿，大哥。
固定搭配A1↩ 00:05
best friend
best friend
最好的朋友
He's the best friend I'll ever have .
他是我这辈子最好的朋友。
语法B1↩ 00:05
I'll ever have
省略关系词：friend 后省掉 that，I'll ever have 修饰这位朋友。
He's the best friend I'll ever have .
他是我这辈子最好的朋友。
俚语A1↩ 00:09
Mm-hm
嗯、是的——鼻音应和，表示在听、同意
Really? Mm-hm . Yeah.
真的？嗯哼。是啊。
固定搭配B1↩ 00:13
best man
best man
婚礼伴郎
I only asked him to be best man in my wedding
我请他在我婚礼上当伴郎，
发音↩ 00:13
best man in
man in 连读，n 带到 in 上
I only asked him to be best man in my wedding
我请他在我婚礼上当伴郎，
固定搭配B1↩ 00:16
scared not to do something
scared not to do something
不敢不做某事
这里是不敢不请他当伴郎
'cause I was scared not to . [chuckles]
其实是因为不敢不请。（轻笑）
语法B2↩ 00:16
scared not to
不定式省略：not to 后省掉 ask，完整是 scared not to ask。
'cause I was scared not to . [chuckles]
其实是因为不敢不请。（轻笑）
发音↩ 00:16
scared not to
not to 的 t 常弹成 flap
'cause I was scared not to . [chuckles]
其实是因为不敢不请。（轻笑）
俚语A2↩ 00:16
'cause
因为（because）——口语缩约，写作要写 because
'cause I was scared not to . [chuckles]
其实是因为不敢不请。（轻笑）
固定搭配B1↩ 00:23
rehearsal dinner
rehearsal dinner
婚礼预演晚宴
After the rehearsal dinner , we got shit-faced .
彩排宴之后，我俩喝得烂醉。
发音↩ 00:23
got shit-faced
重音砸在 shit，faced 落下
After the rehearsal dinner , we got shit-faced .
彩排宴之后，我俩喝得烂醉。
俚语B2↩ 00:23
shit-faced
喝得烂醉——粗口，熟人酒话，正式场合别用
After the rehearsal dinner , we got shit-faced .
彩排宴之后，我俩喝得烂醉。
固定搭配B1↩ 00:27
like another person
like another person
像换了个人
这里指父亲喝醉后性格全变了
Goddamn , he was like another man .
见鬼，他简直像换了个人。
俚语B1↩ 00:27
Goddamn
见鬼、他妈的——感叹加码，带脏，课堂慎用
Goddamn , he was like another man .
见鬼，他简直像换了个人。
固定搭配B1↩ 00:36
good enough for someone
good enough for someone
配得上某人
he was never good enough for Mama.
自己从来配不上妈妈。
固定搭配A2↩ 00:42
be wrong about something
be wrong about something
某件事看走眼了
which he was wrong about .
这点他可想错了。
语法B1↩ 00:42
which he was wrong about
非限定从句：which 指上一句「基蒂配不上我」，再补一句他想错了。
which he was wrong about .
这点他可想错了。
固定搭配B1↩ 00:46
be hung over
be hung over
宿醉未消
We were both hung over at the wedding.
婚礼上我俩都还宿醉着。
发音↩ 00:48
didn't notice
didn't 的 t 在美音里常弹舌
You didn't notice ?
你没看出来？
俚语A2↩ 00:50
Uh-uh
不是、没有——摇头否定，别听成嗯嗯答应
Uh-uh .
没有。
固定搭配A2↩ 00:52
seem nervous
seem nervous
看起来很紧张
I just thought you seemed nervous .
我只当你看起来很紧张。
语法B2↩ 00:58
trying to shit out a peach pit
分词状语：trying 接上一句 shaking，补出抖成那样是在费劲。
trying to shit out a peach pit .
想把桃核给拉出来。
发音↩ 01:06
I've been driving
I've 弱成 /aɪv/，been 更轻
You know, I've been driving up here
你知道，我一直开车上来
固定搭配A1↩ 01:12
have breakfast
have breakfast
吃早餐
just to have breakfast with Daddy.
就为了跟爸爸吃个早饭。
固定搭配A2↩ 01:24
hear from someone
hear from someone
收到某人的消息
He'd ask if I had heard from you .
他会问我有没有你的消息。
语法B1↩ 01:24
if I had heard from you
宾语从句：if 从句做 ask 的内容：有没有你的消息。had 表先发生。
He'd ask if I had heard from you .
他会问我有没有你的消息。
发音↩ 01:24
heard from you
from 弱成 /frəm/，重音在 heard
He'd ask if I had heard from you .
他会问我有没有你的消息。
俚语A2↩ 01:29
Course
当然——句首省略 Of，南方口语极常见
Course , I hadn't.
当然没有。
固定搭配B1↩ 01:31
keep in touch with someone
keep in touch with someone
跟某人保持联系
But I never kept in touch much with you, neither.
不过我也没怎么跟你联系。
语法B2↩ 01:31
never kept in touch much with you, neither
双重否定：never 已否定，再加 neither，是南方口语强调，不是肯定。
But I never kept in touch much with you, neither.
不过我也没怎么跟你联系。
发音↩ 01:31
kept in touch
kept in 的 t 弹舌，三词连读
But I never kept in touch much with you, neither.
不过我也没怎么跟你联系。
发音↩ 01:52
don't need to
don't 的 t 常被吞掉
You don't need to be sorry. It's okay.
你不用道歉。没关系。
本章教学点
看完视频，正好复习我的等级
高于我的等级
俚语B2↩ 00:23
shit-faced
喝得烂醉
剧中语境迈克对弗兰克讲，彩排宴后和父亲两人喝到不省人事。
They got shit-faced at the reunion and missed the last train.同学聚会他们喝得烂醉，误了末班车。
日常举例
劝人少喝If we get shit-faced tonight, tomorrow's meeting is ruined.今晚要是喝烂醉，明早的会就毁了。
会自动暂停
词汇B1↩ 00:13
best man
婚礼伴郎
剧中语境迈克说请父亲当伴郎，其实是因为不敢不请。
He asked his roommate to be best man at the courthouse wedding.他请室友在市政厅婚礼上当伴郎。
日常举例
婚礼请人I still haven't chosen a best man for October.十月婚礼的伴郎我还没定。
会自动暂停
习语B1↩ 00:46
hung over
宿醉未消
剧中语境迈克说婚礼当天他和父亲都还带着宿醉。
She was too hung over to present the slides at nine.她宿醉太重，九点没法讲幻灯片。
日常举例
宿醉上班I'm hung over, so skip the coffee jokes.我还宿醉着，别拿咖啡开玩笑。
会自动暂停
短语动词B1↩ 01:31
keep in touch
保持联系
剧中语境迈克承认自己也没怎么跟弗兰克往来，随即道歉。
We promised to keep in touch after the internship ended.实习结束后我们说好要保持联系。
日常举例
分别叮嘱Keep in touch when you move, even if it's just a message.搬走了也要保持联系，发个消息也行。
会自动暂停
搭配B1↩ 00:36
good enough for
配得上某人
剧中语境父亲觉得自己配不上妈妈，语气里全是自卑。
He still thinks he isn't good enough for that team.他仍觉得自己配不上那支队伍。
日常举例
自我怀疑Stop saying you're not good enough for the scholarship.别再说自己配不上那笔奖学金。
会自动暂停
话语B1↩ 01:52
don't need to be sorry
你不必道歉
剧中语境迈克说对不起，弗兰克立刻把弟弟的愧疚放下。
You don't need to be sorry for asking a follow-up question.追问一句，你不必抱歉。
日常举例
安慰朋友You don't need to be sorry; the delay was on my side.你不必抱歉，延误是我这边的事。
高于我的等级
习语B2↩ 00:58
shit out a peach pit
夸张说紧张发抖
剧中语境迈克用土比喻形容婚礼上宿醉发抖的狼狈样。
Before the interview I was shaking like I had to shit out a peach pit.面试前我抖得像要排出桃核一样。
日常举例
私下吐槽Don't put that peach-pit line in the toast; it's too crude.祝酒词里别用桃核这句，太粗。
金句
这句话本身就很棒——棒在哪、怎么用“He's the best friend I'll ever have.”
他是我这辈子最好的朋友。
棒在哪里
最高级加 I'll ever，把父亲说成不可替代，短而沉。
句型骨架
the best friend I'll ever have
使用场景
强调某人对自己独一无二、再不会有第二个时用。
同类表达
the best person I've ever known ／ I'll never have a better friend
语域
informal
跟读提示
重音在 best、ever，I'll 轻带。
运用举例
夸老朋友She's the best editor I'll ever have.她是我这辈子最好的编辑。
“But I never kept in touch much with you, neither.”
不过我也没怎么跟你联系。
棒在哪里
南方口语双重否定 neither，把疏远说成自己的错。
句型骨架
never keep in touch with sb
使用场景
承认自己很久没联系对方、准备道歉时用。
同类表达
I didn't stay in contact ／ I let us drift apart
语域
informal
跟读提示
kept in touch 连读，neither 降调。
运用举例
老友重逢I never kept in touch after college, and I regret it.大学后我就没再联系，现在很后悔。
“You don't need to be sorry. It's okay.”
你不用道歉。没关系。
棒在哪里
两句短接，先卸掉抱歉，再把事放下，安慰很干净。
句型骨架
You don't need to be sorry
使用场景
对方为疏远或小事道歉时，用来接住愧疚。
同类表达
You don't have to apologize ／ It's all right, really
语域
informal
跟读提示
don't need 连读，sorry 降调。
运用举例
接朋友歉You don't need to be sorry about the late text.回消息晚了，你不必抱歉。
精彩独白
一个人撑起的一段戏，值得整段跟读❝ 父亲当伴郎
I only asked him to be best man in my wedding 'cause I was scared not to. [chuckles] After the rehearsal dinner, we got shit-faced. Goddamn, he was like another man. He was, like, funny. Told me how, uh, he felt like he was never good enough for Mama. He told me how he thought Kitty wasn't good enough for me, which he was wrong about.
我请他在我婚礼上当伴郎， 其实是因为不敢不请。（轻笑） 彩排宴之后，我俩喝得烂醉。 见鬼，他简直像换了个人。 他变得……挺逗的。 跟我说，他觉得 自己从来配不上妈妈。 他还告诉我，他觉得 基蒂配不上我， 这点他可想错了。
用酒后真话把父亲从严厉家长还原成脆弱的人。
❝ 弟弟迟来道歉
You know, I've been driving up here just to have breakfast with Daddy. He'd ask if I had heard from you. Course, I hadn't. But I never kept in touch much with you, neither. Well, it's... Hey. And for that... I... I'm sorry.
你知道，我一直开车上来 就为了跟爸爸吃个早饭。 他会问我有没有你的消息。 当然没有。 不过我也没怎么跟你联系。 这个……嘿。 为了这个…… 我…… 对不起。
先铺多年早餐，再把没联系说成对不起。
本章要点
看完能带走什么- 学会用 keep in touch 说保持联系
- 见到 shit-faced 知道是喝到烂醉
- 会用 best man 指婚礼伴郎
- 听懂 hung over 是宿醉未消
- 会用 You don't need to be sorry 接歉
常被搜到的问题
先看问题，再对照台词kept in touch 什么意思
保持联系。迈克说 I never kept in touch much with you，承认多年几乎没跟哥哥往来。
shit-faced 怎么翻译
不是脸上有屎，是喝得烂醉。迈克讲彩排宴后和父亲喝到不省人事。
best man 是伴郎吗
是。婚礼上新郎的男傧相。迈克说请父亲当伴郎，其实是因为不敢不请。
You don't need to be sorry 怎么用
对方道歉时用来接住：你不必抱歉。弗兰克用这句把弟弟的愧疚轻轻放下。
hung over 和 shit-faced 有何差别
shit-faced 是当晚喝到烂醉；hung over 是第二天宿醉。迈克说婚礼上两人还在宿醉。