为童贞定义抬杠：up close and personal

I haven't liked a man in a long time.

我很久没有喜欢过一个男人了。 坦白得近乎脆弱，又用时间跨度把分寸留住，适合跟读。

And I want you to feel comfortable with me, because I'd really like us to be friends.

我想让你跟我相处时自在，因为我真的很想我们做朋友。 把亲密和边界一次说清，语气稳，不逼迫。

I think virginity is lost when you make love for the flrst time.

我认为第一次做爱时，童贞就失去了。 把抽象定义压成一句可争论的命题，节奏干净。

I move to have that remark stricken from the record, on account of it makes you come off as completely naive and infantile.

我动议把这句话从记录里删掉，因为它让你显得完全天真又幼稚。 法庭腔砸进私密对话，讽刺感立刻拉满。

And it's only a once-in-a-while thing reserved for really special occasions.

那只是偶尔为之、留给真正特别场合的事。 轻描淡写里带挑逗，once-in-a-while 很地道。