There's Something About Mary · 1998 — 第 1 / 24 章 · 2'35" · B1

Ted Asks Mary to the Prom, Explained:hold someone to that

Ted, hopelessly nervous, tries to ask Mary to the prom, but his proposal comes out in a tangle of hedges and retreats: 'If you don't want to, you don't have to.' Mary tells him she is waiting to see if another boy asks her, offering only a 'maybe.' Ted seizes on it: 'I'm gonna hold you to that.'

あらすじ

At their high-school lockers, Ted works up the nerve to ask Mary to the prom. He stumbles through every hedge he can think of, insisting she does not have to say yes. Mary says she is waiting to see whether another boy will ask her, and gives him only a maybe. Ted tells her he will hold her to that.

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このシーンの表現

hold someone to that

make you keep your word

Renise gives a vague maybe, and Ted half-jokingly says he will remember it.

You promised to help, and I'm holding you to that.

このシーンの他の表現

  • don't have to

    not obliged to

  • go with someone

    go together with someone

  • fucking

    an intensifying swear word

  • think of doing something

    considering doing something

  • check it out

    take a look at this

このシーンのメモ一覧

39 行のセリフに 28 件のメモ

表現 · A1what's up

how are things

So. What's up?
発音What's up

What's up runs together and rises at the end.

So. What's up?
表現 · A2be wondering if something

want to ask

So I was wondering, I don't know if maybe you wanted to and... Or not.
文法 · A2don't have to

modal negation: Don't have to marks absence of obligation, not prohibition.

If you don't want to, you don't have to.
発音don't have to

Have to often loses its v and sounds like hafta.

If you don't want to, you don't have to.
表現 · A2go to the prom

attend the school dance

I just wondered if maybe you were going to the prom. And...
文法 · B1if maybe you were going

object clause: The if-clause carries the question, softened by maybe.

I just wondered if maybe you were going to the prom. And...
表現 · A1go with someone

go together with someone

Kids in the hall say Mary is going to the prom with a guy named Woogie.

Or if you felt like that, maybe you'd wanna go with me.
発音wanna go

Wanna blurs want to into one word before go.

Or if you felt like that, maybe you'd wanna go with me.
スラング · A2wanna

want to — Casual spoken form; keep it out of formal talk.

Or if you felt like that, maybe you'd wanna go with me.
表現 · A2take a test

a biology exam

Did you take that bio test? Because that was, like...
スラング · B2like

a filler word — A teen filler word; sounds sloppy in formal speech.

Did you take that bio test? Because that was, like...
表現 · B1hear a rumor that ...

heard a piece of gossip

I heard this rumor that this guy I like was gonna ask me...
文法 · B1that this guy I like was gonna ask me

appositive clause: The that-clause spells out what the rumor actually says.

I heard this rumor that this guy I like was gonna ask me...
表現 · A2wait and see

hold off and watch

...so I'm gonna wait and see what happens there.
表現 · B1make something clear

spell it out plainly

- So is that, like, a yes or a no or...? - I thought I made it perfectly clear.
表現 · B1hold someone to something

make you keep your word

Renise gives a vague maybe, and Ted half-jokingly says he will remember it.

I'm gonna hold you to that.
スラング · A2gonna

going to — Everyday speech shorthand; avoid it in formal writing.

I'm gonna hold you to that.
スラング · B1What a fox

what a good-looking woman — Dated slang for a pretty woman; say it carefully.

What a fox.
表現 · B1some guy named X

a person called

I heard she's going with some guy named Woogie.
スラング · B1loser

a pathetic person — Insulting; fine as a joke between friends, never in earnest.

Woogie from Bore-ington High? Sounds like a loser.
表現 · B1all-state player

a state-level all-star

Woogie's only, like. All-state football and basketball and fucking valedictorian.
文法 · A2Woogie's

contraction of is: Here 's is the contraction of is, not a possessive.

Woogie's only, like. All-state football and basketball and fucking valedictorian.
表現 · A2get a scholarship to somewhere

win a scholarship

I heard he got a scholarship to Princeton, but he's going to Europe first to model.
発音got a

The t in got a flaps toward a d sound.

I heard he got a scholarship to Princeton, but he's going to Europe first to model.
表現 · B1think of doing something

considering doing something

Hearing Woogie will model in Europe, Ted dryly says he was thinking of that too.

Yeah? I was thinking of doing that.
表現 · A2check something out

take a look at this

Someone calls out to get everyone to look, an everyday shout among friends.

Hey, check it out.
表現 · A2know where something is

know the location of

Hey, buddy. Come here. I think I know where your ball is.

「Ted Asks Mary to the Prom」を読み解く

What's really going on

The scene is a study in how not to ask someone out. Ted's proposal is buried under so many escape routes that it almost cancels itself — 'If you don't want to, you don't have to' — and Mary's answer is just as guarded: she is waiting on another boy, so Ted gets a 'maybe' instead of a date. What makes it sting is how eagerly he takes it. 'I'm gonna hold you to that,' he says, turning the smallest possible opening into a promise. Around them, the school has already decided Mary's fate: the rumour is that she is going with Woogie, the all-state athlete bound for Princeton. Ted's careful politeness, in that light, is not just shyness but the gap between a boy who hedges and a town that rewards the boy who does not.

Theme

Coming of ageTed's fumbling attempt to ask Mary out, and his clinging to a single maybe, capture the awkwardness of teenage romance and self-doubt.
RomanceThe whole scene turns on the small chance of a prom date, showing how much weight a teenage crush can carry.

このチャプターで学べること

  • A hedge before an invitation makes saying no easier.
  • Maybe is not a yes, and Ted knows it.
  • Vague answers invite playful pressure.
  • Filler words like like carry a nervous teen voice.

発音のポイント

  • What's up — What's up runs together and rises at the end.
  • don't have to — Have to often loses its v and sounds like hafta.
  • wanna go — Wanna blurs want to into one word before go.
  • got a — The t in got a flaps toward a d sound.
If you don't want to, you don't have to.

Ted's reflex to give Mary an exit before she can reject him, a line that sounds kind but quietly dooms the invitation.

So I was wondering, I don't know if maybe you wanted to and... Or not.

The invitation dissolving as it is spoken, full of hedges and self-interruption, the sound of a boy assuming he will be turned down.

I'm gonna hold you to that.

Ted grabs the faintest possible maybe and treats it as a commitment, half joking and wholly hopeful.

Woogie from Bore-ington High? Sounds like a loser.

A cheap put-down of the rival, the kind of joke that reveals how much the speaker wants Mary himself.

このシーンについての質問

Why is Ted so awkward asking Mary to the prom?

Because he is terrified of being rejected. He keeps offering her ways out, insisting she does not have to say yes, which makes the invitation sound even less confident than he feels.

Why does Mary only say 'maybe'?

Because she is waiting to see if another boy asks her first. Ted is her fallback rather than her first choice, which is why she will not give him a firm answer.

Who is Woogie?

A rival for Mary's attention: an all-state football and basketball player who is also valedictorian, has a scholarship to Princeton, and is rumoured to be taking Mary to the prom.

What does 'hold you to that' mean?

It means to make someone keep a promise or stand by a half-given answer. Ted uses it to treat Mary's 'maybe' as something closer to a yes.

What is the running joke about the baseball?

A boy keeps asking people whether they have seen his baseball, repeating the question to everyone. The gag shows the school's background noise and Ted's scattered, anxious world.

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