太老，不适合待在这里
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酒吧里嫌自己太老：gave me an opening
酒吧里，一个女生嫌自己太老、格格不入，一遍遍问身边人，这儿的男人还会不会要她，末了说自己好受多了。另一头，一个男生靠一杯啤酒换来搭话，回头却只剩一句 gave me an opening（给了我搭话机会），人却 locked up（僵住、说不出话）。想在聚会后复盘「机会来了却没接住」，这两句够用。
发生了什么
酒吧里，一个女生忽然觉得自己跟周围格格不入，一句 It's like everyone in here is 12 years old（感觉这儿的人都才十二岁）把这晚的年龄焦虑挑明；身边人不断安慰，她仍追问自己是不是太老、不该待在这儿。吧台这边，一个男生靠小费拿到啤酒，又把酒让出去，两个人才正式认识。后来他回到朋友堆里，说那姑娘 gave me an opening（给了我搭话机会），自己却 locked up（僵住、说不出话）。想聊「搭讪机会」「临场卡壳」，或安慰朋友别嫌自己老，这几句都能直接搬。
这场戏看什么
- 注意她反复问‘我是不是太老’的节奏
- 留意点酒失败后陌生人让酒的转折
- 看男方自嘲时如何把尴尬变笑点
留意这几个短语
little bitchesYeah, awesomegave me an openinglocked up
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gave me an opening
给了我搭话机会gave me a chance to approach her
有人刚错过和那姑娘继续聊的机会，回来复盘时用了 gave me an opening 这个说法，承认对方已经递了话头，自己却没有接住。
The joke gave me an opening to ask her name.那个笑话给了我一个问她名字的话头。
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- little bitches
小婊子（贬低女性）
- Yeah, awesome
反话：可真棒
- locked up
僵住、说不出话
- get shit-faced
喝到烂醉
- hitting on her
撩她、搭讪她
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116 句台词里标了 33 处
快说时 not at all 连成一串，t 轻轻带过
No, not at all.小婊子（贬称）——极端贬低女性，正式场合绝不能用
Am I hotter than these little bitches?让我心里好受些
That's weird to say, but it makes me feel better.给咱们弄喝的
- Okay. I'm getting us drinks. - Okay.时间状语从句：when 引出让人难堪的时刻，realize 后面又带一个宾语从句。
You're gonna be embarrassed when you realize I'm Wilmer Valderrama.叫到服务员、得到招待
Oh, my God. And if you can't get service, what am I gonna do, you know?gonna 轻快带过，重音落在 do 上
Oh, my God. And if you can't get service, what am I gonna do, you know?当作辛苦费、谢礼 不是‘为了你的麻烦’，而是给小费答谢
Here you go. For your trouble. Thank you. There you go.糟了（粗口）——情绪爆发用，正式场合禁
Oh, fuck, fuck! I'm supposed to get one for my sister.难得显得酷一次
Please, I very rarely look cool. This is a big moment for me. Just take it.对我很重要的时刻
Please, I very rarely look cool. This is a big moment for me. Just take it.重音压 big moment，后面 for me 收轻
Please, I very rarely look cool. This is a big moment for me. Just take it.怂包；懦夫——粗俗自嘲，正式场合禁用
No, I won't 'cause I'm a pussy.给了我搭话机会
有人刚错过和那姑娘继续聊的机会，回来复盘时用了 gave me an opening 这个说法，承认对方已经递了话头，自己却没有接住。
That girl. She totally gave me an opening, man, and I locked up.烂醉如泥——熟人酒局用，正式场合别用
I just want to get shit-faced tonight, though, you know.自慰（粗俗）——粗俗性玩笑，公开场合别用
I'll just jerk it later. It's cool.简直是梦寐以求的局面 不是‘这是梦’，而是难得的好事
Dude, it's the dream. What are we doing standing here, man?混蛋（骂人）——熟人互骂，正式场合别用
Dick!被各方吐槽、四面受气 不是从各个角度拿东西，而是被多方攻击或调侃
Come on, man. I'm getting it from all angles here.走人、离开
All right, man. I got to take off.没什么可难为情的
What? It's nothing to be ashamed of.拦住他去撩她
You think that's gonna stop him from hitting on her?阻止结构：stop A from doing B 就是拦住A做B；这里问能否拦住对方撩她。
You think that's gonna stop him from hitting on her?him from 快读时只剩轻拍，别切成两个重读词
You think that's gonna stop him from hitting on her?对它没有免疫力
I had the chicken pox three times. I have no immunity to it.狠得下心做某事（多用于否定） 本句用否定，不是‘有心’，而是不忍心说破
We don't have the heart to tell him it's herpes.宾语从句：tell him 后省了 that，it's herpes 是告诉他的内容。
We don't have the heart to tell him it's herpes.穿戴整齐、打扮好了
You know, I'm all dressed, so I'll just hang out.互相了解、认识
有人要离开，把刚认识的两人留在原地，用 get to know each other 这句撮合他们继续聊，语气轻松，带点看戏的意味。
All right, I'm gonna let you two get to know each other.离开这里
- You wanna get out of here? - Yeah, let's go.到我家里待着、玩玩
You wanna come back and hang out at my place?太棒了；酷——口语赞叹，正式场合少用
- Yeah. Wicked. - I'll show you my audition tape.看懂「酒吧里嫌自己太老」
发音重点
- not at all — 快说时 not at all 连成一串，t 轻轻带过
- gonna do — gonna 轻快带过，重音落在 do 上
- big moment — 重音压 big moment，后面 for me 收轻
- him from — him from 快读时只剩轻拍，别切成两个重读词
It's like everyone in here is 12 years old.感觉这里每个人都只有十二岁。 夸张比喻一句就把‘我显得太老’说透，轻松又自嘲。
That's weird to say, but it makes me feel better.这么说有点怪，但确实让我好受些。 先承认话怪，再承认它有用，脆弱和自嘲同时成立。
Please, I very rarely look cool. This is a big moment for me. Just take it.拜托，我难得显得酷一次。这对我来说可是大时刻。拿着吧。 用自嘲把让酒变成小喜剧，请求不尴尬还带点可爱。
That girl. She totally gave me an opening, man, and I locked up.那姑娘。她明明给了我一个搭话的机会，老兄，我却僵住了。 一句复盘把机会和失误并置，口语节奏像朋友间叹气。
关于这一章的问题
gave me an opening 是什么意思？
意思是对方给了你一个可以接话、靠近的机会。台词里说女孩 totally gave me an opening，就是她主动留出了搭话的口子，接下来能不能接住要看自己。
「僵住、说不出话」英语怎么说？
可以说 locked up。台词里一句 gave me an opening... and I locked up，把「她给了我搭话机会，我却当场僵住」连在一起说，很适合复盘自己临场掉链子。
Yeah, awesome 是在夸人吗？
不一定。它在这里更像反话，接近「可真棒」，用来对没人搭理、局面很糟表示无奈；语气一沉，意思就翻过来了。
don't have the heart to 怎么理解？
是「不忍心说出口、狠不下心做」。台词里说 We don't have the heart to tell him it's herpes，就是大家不忍心把实情告诉他。
get to know each other 能用在什么场合？
意思是「互相了解、认识」，常用来给两个人留空间单独聊。台词里一句 I'm gonna let you two get to know each other，就是让他们俩自己聊。
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