这场戏：夫妻摊开谈支持与恐惧
第 6 章 · 共 27 章 · 3'39"
安迪说自己 I'm doing it on my own（一个人在扛），只想要身边的人给些支持；瓦什蒂回说 here's the thing（事情是这样的），把心里最怕的梦、作为母亲的恐惧全倒出来。最后她还是说 As long as it doesn't harm anybody else, I support it（只要不伤害别人，我就支持）。想学夫妻之间怎么摊开讲、怎么表态支持，这段最真实。
people think I'm mad（大家都觉得我疯了）
believe in 相信、认同某种做法need some support 需要有人撑一把on my own 一个人扛、全靠自己think I'm mad 觉得我疯了
❝ 独白 · 8 句 关于那个梦的自白
从没消化的情绪讲到噩梦，再落到怕孩子没了爸爸，层层逼近最深的恐惧。
As long as it doesn't harm anybody else（只要不伤害别人）
I'm your husband 我是你丈夫more than anyone 比谁都更胜一筹getting through 咬牙熬过去As long as 只要……就……
安迪先说 I just need some support（只想要一些支持），再说自己 I'm doing it on my own（一个人在扛），people think I'm mad（大家觉得他疯了）。瓦什蒂接着说 here's the thing（事情是这样的），讲出昨晚的梦：梦见他没时间了、来不及了；作为母亲，她有一股 a protective streak（护着孩子的本能），会问自己 What if he did die（万一他真走了呢）。安迪回她 I know you more than anyone（我比谁都了解你）。她承认自己 a lack of trust（缺了点信任），最后还是说 As long as it doesn't harm anybody else, I support it（只要不伤害别人，我就支持）。想学夫妻怎么把支持和恐惧说清楚，这段很动人。
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“I know all that's going on, hon. I'm your husband.”
你心里的事我全知道，亲爱的。我是你丈夫。
不解释不劝说，一句我是你丈夫，把信任和担当全接住了。
I know all that's going on.
想安抚最亲近的人、表明站在对方一边时用；对普通朋友说会显得越界。
I know exactly what you're going through. ／ I'm not guessing, I know you.
口语
all that's 连读成 all-thats，hon 轻轻带上，句尾放稳。
I know how hard this week has been, hon. 亲爱的，我知道你这周有多难。
“As long as it doesn't harm anybody else, I support it, and you just need to know that.”
只要不伤害别人，我就支持，你只要记住这一点。
把支持说成条件句，既给自由也划底线，比空喊我支持你更可信。
As long as ..., I support it.
表态支持对方的选择、又想留一条底线时用；谈判可用，但别拿它敷衍人。
As long as no one gets hurt, I'm in. ／ I'm with you, provided it hurts no one.
中性
As long as 连成一串，harm anybody 也连读，末句降调。
As long as you're honest with me, I'll back your plan. 只要你对我坦白，我就支持你的计划。
“I'm doing it on my own and people think I'm mad.”
我一个人在做这件事，大家都觉得我疯了。
一句说自己扛着还被当成疯子，委屈和倔强一起说完了。
I'm doing it on my own.
讲自己独立扛事、又没人理解时用；对熟人可抱怨，正式汇报别这么讲。
I'm carrying this by myself. ／ Nobody's helping me with this.
口语
doing it on my own 连读，I'm mad 里 mad 要重读。
I'm doing it on my own and no one even asked. 我一个人在做，连个过问的人都没有。
“I know you more than anyone.”
我比谁都了解你。
七个字把陪伴的分量说尽，不煽情却最让人安心。
I know you more than anyone.
对伴侣、家人表达我懂你时用；对刚认识的人说会显得冒犯。
I know you better than anyone. ／ No one knows you like I do.
中性
more than anyone 连读，anyone 重读，语调放软收尾。
I know you better than anyone, so talk to me. 我比谁都了解你，所以跟我说吧。
Sometimes what you're getting is this unprocessed me, you know, like I might, like last night I dreamt about this, I dreamt about it. Because it's my girlfriend's anniversary of dying three years ago from cancer. [shaky voice] Last night, I dreamt that you, we just didn't have time, and we'd left it too late. And you went in for chemo and they said, "I'm sorry, we can't do it because it's everywhere. It's too late." And I just remember thinking, "If we'd just been open to everything and tried everything, Jesse would have a dad." And that was my dream and it's terrifying.
有时候你面对的，是还没消化好情绪的我，你知道，我可能…… 比如昨晚我就梦见了这件事，我梦见了。 因为三年前，我的一个女性朋友就是得癌症走的，昨天正是她的忌日。（声音发颤） 昨晚我梦见，我们只是没时间了，一切拖得太晚了。 你去做化疗，他们却说：'对不起，我们做不了，因为癌细胞已经扩散得到处都是。' 已经太晚了。 我只记得自己当时在想：'要是我们当初对一切保持开放、什么都试过，杰西就不会没有爸爸。' 这就是我做的梦，太吓人了。
下一章 · 07good for someone对某人有好处这场戏：请占星师看星盘断吉凶口语里用来引出重点，意思是「事情是这样的、关键是」。台词 So here's the thing 就是「问题是这样」，等于先让对方别急，再讲真正想说的。
说 get through something，比如 get through this（挺过这一关）。台词 how I'm getting through it 就是「我是怎么撑过来的」，常用来讲撑过病痛、低谷。
指「护着家人、尤其是孩子的本能」。streak 在这里是「某种性格倾向」，台词 there's a protective streak in you 就是「你身上有股护犊的本能」。
说 make sense to someone，比如 Does that make any sense to you?（我这么说你能明白吗？）。也可以说 make sense of something，指把某事理清楚。
不是「生气」，而是「疯了、脑子不正常」。台词 people think I'm mad 就是「大家觉得我疯了」，这是英式英语里很常见的用法。
