Uncle Frank · 2020 — Chapter 14 of 17 · 3'35" · B2

Aunt Butch Grills Frank at the Wake, Explained: the female front

At the wake, the family trades small talk and old gossip, and Frank keeps the truth about Wally hidden. Aunt Butch corners him with the usual question: "any news on the female front?"

What happens

At the family wake, relatives catch up on kids, marriages, and New York. One cousin gushes about her husband, and Frank is asked about Wally, who is staying at a motel. Aunt Butch then presses Frank about finding a woman.

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Phrase of the scene

the female front

the romantic side of someone's life

弗兰克模仿布奇阿姨的问法,等着她问 any news on the female front,把催婚说成一个固定节目。

Any news on the job front?

Also in this scene

  • get it on

    to have sex, said lightly

  • hurt her feelings

    to make someone feel upset or hurt

  • go by a name

    to use a particular name

Everything marked in this scene

40 notes across 70 lines

Phrase · B2talk like a YankeeMm. Everyone up there talk like a Yankee?
Slang · B2YankeeMm. Everyone up there talk like a Yankee?
Phrase · B2any famous peopleYou see any famous people in New York?
Phrase · A2what about youSo, what about you?
Phrase · B1how's lifeHow's life? Mm.
Phrase · B2never been happierHonestly, Beth, I've never been happier.
Grammar · B2I've never been happier

present perfect with never

Honestly, Beth, I've never been happier.
Phrase · B1love being somethingI love being a mother. I love being pregnant.
Phrase · B1a really good daddyHe's a really good daddy.
Soundgood daddy

flap

He's a really good daddy.
Phrase · B2go by a name

to use a particular name

He don't go by Tee Dub no more now that he's a business owner.
Grammar · C1He don't go by Tee Dub no more

dialect don't with double negative

He don't go by Tee Dub no more now that he's a business owner.
Slang · C1get it onBut, oh, we still get it on all the time.
Phrase · C1blessed in that departmentHe is very blessed in that department. [chuckles]
Phrase · A2what's wrongWhat's wrong, monkey?
Phrase · B2have no idea whyHe loves to do that. I have no idea why.
Phrase · B2should be hereI think he should be here with you.
Phrase · B2after all these yearsI want to meet him. After all these years.
Soundall these years

liaison

I want to meet him. After all these years.
Phrase · B2at someone's funeralAt Dad's funeral?
Phrase · B2be a question markMike, that's a question mark.
Phrase · B2no shitNo shit.
Slang · B2No shitNo shit.
Phrase · B2just for thisIt's just for this. I swear.
Phrase · B2pinkie-promise someoneYou want to pinkie-promise me?
Phrase · B2what kind of X doesn't have YWhat kind of wake doesn't have a bar?
Phrase · B2one in this townOne in this town.
Phrase · B2a spider in her hairShe has a spider in her hair.
Phrase · B1did you tell someoneDid you tell her?
Phrase · B2hurt someone's feelings

to make someone feel upset or hurt

Oh, I don't want to hurt her feelings.
Phrase · B2how mad someone gotI mean, remember how mad she got when I told her her wig was on backwards
Grammar · C1how mad she got when I told her her wig was on backwards

how-clause with when

I mean, remember how mad she got when I told her her wig was on backwards
Phrase · B2stop wearing somethingThat's why she stopped wearing wigs.
Phrase · C1any news on the ... frontTell me, any news on the female front?
Phrase · A2how old are youWell, how old are you?
Phrase · B2be getting on up thereYou must be getting on up there.
Soundgetting on up

liaison

You must be getting on up there.
Phrase · B2got to get movingWell, you got to get moving, boy.
Phrase · B2end up like someoneYou're gonna end up like me. Oh.
Phrase · B2be different for someoneCourse, it's different for men.

Aunt Butch Grills Frank at the Wake, explained

What's really going on

The wake is a room full of people talking around the one subject that matters. The cousins perform their happy lives out loud, and Frank listens, keeping Wally at a motel instead of at his side. When he says, "He is here," the line is technically false in the room but true in his head, and the idea of announcing it at his father's funeral is staged as a nervous joke. Aunt Butch's question, "any news on the female front?", is asked with affection and lands like pressure, because the family can imagine only one kind of future for him. The scene is funny on the surface, but every laugh comes from what everyone is avoiding.

Theme

SecretsFrank keeps Wally hidden at a motel while the family talks about marriage, and the secret shapes the whole evening.
Family conflictAunt Butch presses Frank about a wife without knowing why he cannot answer honestly.

What you'll learn

  • Use after all these years for a long wait
  • Hear on the female front as dating news
  • Catch get it on as sexual slang
  • Say hurt someone's feelings with care
  • Read a question mark as maybe not

Listen for

  • good daddy — flap
  • all these years — liaison
  • getting on up — liaison
Honestly, Beth, I've never been happier.

A cousin's boast about her perfect life, which sets the tone the others feel they have to match.

I want to meet him. After all these years.

Beth's wish to finally meet Wally, turning Frank's secret into an invitation he is not ready to accept.

You're gonna end up like me. Oh.

Aunt Butch's blunt warning that Frank will end up alone if he does not marry.

Course, it's different for men.

Her parting double standard, excusing Frank's situation in a way that still keeps the pressure on.

Questions about this scene

Why is Wally at the motel instead of the funeral?

Frank has not told his family about their relationship, so Wally stays away from the wake. Beth wants to meet him, but Frank resists bringing him to his father's funeral.

Why does Frank say Wally is here?

He is hiding the truth from the relatives but admitting it to Beth. Wally is nearby at the motel, so the answer is a half-truth rather than an outright lie.

Why does Aunt Butch ask about the female front?

She is an older relative who wants Frank to settle down and sees it as her business. She does not know why the question is painful for him.

What is the joke about announcing Wally at the funeral?

Frank imagines standing up and introducing him to the whole family at the wake. It is funny because everyone knows exactly how badly that would go.

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