Chapter 9 of 16 · 1'46"
An Open Marriage 婚姻可以重写IMDb ↗
开放婚姻说得轻而易举
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The story so far
Everything you need before watchingBob has returned from Las Vegas with a new partner, and the excitement quickly turns into a tense conversation about marriage, publicity, and the other women in his life. She refuses to pretend that he is someone else, while he worries about his wife and the public eye. Beneath the teasing, the scene asks whether love can survive complete honesty.
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Bobprotagonist
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Partnerromantic partner
Chapters
16 parts · AI-cut01A Risky Career Turn演员接到烫手角色会怎么选B11'47"02A Marriage Confronted一场争吵揭开婚姻里的秘密B11'55"03Meeting the VTR Expert新朋友带来的技术改变生活B22'07"04The First Shoot镜头一开人们就暴露了欲望C13'33"05Home Movies热闹聚会里谁都逃不过镜头B13'24"06The Tape Betrayal一段录像让两个朋友彻底翻脸B21'45"07The Failed Demonstration一次失误足以让专家丢掉工作B21'56"08Repairing the Friendship朋友道歉之后关系真的能修复吗B12'03"09An Open Marriage开放婚姻说得轻而易举B21'46"10A New Way Out失业的人怎样在荒唐中找出路B13'09"11A Shocking Opportunity荒唐的计划撞上意外的好消息B22'12"12The Scandal Warning一条丑闻可能毁掉新的机会B21'35"13Served on Live TV体面节目也挡不住现实传票B12'03"14The Image Problem想翻身的人先要面对旧名声B13'16"15An Awkward Reunion父子重逢后用奇怪话题试探彼此B12'19"16The Final Break最后的伙伴终于说出真心话B21'54"
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00:02
- There you are, sir. - Thank you very much.
- 给您，先生。- 非常感谢。
00:03
Oh, I just... So, you...
哦，我只是……所以，你……
00:06
So you actually went to Las Vegas with, uh...
所以，你真的和……呃，一起去了拉斯维加斯……
00:10
You can't even say his name?
你连他的名字都说不出口？
00:13
Come on . I told you I was going.
得了吧。我不是告诉过你我要去吗。
00:16
Sure, but I didn't think you were really going to do it.
是，但我没想到你真的会去做。
00:20
Bob, honey , you're already married .
鲍勃，亲爱的，你已经结婚了。
00:24
She doesn't understand this life.
她不懂这种生活。
00:27
She'd rather be back in Connecticut.
她宁愿回康涅狄格州去。
00:29
Yeah, well, she's not a Hollywood person, you know?
是啊，可她不是好莱坞圈里的人，你懂吧？
00:32
She's so good, though. She's like a...
不过，她人太好了。她就像……
00:33
A saint?
圣人？
00:35
Come on , don't let her do that to you .
得了，别让她这样影响你。
00:37
You are a good man.
你是个好人。
00:40
What about the press ?
那媒体怎么办？
00:43
The public reaction?
公众会有什么反应？
00:44
We've got nothing to be ashamed of .
我们没什么好羞愧的。
00:47
You know, Ed actually suggested we get married on the set.
你知道吗，埃德还提议我们在片场结婚。
00:50
CBS would love it.
CBS 肯定会很乐意。
00:52
Publicity.
宣传效果嘛。
00:55
Hey, you remember what you said to me the first time we had dinner together ?
嘿，你还记得我们第一次一起吃饭时，你对我说过什么吗？
00:59
- Yeah, that I was fluent in English . - Oh.
- 记得，你说我英语很流利。- 哦。
01:06
You said you wanted to find a woman who understands you .
你说你想找一个真正懂你的女人。
01:10
I do. I do.
对，我是这么想的。真的。
01:15
You know, I have to let you in on a little secret , baby.
你知道吗，宝贝，我得告诉你一个小秘密。
01:20
The other women, I know all about them .
其他那些女人，我全都知道。
01:28
You're okay with that ?
你能接受这一点？
01:31
We only go around once in this life.
人生只有这一回。
01:34
I never want to have to lie about who I am,
我不想不得不隐瞒真实的自己，
01:36
and I never want you to have to lie about who you are .
也不想让你不得不隐瞒真实的自己。
01:40
You're not going to change.
你不会改变的。
01:43
I know who you are , and I love you.
我知道你是什么样的人，而且我爱你。
01:46
And I love fucking you.
而且我就爱跟你上床。
Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoSlangA2↩ 00:13
Come on
得了吧／拜托——熟人间催促、反驳或不耐烦时用
Come on . I told you I was going.
得了吧。我不是告诉过你我要去吗。
Pronunciation↩ 00:20
you're already married
you're 常弱读成 /jər/，与 already 连得很快
Bob, honey , you're already married .
鲍勃，亲爱的，你已经结婚了。
SlangA2↩ 00:20
honey
亲爱的——亲密称呼，也可带哄劝或讽刺色彩
Bob, honey , you're already married .
鲍勃，亲爱的，你已经结婚了。
CollocationA2↩ 00:27
would rather do something
would rather do something
宁愿做某事
She'd rather be back in Connecticut.
她宁愿回康涅狄格州去。
CollocationB1↩ 00:35
let someone do something to someone
let someone do something to someone
让某人对某人做某事
Come on , don't let her do that to you .
得了，别让她这样影响你。
Pronunciation↩ 00:35
let her do that
let her 连读，t 与弱读的 her 几乎粘在一起
Come on , don't let her do that to you .
得了，别让她这样影响你。
CollocationA2↩ 00:40
what about something?
what about something?
那……呢？
What about the press ?
那媒体怎么办？
CollocationB1↩ 00:44
have nothing to be ashamed of
have nothing to be ashamed of
没什么可羞愧的
We've got nothing to be ashamed of .
我们没什么好羞愧的。
GrammarB1↩ 00:44
nothing to be ashamed of
后置不定式：to be ashamed of 修饰 nothing，表示没有什么需要羞愧的。
We've got nothing to be ashamed of .
我们没什么好羞愧的。
GrammarB2↩ 00:55
what you said to me the first time we had dinner together
宾语从句：remember 后接 what 引导的宾语从句，后面又嵌入时间从句。
Hey, you remember what you said to me the first time we had dinner together ?
嘿，你还记得我们第一次一起吃饭时，你对我说过什么吗？
Pronunciation↩ 00:55
what you said to
what you、said to 中的虚词弱读，节奏更紧
Hey, you remember what you said to me the first time we had dinner together ?
嘿，你还记得我们第一次一起吃饭时，你对我说过什么吗？
CollocationB1↩ 00:59
fluent in a language
fluent in a language
某语言说得流利
- Yeah, that I was fluent in English . - Oh.
- 记得，你说我英语很流利。- 哦。
GrammarB1↩ 01:06
a woman who understands you
定语从句：who understands you 修饰 woman，说明她是哪类女人。
You said you wanted to find a woman who understands you .
你说你想找一个真正懂你的女人。
CollocationB1↩ 01:15
let someone in on something
let someone in on something
把秘密告诉某人
You know, I have to let you in on a little secret , baby.
你知道吗，宝贝，我得告诉你一个小秘密。
CollocationA2↩ 01:20
know all about something
know all about something
对某事了解很多
The other women, I know all about them .
其他那些女人，我全都知道。
CollocationA2↩ 01:28
be okay with something
be okay with something
能接受这件事吗
You're okay with that ?
你能接受这一点？
GrammarB2↩ 01:36
who you are
名词性从句：who you are 表示你是谁，整体作 about 的宾语。
and I never want you to have to lie about who you are .
也不想让你不得不隐瞒真实的自己。
Pronunciation↩ 01:36
want you to have
want you to 连成 /wɑntʃə tə/
and I never want you to have to lie about who you are .
也不想让你不得不隐瞒真实的自己。
Pronunciation↩ 01:46
love fucking you
重读 fucking，情感从温柔转为露骨
And I love fucking you.
而且我就爱跟你上床。
SlangB2↩ 01:46
fucking
粗俗地强调性关系——亲密或挑衅语境可用，正式场合禁用
And I love fucking you.
而且我就爱跟你上床。
Teaching points
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Phrasal verbB1↩ 01:15
let someone in on something
把秘密告诉某人
In the scene她要把自己知道的秘密坦白告诉鲍勃，语气亲密又郑重。
I’ll let you in on a secret after dinner.晚饭后我告诉你一个秘密。
In daily life
机场值机The agent let me in on a faster check-in route.工作人员告诉我一条更快的值机通道。
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CollocationB1↩ 00:44
nothing to be ashamed of
没什么可羞愧的
In the scene她把非传统关系说成无需遮掩、无需道歉的选择。
There is nothing to be ashamed of in asking for help.寻求帮助没什么可羞愧的。
In daily life
考试失利There is nothing to be ashamed of after one bad result.一次糟糕的成绩没什么可羞愧的。
above my level
IronyB2↩ 00:50
would love it
会非常乐见
In the scene把公开结婚当成电视宣传，表面兴奋，实际在讽刺媒体的算盘。
The sponsors would love it if we launched during the festival.如果我们在节日期间发布，赞助商肯定乐见其成。
In daily life
宣传提案The marketing team would love it if the event went viral.如果活动走红，营销团队肯定求之不得。
above my level
SwearingB2↩ 01:46
fuck someone
和某人发生性关系
In the scene她把爱意和性欲直接说出口，故意打破客套。
The character says he wants to fuck her, which shocks everyone.角色说他想和她上床，把所有人都吓了一跳。
In daily life
亲密表达He told his lover, “I want to fuck you,” but the wording is extremely vulgar.他对情人说“我想和你上床”，但这种说法极其粗俗。
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CollocationB1↩ 00:59
fluent in something
流利地使用英语
In the scene鲍勃回忆初次吃饭时夸她英语说得流利。
Mina is fluent in Spanish and Japanese.米娜能流利地说西班牙语和日语。
In daily life
面试She is fluent in German, so she led the client call.她德语流利，所以负责了客户电话。
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CollocationA2↩ 00:27
would rather do something
宁愿做某事
In the scene她借妻子更想回康涅狄格州，强调两种生活的冲突。
I’d rather walk home than wait for another bus.我宁愿走回家，也不想再等一班公交。
In daily life
周末安排We’d rather cook at home tonight.今晚我们宁愿在家做饭。
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DiscourseA2↩ 00:40
what about something
那……呢？
In the scene对方把话题从感情拉到媒体和公众反应。
What about the budget for next month?那下个月的预算怎么办？
In daily life
旅行计划What about the weather on Saturday?那周六的天气呢？
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IdiomB1↩ 01:31
go around once in this life
人生只有一次
In the scene她用生命只有一遭的比喻，为不隐瞒欲望辩护。
We only go around once, so I’m taking the trip I always wanted.人生只有一次，所以我要去实现一直想要的旅行。
In daily life
辞职旅行You only go around once, so make time for the people you love.人生只有一次，所以要为所爱的人留出时间。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“We only go around once in this life.”
人的一生只有这一遭。
Why it's great
用“走一遭”的生命隐喻，为诚实生活寻找坚定而浪漫的理由。
Pattern
We only ... once in this life.
When to use
劝朋友别总压抑自己、及时做重要的事时使用。
Similar
You only live once. ／ Life is too short to pretend.
Register
informal
Shadowing tip
重读 only、once、life，once 后稍停。
Use it yourself
鼓励旅行We only get one chance at this life, so take the trip.人生只有一次，所以去完成那趟旅行吧。
“I know who you are, and I love you.”
我知道你是什么样的人，而且我爱你。
Why it's great
先接住对方真实的一面，再给出爱，短句却有很强的包容感。
Pattern
I know who you are, and I ... you.
When to use
安慰或确认自己接受伴侣真实状态时使用。
Similar
I see the real you, and I accept you. ／ I know the truth, and I’m still here.
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neutral
Shadowing tip
who you are 连读，love you 落重音表达坚定。
Use it yourself
安慰伴侣I know who you are, and I trust you anyway.我知道你是什么样的人，但我依然信任你。