这场戏：劝兄弟去追心上人
第 18 章 · 共 19 章 · 4'11"
戴尔以为艾莉森被查德带走，垂头丧气地说 People like me and people like her just don't mix（我们根本走不到一块儿）。塔克不干了，翻出小时候抓青蛙的旧账，认真告诉他 you're better than you think you are（你比你以为的要好），还催他 go after what you want（想要什么就去追）。想学怎么给兄弟打气，这段又暖又好笑。
go after what you want（去追想要的）
not as ugly 没那么丑means a lot 意义重大、分量很重life is short 人生苦短go after 去追、去争取
艾莉森被查德带走，戴尔觉得全是自己的错，说 People like me and people like her just don't mix（我们根本走不到一块儿），还后悔当初该听塔克的。塔克却安慰他：记得小时候一起去小溪抓青蛙吗，他坦白那些青蛙其实是戴尔自己抓到的，You was quicker than I was（你比我手快），并认真说 you're better than you think you are（你比你以为的要好）。他看出来了那姑娘真的看到真实的你，劝他 Go after her（去追她），最后两人互道 Best friends forever（最好的朋友，永远），戴尔带着狗上路去救艾莉森。
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“What I'm trying to tell you... is that you're better than you think you are.”
我想跟你说的是……你比你以为的要好。
用一句话把朋友从自我否定里捞出来，朴素却最重。
better than you think you are
朋友自卑、连连说自己不行时用来打气；敷衍地说会显得空。
You're stronger than you give yourself credit for. ／ You're worth more than you think.
中性
trying to tell you 轻读，better than 连读，句尾降下来。
You're better at this than you think you are. 这件事你比你自以为的要强。
“and you're not as ugly as you think you are.”
而且你没自己想的那么丑。
安慰里顺手损一句，笨拙又真诚，正是这对朋友的说话方式。
not as ... as you think you are
熟人之间半开玩笑地安慰时用；对不熟的人说会冒犯人。
You're not as bad as you think you are. ／ You're better-looking than you give yourself credit for.
口语
not as 轻快连读，ugly 重读，think you are 一带而过。
Relax, you're not as slow as you think you are. 放心，你没自己想的那么笨。
“People like me and people like her just don't mix.”
像我这样的人和她那样的女孩，根本走不到一块儿。
把阶层差距说成两种东西合不来，自嘲里全是认命。
people like me and people like her don't mix
自嘲地说自己和某人不是一路人时用；说别人不配就很伤人。
We're from two different worlds. ／ She and I just don't fit together.
中性
people like 两处都连读，don't mix 重读收尾。
People like me and people like them just don't mix. 像我这样的人和他们那样的人，根本合不来。
“You gotta go after what you want. Go after her, Dale.”
想要什么就得去追。去追她，戴尔。
前半句是道理，后半句直接点名叫他做，鼓劲力度全在重复上。
go after what you want
鼓励别人别错过机会时用；用在别人还没准备好时就成了施压。
Go for what you want. ／ Don't let her get away.
口语
gotta 吞音，go after 连读，what you want 一气呵成。
You want that job, so go after it. 你想要那份工作，那就去争取。
“Thank you, Tucker. That means a lot comin' from you.”
谢谢你，塔克。这话从你嘴里说出来，对我意义很大。
把「你的肯定分量不同」说得又轻又重，是男人少见的坦白。
That means a lot coming from you.
被自己敬重的人夸时表达分量时用；对不熟的人说会显得客套。
That really means something from you. ／ Hearing that from you means a lot.
中性
means a lot 重读，comin' from you 连读并轻收。
Thank you, that means a lot coming from you. 谢谢，这话由你说出来分量不一样。
“Kick the shit out of that little college dickhead for me, would you?”
替我把那个大学来的小混蛋狠狠揍一顿，行吗？
把重托包在粗话和一句 would you 里，兄弟间的托付就这么说。
kick the shit out of someone
熟人之间放狠话、托人出气时用；正式场合和生人面前绝不能说。
Beat the hell out of him for me. ／ Give that guy a beating for me.
口语
Kick the shit out of 连成一串，dickhead 重读，would you 轻声收尾。
If he shows up again, kick the shit out of him for me. 他要是再出现，替我把狠狠揍一顿。
下一章 · 19tough as nails非常强悍这场戏：翻旧报纸揭穿身世意思是「去追、去争取」，可以追人也可以追目标。片里塔克劝戴尔 go after her，就是让他主动去追艾莉森。
People like me and people like her just don't mix。mix 在这里指合得来、能相处，don't mix 就是「合不来」。
better than you think you are。这是安慰、鼓励人的固定说法，意思是对方低估了自己。
意思是「一辈子最好的朋友」，常缩写成 BFF，朋友之间表达长久情谊时用，带点孩子气和郑重。
意思是「把某人狠狠揍一顿」，是粗俗但常见的说法，语气很冲，属于不能在正式场合用的俚语。
