“I'll tell you about the Jews, but you are not privileged to know about my family.”
我可以跟你讲犹太人,但你没资格知道我家的事。
一句就把分享的边界划清:我配合你,但你别越界。
you are not privileged to ...
要礼貌而坚决地拒绝越界提问时能用;对平辈说会显得端着。
that is not for you to know / you don't get to ask about my family
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not privileged 加重,family 收尾放低。
I'll explain the project, but you are not privileged to see the client list. 项目我可以讲,但客户名单你没资格看。
