这场戏：父亲带他冒险磨性子
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攀岩者汤米小时候被老师说智力迟钝，父亲却带他滑雪、露营、爬巨岩，用冒险把他磨硬。larger than life（像个传奇）形容父亲在他心中的分量，toughen up（把人练得更皮实）正是父亲的教育方式。想聊原生家庭、怎么把人磨练出来，这两句都用得上。
「小时候什么都慢」：As a kid, Tommy was slow at everything
a lot of difficulty 特别吃力developmentally delayed 发育比别人迟缓Larger than life 像个传奇toughen him up 把他练得更皮实
汤米小时候发育比人慢，两岁多才会爬，学校里处处吃力，老师一度跟家长说他智力迟钝、学不会。可他的父亲是练健美、又爱登山的大块头，在他眼里 larger than life（像个传奇）。父亲带他三岁上雪板、在暴风雪里露营、六岁爬巨岩，用冒险 toughen up（把人练得更皮实）。汤米后来才懂，这是父亲给他 deal with adversity（应对逆境）的能力。聊成长、聊父母的教育方式时，这些说法都很实在。
A1–C2 是欧标等级。点一个等级后，比它高的卡片会变淡，播放到那里不会自动暂停。
“This has been our home for nine days now.”
这里已经当了我们九天的家。
把冰冷的岩壁说成「家」，一句就让悬空多日的艰苦有了温度。
This has been our ... for ...
想说明某处临时栖身已久时用；正式报告里别这么口语。
This has been our office for three weeks now. ／ This place has been our kitchen for months.
口语
重音落在 home 和 nine，for nine days 连读带过。
This hotel has been our home for a month now. 这家酒店已经当了我们一个月的家。
“No one has ever free-climbed the Dawn Wall.”
从没有人徒手攀上过黎明墙。
一句平铺直叙，却把整部片的悬念全押在这面没人爬过的墙上。
No one has ever + 过去分词
强调某事前所未有时用；聊天里别拿它吹牛过头。
Nobody has ever climbed it without ropes. ／ No one had ever pulled this off before.
中性
No one has 连读，ever 重读，句尾降调收得干脆。
No one has ever run this trail in under an hour. 这条山径从没人一小时内跑完过。
“As a kid, Tommy was slow at everything.”
小时候，汤米做什么都慢。
用最平淡的一句给传奇人物一个笨拙的起点，反差立刻立住。
As a kid, someone was ...
回忆某人小时候、做反差铺垫时用；当面说人慢会伤人。
As a kid, he couldn't keep up with anyone. ／ Back then she was behind in every subject.
中性
As a kid 轻快带过，slow at 连读，everything 重读。
As a kid, I was terrible at every sport. 小时候，我什么运动都很差。
“He basically took hardship and rephrased it as growth.”
他基本上是把吃苦换了个说法，说成是成长。
把一种育儿哲学浓缩成换词的动作，冷静里带着锋芒。
take X and rephrase it as Y
总结某种说法或包装时用；正式写作里「基本上」显得随意。
He rebranded struggle as character building. ／ She turned every setback into a lesson.
中性
basically 弱读，hardship 和 and 连读，rephrased it as 一气呵成。
The company took a pay cut and rephrased it as flexibility. 公司把降薪换了个说法，叫「灵活安排」。
“He was loving, but he definitely let me suffer.”
他很有爱，但也确实让我吃了不少苦。
不恨也不洗白，一句话把父爱的两面都留在了原地。
He was ..., but he definitely ...
评价一个既感激又委屈的人时用；对当事人要慎用。
She cared, but she never made it easy. ／ He meant well, but it still hurt.
中性
loving 和 but 之间略停，definitely 重读，let me suffer 放慢。
My coach was kind, but he definitely pushed me hard. 我的教练人很好，但也确实把我逼得很紧。
“The word that was in my mind was resilience.”
我脑子里冒出的那个词就是「韧性」。
绕一个弯说「我想到的是」，比直接抛名词更有停顿感。
The word that was in my mind was ...
要给一件事下定义、找一个词概括时用；日常对话里偏书面。
The word I kept coming back to was resilience. ／ One word summed it up: endurance.
中性
The word that was 连读，resilience 重读并稍作停顿。
The word that was in my mind was relief. 我脑子里冒出的那个词就是「解脱」。
“It seems to me one of the best gifts you can give your kid is an ability to deal with adversity.”
在我看来，能给孩子最好的礼物之一，就是应对逆境的能力。
用「礼物」包装一堂苦课，整段育儿的道理在这里收束。
one of the best gifts you can give someone is ...
谈教育、培养孩子时用；朋友闲聊里说得太郑重会怪。
One of the best things you can teach a child is patience. ／ The greatest gift you can give them is confidence.
正式
It seems to me 轻读，one of the best gifts 重音成串，adversity 慢慢收尾。
One of the best gifts you can give a friend is your time. 你能给朋友最好的礼物之一，就是你的时间。
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toughen someone up。toughen 是变硬、变韧，toughen up 就是把人磨练得更能扛，父母训练孩子吃苦时常用。
字面是「底线」，实际指「归根结底最关键的一点」。记者提问时用 the bottom line question，就是「最核心的问题」。
free climb。free 指不用绳索辅助上下，只靠手脚攀爬，绳子仅用来保命，是攀岩里的专业说法。
deal with adversity。adversity 是逆境、难处，deal with 是应付、处理，合起来就是「扛住难处、应对逆境」。
