get over接受并放下

被儿子说疯，她不驳斥，只顺着台阶自嘲，母子间的默契全在这句。

It's sadder/harder for me, because ...

用自嘲回敬抱怨时用；家人朋友间玩笑合适，对不熟的人说会显得阴阳怪气。

It's worse for me, honestly. ／ I am the one who has to put up with it.

口语

though 后略停，because I have to 弱读，crazy person 重读。

It's harder for me; I have to share a kitchen with him. 我更难受，我得跟他共用厨房。

用一句轻描淡写的傻事，说透一个孩子被教成了什么样。

It took someone + 时间 + to get over ...

讲某人花了多久才消化一件事时用；叙述过去、解释性格都适合。

It took her months to accept the news. ／ He needed a year to get past it.

中性

took him 连读，to get over 轻快带过，not blond 重读。

It took me a week to get over the surprising result. 这个意外结果，我花了一周才消化。

一句总结把亲情压成唯一剩下的东西，平静里全是重量。

In the end, that's all you have.

总结经历或劝人看开时用；语气偏感慨，正式演讲也常见。

When all is said and done, that is it. ／ At the end of the day, that is all there is.

literary

In the end 略停，that's all you have 逐词放慢收尾。

After the career and the money, family is all you have. 事业和钱都过去了，到头来剩下的就是家人。

把活着的人说成鬼，一句话说尽战时被抹去的存在感。

Perhaps we're all ... now.

发出带着悲观的感慨时用；文学或深夜谈心合适，日常闲聊会显得沉。

Maybe we are all just shadows now. ／ We might all be invisible already.

literary

Perhaps 轻起，all ghosts now 三词放缓，句尾下沉。

Perhaps we are all tired ghosts by December. 到了十二月，也许我们都成了疲惫的鬼魂。

把'活着'定义成一种胜利，安慰立刻变成了宣战。

They'll never win. That's the power you have.

鼓励身处劣势的人时用；语气坚定，适合朋友或团队打气。

They cannot beat you. That is your strength. ／ That refusal is your power.

中性

never win 重读，That's the power 稍顿，you have 收得稳。

They can pressure us, but they will never win. 他们能施压，但永远赢不了。

把'活下去'拆成一天一天，抵抗就成了具体可执行的命令。

They didn't get you ... You make tomorrow the same.

鼓励人撑过难关时用；结构像口号，适合写在卡片或当面打气。

They missed you today; make tomorrow just as boring. ／ Keep tomorrow exactly the same.

literary

yesterday or today 平行重读，make tomorrow the same 逐词用力。

They did not get you today; make tomorrow the same. 今天他们也没能击垮你，明天也这样撑过去。

五个词把'照常活着'说成最倔强的抵抗，收束全章。

Tomorrow must be the same.

给自己或别人定一个坚持的目标时用；简短有力，适合签名、打气。

Tomorrow has to look just like today. ／ Keep tomorrow the same.

literary

must 重读，the same 两词连读不下沉到底。

After the setback, tomorrow must be the same. 受了挫折，明天也照旧坚持下去。