make room for騰出空間

一句把育兒寓言說透：成長不是刪掉缺點，而是安置它們。它否定了所有「變好就是消滅自己」的期待，是整部電影最核心的立場。

The point isn't to push ... away.

指出某件事的重點被誤解時用，語氣平靜；在急著解決問題的人面前說，會顯得像不推進。

The goal isn't to get rid of it. ／ You don't fix this by cutting it out.

中性

The point isn't 連讀，push away 放慢重讀。

The goal isn't to shove the hard parts out of sight. 目的不是把那些難堪的部分趕走藏起來。

You don't heal by pretending the pain isn't there. 假裝痛苦不存在，是治不好的。

把和解寫成兩個動作：留位置、共處。它不浪漫化痛苦，只提供一種更可行的活法，是父親給女兒的真正答案。

make room for it, live with it.

談與自身缺陷或長期困境相處時用，語氣沉靜；在需要立刻改變的情境裡說，會被當成放任。

Give it space and carry it. ／ Make peace with it and move on.

literary

make room for it 連讀，live with it 放慢收尾。

It's about making room for it and living with it. 關鍵是為它騰出位置，和它一起生活。

用最平常的語氣替「不完美」正名：不是你有病，是人本來就多面。它把羞恥感換成常識，也是父親把女兒從自責里拉出來的那句話。

People have all kinds of sides to them, and some sides are messy.

安慰覺得自己不對勁的人時用，語氣溫和；在需要立規矩的場合說，會顯得沒有立場。

Everyone has messy parts. ／ Being complicated is normal.

literary

all kinds of 連讀，messy 放慢收尾。

Everyone has many sides, and some of them are messy. 每個人都有很多面，有些面就是一團亂。

用誇張的畫面代替解釋：不說過去的熊貓多強，只說它差點拆了半座廟。講故事時特別抓人。

She almost took out half the ___.

誇張地形容某人或某事威力驚人時用，語氣帶笑；對嚴肅的場合或需要精確數字的報告說會顯得不專業。

She nearly destroyed half the place. ／ It almost took the whole house down.

口語

took out 連讀，half the temple 放慢。

The twins almost took out half the living room. 那對雙胞胎差點把半個客廳掀了。