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字幕
我的等级
背景介绍
看之前，知道这些就够了晚饭还没出门，杰克和莎莉照旧抱怨高速和馆子。朱迪刚开好白葡萄酒，莎莉忽然说 Jack and I are splitting up。盖布当玩笑，朱迪当场崩溃。杰克咬定这是和平分居。听 about to，学把大事说成小事。
发音关注
- about to 的 to 要弱读
- get a 的 t 打成弹舌
- We're 要弱读别拆开
学习收获
- 会用 splitting up 说分手
- 掌握 about to 表即将
- 听懂 make a big deal
重点关注
- 注意谁把分手说成小事
- 听朱迪如何步步升级
- 抓四人对谈里的抢话
盖
盖布 Gabe朱迪的丈夫
朱
朱迪 Judy盖布的妻子
杰
杰克 Jack莎莉的丈夫
莎
莎莉 Sally杰克的妻子
章节
15 段 · AI 拆解01突然要分手当朋友轻松宣布拆伙C13'49"02夜里盘婚姻当拆伙消息烧到自己家C13'21"03约会中炸裂当约会变成对前段的质问B24'12"04当面夸作文当夸奖让人脸红心跳C12'46"05神风女人论当危险的人反而让你上瘾C13'02"06街头撞见新欢当朋友的新欢让你说不出话B24'35"07午餐谈单身把拆伙说成拔牙C12'43"08散步论文学当夸人变成一场暧昧散步C13'14"09约会后踩刹车当约会很甜你却突然喊停C13'57"10见家长坦白当见家长变成一部连续剧B23'48"11星座吵翻天当聚会上被当众拖走有多难堪C14'37"12醉汉闯空门当前夫醉闯旧家还想复合B24'08"13小说被狠批当崇拜突然变成一场文学审判C13'27"14婚姻走到头当回忆已救不回这段关系C13'56"15停电生日夜当停电把生日变成暧昧时刻B22'48"
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金句教学点
字幕稿
00:00
I think Sally's getting a little tired of our pasta places.
我觉得莎莉有点腻了咱们常去的那些意面馆。
00:02
Hi. Is it supposed to rain?
嗨。今天会下雨吗？
00:04
- Rain? No. God... - Hi, Judy.
- 下雨？不会。天啊…… - 嗨，朱迪。
00:07
Hi. How are you? Can I take your coat?
嗨。你好吗？外套我帮你拿？
00:09
I opened some cold white wine. Do you want some?
我开了冰过的白葡萄酒。要来一点吗？
00:12
- Was it okay on the highway? - No, they're doing something at 80th.
- 高速还好走吗？ - 不好，80街那儿又在施工。
00:16
- Jack, do you want some... - They're always doing something.
- 杰克，你要不要来点…… - 他们老是在搞什么。
00:18
- I'm sick of it . - You want some white wine?
- 我烦死了。 - 要白葡萄酒吗？
00:20
Every time I go up to your place, it's murder .
每次上你们这儿来，路上都要命。
00:22
So, uh, the- it's the Chinese restaurant, right?
所以，呃，今晚是那家中餐馆，对吧？
00:24
I can't talk you into the Italian restaurant?
我没法说服你们改去意大利餐馆吗？
00:26
No, no, let's-let's do this.
不了不了，就按这个来吧。
00:28
Listen, don't get crazy, you know?
听着，别慌，知道吗？
00:31
Now, before we go out to dinner, we want to tell you something.
现在，出门吃饭之前，我们有件事想告诉你们。
00:34
- I was just about to serve Jack. What? - Oh, yeah?
- 我正要给杰克倒酒呢。什么？ - 哦，是吗？
00:37
- Well, do you want to? - No, no, go ahead.
- 那，你想说就说？ - 不，不，你先说。
00:39
- What, what? - Somebody tell us.
- 什么，什么？ - 谁倒是说啊。
00:41
Jack and I are splitting up .
杰克和我要分开了。
00:44
- Oh, I see. It's just nothing serious, so... - What?
- 哦，我懂了。也没什么大事，所以…… - 什么？
00:47
Gabe, we discussed this for a long, long time, and we both think it's for the best .
盖布，这事我们商量了很久很久，都觉得这样最好。
00:52
- Okay? - You are joking, of course? It is a joke.
- 好吗？ - 你在开玩笑吧，当然是？这是玩笑。
00:55
Do me a favor. Don't make a big deal out of it . Because we're both fine.
帮个忙。别把这事闹得很大。因为我们俩都挺好。
00:58
- Are you serious? - No, we are. We're fine . We're fine.
- 你们是认真的？ - 没有，我们是认真的。我们挺好。我们挺好。
01:02
- Yeah, no, no. We both... We discussed it. - It's mutual.
- 对，不，不。我们俩……商量过了。 - 是双方自愿的。
01:05
- It's-It's... - What do you mean?
- 这、这…… - 什么意思？
01:07
Hey, uh, let's... I got a great idea. Let's go talk about this at dinner.
嘿，呃，咱们……我有个好主意。去吃饭的时候再谈这事。
01:10
- Yes. - This is gonna turn into a bad thing.
- 对。 - 这事会搞砸的。
01:13
- I'm not going out to dinner. - Since when has this been decided ?
- 我不出去吃饭了。 - 这是什么时候决定的？
01:16
What are we talking about here? You... She's right.
我们现在到底在说什么？你……她说得对。
01:19
It's something we've discussed for a while now.
这事我们已经商量一段时间了。
01:21
Don't be worried.
别担心。
01:22
- Why? - There's no hostility.
- 为什么？ - 没有敌意。
01:23
- Nobody's angry here. We're fine . - What is the reason?
- 这儿没人生气。我们挺好。 - 到底是什么原因？
01:28
- Don't turn it into a tragedy . - It's none of our business .
- 别把它搞成悲剧。 - 这不关我们的事。
01:30
- Guys. Don't turn this into a tragedy. - I'm going to get a drink .
- 各位。别把这事搞成悲剧。 - 我去倒杯酒。
01:33
'Cause it's a very positive step for both of us.
因为这对我们俩都是很积极的一步。
01:36
How can you get a... you know, break up?
你们怎么能……你们知道的，就这么分手？
01:38
That's insane. You're Jack and Sally. You got two kids.
这太荒唐了。你们是杰克和莎莉。你们还有两个孩子。
01:41
Hey, our kids are grown up, for Christ's sake , you know? They're in college.
嘿，孩子们都长大了，我的老天，知道吗？他们在上大学。
01:44
And we don't want to bore you with the details .
我们也不想拿细节烦你们。
01:47
I can't get my mind around this . You guys get along so well .
我实在想不通。你们俩相处得那么好。
01:51
She's right. I mean, have you met other people?
她说得对。我是说，你们是不是有了别人？
01:54
- What is the story here? - Gabe, Gabe, that isn't our business.
- 到底是怎么回事？ - 盖布，盖布，那不关我们的事。
01:58
- I'm fascinated by this. - I just feel sick.
- 我听得入迷了。 - 我只觉得难受。
02:00
Hey, we didn't want to ruin anything, okay?
嘿，我们不想把气氛搞砸，好吗？
02:03
We want to see what it's like to be, to be, you know...
我们想看看分开……分开生活是什么感觉，你知道……
02:06
- Apart for a while. Don't not support us . - To be apart, yeah.
- 分开一段时间。别不支持我们。 - 对，分开。
02:09
We've finally gotten the nerve to do this thing.
我们终于鼓起勇气做这件事了。
02:11
This is total insanity. You'll be back together in one week. I just...
这完全是疯了。你们一周内就会复合。我就是……
02:15
She's gonna keep the place in Riverdale, and I'm looking for a place in town.
她会留在里弗代尔那套房，我在城里找住处。
02:19
- Oh, I just feel shattered! - Oh, come on, Judy.
- 哦，我整个人都碎了！ - 哦，得了吧，朱迪。
02:23
- I do! - Hey, come on. Let's eat, hmm?
- 我就是碎了！ - 嘿，得了。咱们吃饭吧，嗯？
02:26
What do you mean, "Come on, let's eat"? "Come on"? I can't eat.
什么叫「得了，吃饭吧」？「得了」？我吃不下。
02:31
- Well, don't get angry. - I'm not angry.
- 行了，别生气。 - 我没生气。
02:33
- You are angry. - I'm not angry!
- 你就是在生气。 - 我没生气！
02:35
I knew it. I told you.
我就知道。我跟你说过。
02:37
You march in here and announce you're-you're breaking up.
你们大步走进来，宣布你们要、要分手。
02:39
You-You have two kids together! Why are you doing this?
你、你们一起养了两个孩子！你们为什么要这样？
02:43
- Why are you doing this? - This is not our business.
- 你们为什么要这样？ - 这不关我们的事。
02:46
Why isn't it our business? They're our closest friends.
怎么就不关我们的事了？他们是我们最亲的朋友。
02:49
Hey, you're looking for one little answer. There is no one traumatic event .
嘿，你想找一个简单答案。并没有哪一件特别惨的事。
02:52
You know that. People grow apart .
这你知道的。人会慢慢疏远。
02:54
It's a lot of little personal things. Now, stop it.
都是很多琐碎的私事。好了，别说了。
02:57
- I don't want to hear this bullshit . - Judy!
- 我不想听这套屁话。 - 朱迪！
03:00
- What's she so upset for? - Judy, what...
- 她至于这么难过吗？ - 朱迪，你……
03:03
- She cares about us. - I care about you too.
- 她是在乎我们。 - 我也在乎你们。
03:06
Hey, hey, we're fine, okay? We want to do this.
嘿，嘿，我们挺好的，好吗？我们想这么做。
03:08
Judy. Judy? This is crazy.
朱迪。朱迪？这太离谱了。
03:11
Listen, Judy, what are you taking this so personally for?
听着，朱迪，你至于把这事往自己身上揽吗？
03:14
- I'm upset, all right? Can't I be upset? - Yeah, but, you know...
- 我难过，行了吧？我就不能难过吗？ - 对，可是，你知道……
03:18
Judy, I've discussed this with a therapist. Really.
朱迪，这事我跟治疗师谈过。真的。
03:21
You have? You've never said a word!
你谈过？你一个字都没提过！
03:24
You said this was none of our business . What is happen...
你刚说这不关我们的事。到底发生了什……
03:26
Well, we were all so close! Or I assumed we were.
我们以前那么亲近！或者说我以为我们是。
03:30
- She's upset. She's very upset. - Hey, hey, hey.
- 她很难过。她非常难过。 - 嘿，嘿，嘿。
03:33
Will you guys please not turn this into a wake ?
你们能不能别把这搞成追悼会？
03:36
You know, what-what, why... what is this such a personal thing for you?
你知道，什么、什么，为什么……这对你怎么就这么私人？
03:39
I don't know what to say.
我不知道该说什么。
03:40
Let's just go out to dinner as planned and forget it.
咱们还是按原计划出去吃饭，把这事放下。
03:43
- Judy, come on! - I knew this would turn into a big thing.
- 朱迪，得了！ - 我就知道这会闹成大事。
03:47
So, why were you so upset?
所以，你当时为什么那么难过？
语言点
点击卡片，跳回它在片中的位置固定搭配A2↩ 00:18
sick of something
sick of something
对某事烦透了
- I'm sick of it . - You want some white wine?
- 我烦死了。 - 要白葡萄酒吗？
俚语B1↩ 00:20
murder
难受得要命——夸张抱怨路况或过程，正式别用
Every time I go up to your place, it's murder .
每次上你们这儿来，路上都要命。
固定搭配B1↩ 00:24
talk someone into something
talk someone into something
说服某人做某事
I can't talk you into the Italian restaurant?
我没法说服你们改去意大利餐馆吗？
发音↩ 00:24
talk you into
talk you 连读，k 连到 you 上
I can't talk you into the Italian restaurant?
我没法说服你们改去意大利餐馆吗？
固定搭配A2↩ 00:34
be about to do something
be about to do something
正要去做某事
- I was just about to serve Jack. What? - Oh, yeah?
- 我正要给杰克倒酒呢。什么？ - 哦，是吗？
语法A2↩ 00:34
was just about to serve
即将发生：was about to + 动词原形，表示正要做、被打断。
- I was just about to serve Jack. What? - Oh, yeah?
- 我正要给杰克倒酒呢。什么？ - 哦，是吗？
发音↩ 00:34
just about to
to 弱读成 /tə/，不要读成重的 /tu/
- I was just about to serve Jack. What? - Oh, yeah?
- 我正要给杰克倒酒呢。什么？ - 哦，是吗？
固定搭配B1↩ 00:41
split up
split up
分手、拆伙
Jack and I are splitting up .
杰克和我要分开了。
发音↩ 00:41
splitting up
重音在 split，up 轻而短
Jack and I are splitting up .
杰克和我要分开了。
固定搭配B1↩ 00:47
for the best
for the best
这样最好、长远看更合适
Gabe, we discussed this for a long, long time, and we both think it's for the best .
盖布，这事我们商量了很久很久，都觉得这样最好。
发音↩ 00:47
for the best
the 弱读成 /ðə/，for 也要轻
Gabe, we discussed this for a long, long time, and we both think it's for the best .
盖布，这事我们商量了很久很久，都觉得这样最好。
固定搭配B1↩ 00:55
make a big deal out of something
make a big deal out of something
把某事闹得很大
Do me a favor. Don't make a big deal out of it . Because we're both fine.
帮个忙。别把这事闹得很大。因为我们俩都挺好。
发音↩ 00:55
out of it
out of 连成 ou-dəv，t 常弹掉
Do me a favor. Don't make a big deal out of it . Because we're both fine.
帮个忙。别把这事闹得很大。因为我们俩都挺好。
发音↩ 00:58
We're fine
We're 收成 /wɪr/，不要拆成 we are
- Are you serious? - No, we are. We're fine . We're fine.
- 你们是认真的？ - 没有，我们是认真的。我们挺好。我们挺好。
语法B2↩ 01:13
Since when has this been decided
完成被动：Since when + 完成时，质问决定是何时做出的。
- I'm not going out to dinner. - Since when has this been decided ?
- 我不出去吃饭了。 - 这是什么时候决定的？
语法B1↩ 01:19
something we've discussed
定语从句：省略 that 的定语从句：我们已经商量过的事。
It's something we've discussed for a while now.
这事我们已经商量一段时间了。
固定搭配B1↩ 01:28
none of someone's business
none of someone's business
不关某人的事
- Don't turn it into a tragedy . - It's none of our business .
- 别把它搞成悲剧。 - 这不关我们的事。
固定搭配B2↩ 01:28
turn something into a tragedy
turn something into a tragedy
把事情搞成悲剧
- Don't turn it into a tragedy . - It's none of our business .
- 别把它搞成悲剧。 - 这不关我们的事。
发音↩ 01:30
get a drink
get a 的 t 打成美式弹舌
- Guys. Don't turn this into a tragedy. - I'm going to get a drink .
- 各位。别把这事搞成悲剧。 - 我去倒杯酒。
俚语B2↩ 01:41
for Christ's sake
拜托、我的老天——不耐烦的发誓口吻，对生人慎用
Hey, our kids are grown up, for Christ's sake , you know? They're in college.
嘿，孩子们都长大了，我的老天，知道吗？他们在上大学。
固定搭配B1↩ 01:44
bore someone with the details
bore someone with the details
拿细节烦你
And we don't want to bore you with the details .
我们也不想拿细节烦你们。
固定搭配B2↩ 01:47
get one's mind around something
get one's mind around something
想不通、接受不了
I can't get my mind around this . You guys get along so well .
我实在想不通。你们俩相处得那么好。
固定搭配A2↩ 01:47
get along
get along
相处融洽
I can't get my mind around this . You guys get along so well .
我实在想不通。你们俩相处得那么好。
语法B2↩ 02:06
Don't not support us
双重否定：Don't not 等于求你务必支持，两个否定叠加强求。
- Apart for a while. Don't not support us . - To be apart, yeah.
- 分开一段时间。别不支持我们。 - 对，分开。
固定搭配B2↩ 02:09
get the nerve to do something
get the nerve to do something
鼓起勇气去做
We've finally gotten the nerve to do this thing.
我们终于鼓起勇气做这件事了。
发音↩ 02:15
gonna keep the
gonna 是 going to 的吞音
She's gonna keep the place in Riverdale, and I'm looking for a place in town.
她会留在里弗代尔那套房，我在城里找住处。
俚语A2↩ 02:15
gonna
将要（口语）——going to 的口语音，写作里少用
She's gonna keep the place in Riverdale, and I'm looking for a place in town.
她会留在里弗代尔那套房，我在城里找住处。
语法B2↩ 02:49
There is no one traumatic event
存在句：no one 这里是“没有哪一件”，不是“没有人”。
Hey, you're looking for one little answer. There is no one traumatic event .
嘿，你想找一个简单答案。并没有哪一件特别惨的事。
固定搭配B2↩ 02:52
grow apart
grow apart
渐渐疏远
You know that. People grow apart .
这你知道的。人会慢慢疏远。
俚语B2↩ 02:57
bullshit
胡说、屁话——生气时骂对方解释，正式场合禁用
- I don't want to hear this bullshit . - Judy!
- 我不想听这套屁话。 - 朱迪！
固定搭配B2↩ 03:11
take something personally
take something personally
往心里去、当成针对自己
Listen, Judy, what are you taking this so personally for?
听着，朱迪，你至于把这事往自己身上揽吗？
语法B1↩ 03:11
what are you taking this so personally for
介词后置：what ... for 等于 why，介词 for 留在句尾。
Listen, Judy, what are you taking this so personally for?
听着，朱迪，你至于把这事往自己身上揽吗？
固定搭配B2↩ 03:33
turn something into a wake
turn something into a wake
把场面搞成追悼会
这里 wake=追悼会，不是醒来
Will you guys please not turn this into a wake ?
你们能不能别把这搞成追悼会？
固定搭配A2↩ 03:40
as planned
as planned
按原计划
Let's just go out to dinner as planned and forget it.
咱们还是按原计划出去吃饭，把这事放下。
本章教学点
看完视频，正好复习我的等级
会自动暂停
短语动词B1↩ 00:41
split up
分手或拆伙
剧中语境莎莉晚饭前对盖布朱迪宣布，她和杰克要分开。
The band split up after the last tour.那支乐队在最后一轮巡演后解散了。
日常举例
朋友闲聊Did they split up, or are they just taking space?他们是分手了，还是只是先分开住？
会自动暂停
短语动词B1↩ 00:24
talk someone into
说服某人去做
剧中语境盖布想改去意大利餐馆，问能不能把对方说动。
She talked me into taking the earlier train.她说服我改乘更早的那班火车。
日常举例
点外卖Don't try to talk me into spicy soup tonight.今晚别劝我点辣汤。
高于我的等级
习语B2↩ 00:55
make a big deal out of
把事情闹很大
剧中语境莎莉刚宣布分手，却求朋友别大惊小怪，说两人都挺好。
Please don't make a big deal out of the missing keys.钥匙不见了，请别把这事闹得很大。
日常举例
同事帮忙I stayed late once; don't make a big deal out of it.我加过一次班，别把这当大事。
高于我的等级
习语B2↩ 01:47
get one's mind around
想通并接受
剧中语境朱迪无法理解杰克莎莉的分手，因为两人看起来很和睦。
I still can't get my mind around the sudden price jump.价格突然跳涨，我到现在都想不通。
日常举例
看账单I can't get my mind around this extra fee.这笔额外费用我实在想不通。
高于我的等级
短语动词B2↩ 02:52
grow apart
渐渐疏远
剧中语境杰克否认有单一创伤，说两人只是慢慢走远了。
We didn't fight; we just grew apart after college.我们没吵架，只是大学后慢慢疏远了。
日常举例
聊旧友Some classmates grow apart once they leave town.有些同学一离开这座城就慢慢疏远。
高于我的等级
反讽B2↩ 03:33
turn this into a wake
把场面搞成丧礼
剧中语境杰克嫌朋友反应太重，把朱迪的崩溃比成追悼会。
It's only a delayed flight; don't turn the gate into a wake.不过是航班延误，别把登机口搞成追悼会。
日常举例
项目延期The deadline moved one day. Don't turn the meeting into a wake.截止日期才挪一天，别把会开成追悼会。
高于我的等级
脏话B2↩ 02:57
bullshit
胡说、鬼话
剧中语境朱迪听不下去杰克把分手说成琐事，直接骂这是屁话。
I don't want to hear another excuse; that's just noise.我不想再听借口，那全是空话。
日常举例
驳斥借口Don't feed me that nonsense about the missing file.别拿文件丢了这套鬼话糊弄我。
金句
这句话本身就很棒——棒在哪、怎么用“Jack and I are splitting up.”
杰克和我要分开了。
棒在哪里
短句砸场，splitting up 把婚姻结束说得像随口报事。
句型骨架
A and I are splitting up.
使用场景
宣布分手、拆伙、合作结束，想说得干脆时用。
同类表达
We're breaking up. ／ We're going our separate ways.
语域
informal
跟读提示
重音落在 splitting，句尾干脆收住。
运用举例
宣布拆伙Maya and I are ending the joint lease this month.玛雅和我这个月要结束合租。
“I can't get my mind around this. You guys get along so well.”
我实在想不通。你们俩相处得那么好。
棒在哪里
get one's mind around 把接受不了的冲击说得很口语。
句型骨架
get one's mind around 某事
使用场景
听到离谱消息、脑子转不过弯时用。
同类表达
I can't wrap my head around this. ／ This doesn't make sense to me.
语域
informal
跟读提示
can't 和 mind 加重，后半句放慢。
运用举例
听到离职I can't get my mind around the sudden transfer.这次突然调岗，我脑子转不过来。
“Will you guys please not turn this into a wake?”
你们能不能别把这搞成追悼会？
棒在哪里
用追悼会比喻朋友的震惊，既劝阻又带刺。
句型骨架
Don't turn this into a + 名词
使用场景
场面要哭丧、要闹大时，用来按下情绪。
同类表达
Don't make this a funeral. ／ Please don't dramatize this.
语域
informal
跟读提示
please 拉长，wake 重读后上扬。
运用举例
劝别哭丧Please don't turn the farewell lunch into a funeral.别把送别午宴搞成追悼会。
本章要点
看完能带走什么- 学会用 splitting up 说分手
- 见到 about to 知道是正要做
- 能听懂 make a big deal 的劝阻
- 掌握 none of our business
常被搜到的问题
先看问题，再对照台词Jack and I are splitting up 什么意思？
莎莉在宣布她和杰克要分开。splitting up 比 divorce 口语，不一定已办手续，但关系结束了。
about to 在 I was just about to serve Jack 里是什么意思？
表示正要去做。朱迪正要给杰克倒酒，话被分手宣布打断。
turn this into a wake 怎么翻译？
别把这搞成追悼会。wake 是守灵，杰克在讽刺朋友反应太悲。
make a big deal out of it 是在安慰吗？
表面求你别大惊小怪，实际是按下你的反应，把分手说成小事。
People grow apart 在电影里什么意思？
人会慢慢疏远。杰克用来否认有单一创伤，把分手说成时间里走远。