“Mr. Vanderhof, you once told me I was a failure as a father.”
范德霍夫先生,您有一次说我是个失败的父亲。
把最重的自我否定说得平平淡淡,认错的人先把自己放低。
you once told me I was a ...
向长辈或旧交承认自己的不足时用;求职面试里别自曝短处。
Some time ago you said I was a failure as a father. / You called me a failure as a father once.
正式
once 轻读,failure as a 连读,句尾放平。
You once told me I was a failure as a student. 您有一次说我是个失败的学生。