get it over and done with赶紧了结

把约会里的尴尬摊开说，末尾 Do we? 又把话说得留有余地。

I've just realized, ... Do we?

想点破相处中的问题时能用；刚认识不久就说，会让对方觉得被审问，场合要挑。

It hit me that we barely know each other. ／ We've never really talked, have we?

中性

just realized 连读，anything about 一带而过，Do we 上扬。

I've just realized we've worked together for a year and never talked. Do we? 我刚发现我们共事一年了，却从没聊过，是吧？

把谈恋爱该有的温情，说成一件要赶完的差事，坦率得有点好笑。

get it over and done with

想催着把麻烦事赶紧办完时能用；用来说见面、约会这类事，会显得不耐烦。

Let's just get this over with. ／ Let's be done with it.

口语

get it over 连读，and done with 轻快收尾。

Let's get it over and done with before lunch. 趁午饭前赶紧办完吧。

一句自嘲把家世和学历摆在一起，grotesque 用得又准又狠。

come from money, but ...

半自嘲地谈出身时能用；对刚认识的人说，很容易像在炫耀，别随便开口。

I grew up rich, for what it's worth. ／ My family had more money than sense.

口语

come from 连读，grotesque 重读，but 后稍作停顿。

I come from money, but I paid my own way after college. 我家里有钱，但大学以后都是自己挣的。

前一句还在说离婚对象，这一句直接把尺度拉满，平静得像在报数据。

I have slept with ...

私下闲聊里说经历能用；第一次见面就这样自曝，很容易把人吓退。

I've been involved with two former presidents. ／ Two ex-presidents and I were, well, close.

口语

have slept with 连读，former presidents 重音在后。

I have slept with someone famous, and I'm not proud of it. 我跟某个名人上过床，并不觉得光彩。

谈狗的死用最朴素的一句，反而比任何煽情都更戳人。

I can't remember ... that much ever.

讲自己少有的情绪失控时能用；放在轻松场合里说，容易让人不知怎么接。

I've never cried like that before. ／ That was the hardest I've ever cried.

中性

can't remember 吞掉 t，that much 重读。

I can't remember laughing that much ever. 我不记得自己什么时候笑成那样过。

用最日常的一句把刚建立的亲密感收住，也把尴尬话题一句话翻篇。

Where are we gonna go for ...?

想自然转移话题、把场面拉回轻松时能用；正式约会外，临时约朋友也常这么说。

Where should we eat tonight? ／ What are we doing for dinner?

口语

gonna go 连读，dinner tonight 重音在后。

Where are we gonna go for coffee after this? 这之后咱们去哪儿喝咖啡？