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Mother and Daughter 母女和解IMDb ↗
当母亲放下控制亲子终于彼此看见
Turning Red · 2022
CEFR B2IELTS 6.5concertFamily bond雅思
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The story so far
Everything you need before watchingAt the ritual’s breaking point, Ming’s giant red panda is still out of reach, and Mei and her family have only one chance to pull her back. The rescue turns into a desperate, messy sing-along: relatives strain, friends improvise, and an old promise becomes a lifeline. When mother and daughter finally face one another, the physical struggle gives way to a quieter confession about perfection, identity, and the fear of growing apart.
美
Mei Meidaughter
明
Mingmother
锦
Grandma Wugrandmother
孙
Sun Yeeancestor
美
Miriamfriend
普
Priyafriend
艾
Abbyfriend
泰
Tylerclassmate
高
Mr. Gaoritual master
Chapters
13 parts · AI-cut01Daisy Mart Disaster孩子的秘密被发现后全家失控B11'54"02The Panda Awakens第一次失控后她必须学会面对自己B13'20"03Friends Have Her Back朋友接住崩溃的人她重新找回勇气B14'14"04The Concert Refusal越想证明成熟越难得到父母信任B13'57"05A Secret Plan越被拒绝越要和朋友闯出自己的路B11'48"06A Risky Deal一个交易看似公平却暗藏着陷阱B11'49"07Family Takes Over亲人越担心她越不敢放松自己B13'17"08Ritual Versus Concert当梦想撞上家规每个人都开始慌张B13'46"09The Party Explodes被朋友推向冒险后她终于爆发B21'47"10A Father's Answer父亲告诉女儿别再逃避真实的自己B11'46"11The Ritual Fails越想控制孩子越会把她推向更远处B23'53"12The Truth Comes Out压抑太久的孩子终于对家人说真话B13'07"13Mother and Daughter当母亲放下控制亲子终于彼此看见B27'13"
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00:02
Mom You have to get in the circle
妈妈，你得进圈里来。
00:07
Wake up
醒醒。
00:10
I'm sorry!
对不起！
00:12
Mom Come on
妈妈，快点。
00:15
Please
求你了。
00:23
Sun Yee give me strength
孙仪，请赐予我力量。
00:37
Pull Mei Mei GASPS Grandma
拉住美美！（倒吸一口气）（锦奶奶）
00:39
I am not losing my daughter
我不会失去我的女儿。
00:42
Don t just stand there
别光站着。
01:00
Make room for your elders Mei Mei
给长辈们让让地方，美美。
01:02
What PING We re with you
什么？（平）我们和你一起。
01:04
But what are you doing What if you can t turn back
可你们到底在做什么？要是你回不来了怎么办？
01:06
Your mom needs us LILY She s family
你妈妈需要我们。（莉莉）她是家人。
01:08
Less talking more pulling
少说话，多用力。
01:10
This fur is so itchy Quiet Lily
这毛太痒了。安静，莉莉。
01:24
Louder
再大声点！
01:26
Sing from the heart
用心唱！
01:27
Louder The circle isn t working
再大声点！这个圈子不起作用。
01:40
Never met nobody Nobody
从没遇到过任何人，任何人。
01:44
Never met never met never met
从没遇到，从没遇到，从没遇到。
01:46
Like
像
01:50
You
你。
02:02
Get up
站起来！
02:03
I never met nobody
我从没遇到过任何人
02:06
Like you
像你这样的人。
02:08
Had friends and I ve had buddies
我有过朋友，也有过伙伴。
02:10
ALL GASPING AND CHEERING It s true
（众人倒吸气并欢呼）真的！
02:12
But they don t turn my tummy The way you do
可他们不会像你这样让我心里翻腾。
02:16
I ve never met nobody like you
我从没遇到过像你这样的人。
02:21
You re never not on my mind Oh my oh my
你一直都在我心里。天啊，天啊。
02:26
I m never not by your side Your side your side
我一直陪在你身边。你的身边，你的身边。
02:30
I m never gonna let you cry Oh cry don t cry
我绝不会让你哭。哦，别哭，别哭。
02:35
I ll never not be your ride or die
我永远都会做那个和你同甘共苦的人。
02:38
All right
好啦。
02:45
Huh
嗯？
02:48
Mom Mom
妈妈，妈妈！
03:04
Mom Are you okay We have to
妈妈，你还好吗？我们得……
03:07
Mom
妈妈！
03:10
I m sorry It s all my fault
对不起，都是我的错。
03:17
What happened
发生什么事了？
03:19
I I hurt her
我……我伤害了她。
03:22
Who
谁？
03:23
My mom
我妈妈。
03:25
I got so angry and I lost control
我当时太生气了，完全失去了控制。
03:30
I m just so sick of being perfect
我真的受够了事事完美。
03:33
I m never gonna be good enough for her
我永远都不可能达到她的要求。
03:36
Or anyone
也达不到任何人的要求。
03:51
I know it feels that way
我知道你感觉是那样。
03:53
Like all the time
好像一直都是这样。
03:57
But it isn t true
但事实并不是这样。
04:06
Come on
来吧。
04:39
Really I could explode at any moment
真的，我随时都可能爆发。
04:40
We have to find them Where are they
我们得找到她们。她们在哪儿？
04:41
Finally PING Hurry hurry
终于！（平）快，快！
04:44
Where have you been Come on
你们去哪儿了？快点。
04:45
Let s get the lead out GRANDMA Ladies
快点，别磨蹭！（锦奶奶）各位女士！
04:58
I m sorry GRANDMA Shh
对不起。（锦奶奶）嘘。
05:01
You don t have to apologize
你不用道歉。
05:06
I m your mother
我是你妈妈。
05:13
May Sun Yee guide you and keep you safe
愿孙仪指引你，护你平安。
05:18
One at a time ladies And quickly
女士们，一个一个来，快点。
05:23
That s it
就是这样。
05:24
Mei Mei s keeping the panda
美美要留下这只熊猫。
05:26
It s her life Now move
这是她的人生。现在，动起来。
05:52
Go ahead It s okay
去吧，没事的。
06:16
No
不。
06:18
Mei Mei please Just come with me
美美，求你了，跟我来吧。
06:23
I m changing Mom
妈妈，我正在改变。
06:26
I m finally figuring out who I am
我终于开始弄明白自己是谁。
06:31
But GASPS SOFTLY
可是……（轻轻倒吸一口气）
06:34
I m scared it ll take me away from you
我怕这会把我从你身边带走。
06:39
Me too
我也是。
06:42
I see you Mei Mei
我懂你，美美。
06:45
You try to make everyone happy
你总想让每个人都开心。
06:47
but are so hard on yourself
却对自己太苛刻。
06:50
And if I taught you that
如果这是我教会你的……
06:55
I'm sorry.
对不起。
06:58
So don t hold back
所以，别再压抑自己。
07:01
For anyone
为了任何人，都别。
07:06
The farther you go
你走得越远，
07:09
the prouder I ll be
我就会越为你骄傲。
Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoPronunciation↩ 00:02
have to
have to 常弱读成 /həf tə/，不要逐字重读。
Mom You have to get in the circle
妈妈，你得进圈里来。
Pronunciation↩ 00:02
get in the
词尾 t 与后面元音连读，听起来像 get-in-the。
Mom You have to get in the circle
妈妈，你得进圈里来。
CollocationB1↩ 00:23
give someone strength
give someone strength
给某人力量
Sun Yee give me strength
孙仪，请赐予我力量。
CollocationB1↩ 01:00
make room for someone/something
make room for someone/something
给某人或某物腾地方
Make room for your elders Mei Mei
给长辈们让让地方，美美。
CollocationB1↩ 01:04
turn back
turn back
回头；恢复原状
But what are you doing What if you can t turn back
可你们到底在做什么？要是你回不来了怎么办？
GrammarB1↩ 01:04
What if you can t turn back
条件句：What if 后接假设情境，意为“要是……怎么办”。
But what are you doing What if you can t turn back
可你们到底在做什么？要是你回不来了怎么办？
CollocationB1↩ 01:08
less X, more Y
less X, more Y
少做前者，多做后者
Less talking more pulling
少说话，多用力。
CollocationB1↩ 01:26
do something from the heart
do something from the heart
真情实感地做某事
Sing from the heart
用心唱！
CollocationB1↩ 02:21
be on someone's mind
be on someone's mind
一直在某人心里或脑中
You re never not on my mind Oh my oh my
你一直都在我心里。天啊，天啊。
Pronunciation↩ 02:21
never not
not 要重读，突出“从未不在意”的双重否定。
You re never not on my mind Oh my oh my
你一直都在我心里。天啊，天啊。
CollocationB1↩ 02:26
be by someone's side
be by someone's side
陪在某人身边
I m never not by your side Your side your side
我一直陪在你身边。你的身边，你的身边。
Pronunciation↩ 02:26
by your side
your 弱读为 /jər/，三词连成一组。
I m never not by your side Your side your side
我一直陪在你身边。你的身边，你的身边。
Pronunciation↩ 02:30
gonna let you
gonna 与 let you 轻快连读，别把每词都读满。
I m never gonna let you cry Oh cry don t cry
我绝不会让你哭。哦，别哭，别哭。
SlangB2↩ 02:35
ride or die
生死与共的伙伴——亲密关系或朋友间口语，正式场合少用
I ll never not be your ride or die
我永远都会做那个和你同甘共苦的人。
CollocationB1↩ 03:25
lose control
lose control
失去控制
I got so angry and I lost control
我当时太生气了，完全失去了控制。
CollocationB1↩ 03:30
be sick of something/doing
be sick of something/doing
受够；厌倦
I m just so sick of being perfect
我真的受够了事事完美。
CollocationB1↩ 03:33
be good enough for someone
be good enough for someone
达到某人的要求
I m never gonna be good enough for her
我永远都不可能达到她的要求。
GrammarB1↩ 03:33
good enough for her
enough结构：形容词加 enough 表示“足够……”，for her 说明评判标准。
I m never gonna be good enough for her
我永远都不可能达到她的要求。
CollocationB1↩ 04:39
at any moment
at any moment
随时
Really I could explode at any moment
真的，我随时都可能爆发。
CollocationB2↩ 04:45
get the lead out
get the lead out
赶紧，别磨蹭
Let s get the lead out GRANDMA Ladies
快点，别磨蹭！（锦奶奶）各位女士！
SlangB2↩ 04:45
get the lead out
赶紧行动——口语催熟人快点，带玩笑色彩
Let s get the lead out GRANDMA Ladies
快点，别磨蹭！（锦奶奶）各位女士！
CollocationA2↩ 05:18
one at a time
one at a time
一次一个，逐个来
One at a time ladies And quickly
女士们，一个一个来，快点。
CollocationA2↩ 05:52
go ahead
go ahead
请继续；尽管做
Go ahead It s okay
去吧，没事的。
CollocationB1↩ 06:26
figure out something
figure out something
弄明白或想出办法
I m finally figuring out who I am
我终于开始弄明白自己是谁。
GrammarB2↩ 06:34
it ll take me away from you
省略that从句：scared 后接省略 that 的完整分句，it 指前面的改变。
I m scared it ll take me away from you
我怕这会把我从你身边带走。
GrammarA2↩ 06:45
to make everyone happy
不定式补语：try to do 表示“努力做某事”，to 后接动词原形。
You try to make everyone happy
你总想让每个人都开心。
CollocationB1↩ 06:47
be hard on yourself
be hard on yourself
对自己苛刻
but are so hard on yourself
却对自己太苛刻。
CollocationB1↩ 06:58
hold back
hold back
压住情绪或不退缩
So don t hold back
所以，别再压抑自己。
Pronunciation↩ 06:58
hold back
hold、back 都清晰重读，形成坚定的鼓励语气。
So don t hold back
所以，别再压抑自己。
Pronunciation↩ 07:01
For anyone
for 弱读为 /fər/，与 anyone 连得更自然。
For anyone
为了任何人，都别。
GrammarB2↩ 07:06
The farther you go
比较级呼应：the+比较级与后句呼应，表示“越……就越……”。
The farther you go
你走得越远，
Teaching points
Review right after watchingMy level
above my level
SlangB2↩ 02:35
ride or die
生死之交
In the scene歌里美美向明承诺：无论发生什么都会站在她身边。
Nora is my ride-or-die friend.诺拉是我最铁、最讲义气的朋友。
In daily life
朋友支持A ride-or-die friend stays when things get messy.真正讲义气的朋友会在事情变复杂时留下。
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 04:45
get the lead out
赶紧，别磨蹭
In the scene仪式紧急，锦催大家加快动作，语气又急又有点逗。
Get the lead out—we're going to miss the train.快点——我们要赶不上火车了。
In daily life
赶地铁Get the lead out, or the doors will close.快点，不然车门要关了。
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Phrasal verbB1↩ 06:26
figure out
弄明白；想出办法
In the scene美美说自己终于逐渐认清真正的自己。
I need time to figure out what went wrong.我需要时间弄清楚哪里出了问题。
In daily life
修电脑Let's figure out why the screen keeps freezing.我们弄清楚屏幕为什么总是卡住吧。
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CollocationB1↩ 06:47
be hard on yourself
对自己太苛刻
In the scene明看见美美总想取悦所有人，也把标准压在自己身上。
Don't be hard on yourself after one mistake.犯了一次错后别对自己太苛刻。
In daily life
考试失利Try not to be hard on yourself about the score.别因为这个分数过分责备自己。
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CollocationB1↩ 03:30
be sick of
受够；厌倦
In the scene美美终于说出自己长期被“完美”要求压得喘不过气。
We're sick of waiting for vague answers.我们受够了等待含糊的答案。
In daily life
排队等候I'm sick of standing in this endless line.我受够了排这条没完没了的队。
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CollocationB1↩ 03:25
lose control
失去控制
In the scene美美承认自己因愤怒爆发，伤害了明。
He lost control of his temper during the meeting.他在会议中没控制住脾气。
In daily life
争执之后I almost lost control when the files disappeared.文件不见时我差点失控。
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DiscourseB1↩ 01:08
less X, more Y
少做前者，多做后者
In the scene大家忙着救明时，朋友用短促命令催大家马上行动。
Less scrolling, more studying.少刷手机，多学习。
In daily life
团队赶工Less arguing, more testing.少争论，多测试。
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Phrasal verbB1↩ 06:58
hold back
克制；退缩
In the scene明让美美不要再为讨好别人而压抑真实的自己。
She held back her tears during the speech.演讲时她强忍住了眼泪。
In daily life
展示作品Don't hold back when you present your design.展示设计时别有所保留。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“I m finally figuring out who I am”
我终于开始弄明白自己是谁。
Why it's great
figure out 与身份从句结合，直白又有成长感。
Pattern
figure out who I am/you are
When to use
迷茫、换工作或做决定时自我梳理
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I'm finding myself. ／ I'm learning who I really am.
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neutral
Shadowing tip
重读 finally、figuring、who I am，句尾降调。
Use it yourself
选专业I'm figuring out what I want to study.我正在弄清楚自己想学什么。
“I m just so sick of being perfect”
我真的受够了事事完美。
Why it's great
sick of 是口语化的“受够了”，情绪直接有力。
Pattern
be sick of doing something
When to use
表达对重复任务或过高要求的厌倦
Similar
I'm tired of trying to be perfect. ／ I've had enough of these expectations.
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informal
Shadowing tip
just so 连读，重读 sick、perfect，语气下坠。
Use it yourself
加班I'm sick of working late every night.我受够了每天晚上加班。
“So don t hold back”
所以，别再压抑自己。
Why it's great
hold back 能表达克制情绪、隐藏能力或不敢行动。
Pattern
don't hold back
When to use
鼓励朋友大胆表达或展示能力时
Similar
Let it out. ／ Go all in.
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informal
Shadowing tip
重读 hold back，don't 轻读，祈使句收得坚定。
Use it yourself
鼓励发言Don't hold back—tell us what you think.别有所保留，说说你的想法。
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ 美美的自责告白
I got so angry and I lost control I m just so sick of being perfect I m never gonna be good enough for her Or anyone
我当时太生气了，完全失去了控制。 我真的受够了事事完美。 我永远都不可能达到她的要求。 也达不到任何人的要求。
四句短促自白层层加深，从失控推进到对完美的厌倦。