这场戏：探监追问母亲下落
第 11 章 · 共 20 章 · 3'04"
道格去监狱看父亲，劝他好好表现、争取转去诺福克，还说自己打算 go dark（销声匿迹）一阵。父亲一听到「消失」，就问 Either you got heat or you don't（是不是被盯上了）。道格问起母亲，父亲却说这些事早就 I made my peace with it（认了）。父子间这种又亲又硬的对话，很值得学。
父亲一句 got heat（被警察盯上）就拆穿他
take no shit 不受窝囊气、不肯忍got heat 被警察盯上
❝ 独白 · 13 句 父亲说「我认了」：made my peace with（认了）
ask around 四处打听carry it 把某事一直扛在心里made my peace with 认了、跟某事了结
道格到监狱探望父亲。他劝父亲攒够一年 good behavior（表现良好）、把扣分降下来，好转到没人烦他的诺福克；父亲却说自己 Can't take no shit（受不了窝囊气），还在跟南区小子较劲。道格说自己在考虑出趟远门、要 go dark（销声匿迹）一阵，父亲立刻追问是不是 got heat（被警察盯上）。临走前道格问起母亲：How come you never looked for her?（你怎么从没去找过她？）父亲说当年那话只是想给他找点事做，没想到他会 carry it（一直扛在心里），还说母亲「也没两样」，这事他早就 made my peace with（认了），让道格也认了。父子之间又亲又硬的谈话，全是这种说法。
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“Hey, you know how it is. Can't take no shit.”
嘿，你知道的。我可受不了窝囊气。
一句牢里老炮儿的信条，把脾气和不肯低头都装进去了。
You know how it is. Can't ...
解释自己为什么不肯忍让时用；对长辈或正式场合别说。
You know how it goes. I don't take that. ／ That's just how it is. I won't back down.
口语
you know how it is 连读，Can't take 加重。
You know how it is. I can't let that slide. 你知道的，我不能就这么算了。
“Either you got heat or you don't.”
要么你是被盯上了，要么不是。
一句二选一的硬话，把谎话逼到墙角，老警察式的干脆。
Either you ... or you don't.
戳破含糊其辞、逼对方表态时用；对朋友说会显得咄咄逼人。
Either you're in or you're out. ／ Either it happened or it didn't.
口语
Either 起句重读，or you don't 放平收。
Either you want the job or you don't. 要么你想要这份工作，要么不想。
“How come you never looked for her?”
你怎么从来没去找过她？
多年心结压成一句追问，没有抱怨，只有不甘。
How come you never ...?
追问亲人为何没做某事时用；语气比 Why didn't you 更口语。
Why didn't you ever go looking for her? ／ How come nobody ever tried to find her?
口语
How come 连读，looked for her 一带而过。
How come you never told me about him? 你怎么从来没跟我提过他？
“I didn't think you'd carry it like a fucking disease.”
我没想到你会像得了病一样放不下。
把悲伤比成病，粗话里全是父亲不懂如何安慰的笨拙。
I didn't think you'd carry it like ...
说自己没料到对方会这么放不下时用；对伤心的人说很伤人。
I never thought it would stay with you like that. ／ I didn't expect you to hold on to it this long.
口语
didn't think 连读，carry it 弹舌，disease 压低。
I didn't think you'd carry it like a grudge. 我没想到你会记这么久。
“I made my peace with it. You make yours.”
我已经认了。你也认了吧。
把自己的了结推给儿子，听起来像劝，其实是把包袱传下去。
I made my peace with it. You make yours.
劝别人接受无法改变的事时用；对刚失去亲人的人说显得冷。
I've come to terms with it. You should too. ／ I've made peace with it, and so should you.
中性
made my peace 连读，You make yours 重读收尾。
I made my peace with the past. You make yours. 我已经跟过去和解了。你也和解吧。
Look, when your mother left... ...you cried so hard you were throwing up. All over the parlor. So I told you if you looked around you might End her. Just to give you an activity. I didn't think you'd carry it like a fucking disease. What, you wanna think she was an angel? Go ahead. But look out your front door. ...they're fucking around with kids they don't want... ...and, you know, no sense in their heads. And your mother wasn't no different. That's the hard truth. I made my peace with it. You make yours.
听着，你妈走的时候…… ……你哭得都吐了。吐得客厅到处都是。 ……所以我跟你说，你四处找找，说不定能找到她。 就是想给你找点事做。 我没想到你会像得了病一样放不下。 怎么，你还想把她当圣人？ 随你。 可你往自家门外看看。 ……那些女人跟不想要的孩子瞎搞…… ……你知道，脑子里一点数都没有。 你妈也没两样。 这就是难听的大实话。 我已经认了。你也认了吧。
下一章 · 12a code of silence沉默守则这场戏：探员放话绝不妥协黑话，指「被警察盯上了」。道格说只是换个活法，父亲马上追问 Either you got heat or you don't，就是「你到底是不是被盯上了」。
go dark。道格说 Going dark for a minute，就是「先消失一阵」，多指暂时躲开警察、媒体或麻烦。
指「认了、跟某事了结」。父亲说 I made my peace with it. You make yours.，就是「我已经认了，你也认了吧」，劝儿子别再纠结母亲的事。
ask around。道格问父亲 How come you never tried to call nobody or look for her, or ask around?，就是问他为什么没打电话、没找、也没四处打听。
口语里是「不受窝囊气、谁也别想欺负我」，很硬也很冲。父亲说自己 Can't take no shit，就是不肯忍气吞声，宁可惹麻烦。
good behavior。道格劝父亲 put a year together of good behavior，就是「攒够一年表现良好」，这是减刑或转监时会看的记录。
