if there's anything you need有需要就跟我们说

把舍不得从客套里拎出来：先亮明自己，再说已经想念，越克制越真。

I for one ... ; I ... already

跟朋友表态时用 I for one 先站队，比 I think 更像真心话，正式场合别抢话。

for my part, I ... ／ speaking for myself, I ...

中性

for one 连读，miss 拉长，already 收低。

I for one am sticking with the original plan. I've told them already. 就我来说，我还是支持原来的方案，已经跟他们说过了。

不写丰功伟绩，只用 very special 收束一个普通人的一生，轻却压得住。

She was a very special ...

追忆一个人时，用 very special 这种克制的说法，比硬夸伟大更真，正式悼词里别用力过猛。

she was one of a kind ／ she meant a lot to us

中性

special 重音，lady 轻轻收，别喊出来。

Grandma was a very special lady to everyone on our street. 在整条街的人心里，奶奶都是位特别的长辈。

so much 摆在句尾，把告别里最俗的一句话说得像是真的。

We're gonna miss ... so much.

送别或告别时表达想念，so much 收尾最自然，商务邮件里别这么口语。

we're gonna miss you a lot ／ we miss her terribly

口语

gonna 弱读，so much 连读，句尾放平。

We're gonna miss you so much around here. 这儿的人都会特别想你的。

否定句重复两遍，把难以接受的事实说得笨拙又真实。

I can't believe it. I still can't believe it.

得知坏消息、当面安慰或陪丧时用；对当事人反复说会像敷衍，说一次就好，别说太多。

I still can't wrap my head around it. ／ It doesn't feel real.

口语

believe 两次都重读，第二句更轻更慢，中间停半拍。

I can't believe it. I still can't believe it. She was just here last week. 我不信，还是不信。她上星期还在这儿呢。