“You've taken your time to come and see me, haven't you?”
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A phrase that usually soothes becomes a gentle dig at how long she waited.
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A Woman Asks for Sleeping Pills, Explained
Another Year · 2010
Chapter 1 of 25 · 3'39"
At a sleep clinic, a woman who can't sleep just wants pills. The doctor keeps asking — about her worries, her husband, her kids, her drinking, her caffeine — and takes her blood pressure. "Sleeping tablets won't make it go away," the doctor says. "We need to find the cause."
Key moments
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The Doctor Asks How Long It's Been Going On
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❝ Monologue · 8 lines The Doctor Refuses to Just Give Pills
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A Woman Asks for Sleeping Pills, explained
What happens
A woman visits a sleep clinic asking for something to help her sleep. The doctor asks how long it has been going on, whether she dozes in the daytime, and about worries, money, her husband and children. After checking her blood pressure, the doctor offers only a week of sleeping tablets, orders a thyroid test, and suggests she see a counsellor.
What's really going on
The scene is a quiet tug-of-war over what the visit is actually for. The patient has one goal — 'So, I just need something to help me sleep' — and the doctor keeps widening the frame: duration, worries, money, marriage, menopause, alcohol, caffeine. The refusal is gentle but firm: 'Sleeping tablets won't make it go away. We need to find the cause.' Every question is also a reading of the life behind the insomnia, and the patient's flat answers — 'No. I don't know what that's got to do with it' — show she would rather not go there. The offer of a counsellor, and the prescription limited to a week, are the doctor's way of treating the cause instead of the symptom, even as the patient tries to reduce the whole visit to one piece of paper.
Key lines & what they mean
- “You've taken your time to come and see me, haven't you?”
- A dry greeting that says the doctor knows how long she has waited to seek help. It's a mild reproach dressed as politeness.
- “Sleeping tablets won't make it go away. We need to find the cause.”
- The doctor's core position: pills treat the symptom, not the insomnia's source, so the visit has to look deeper.
- “I'm not getting any. That's why I'm here.”
- The patient's blunt answer about her sleeplessness, and a nudge that she came for a fix, not a discussion.
- “Daughter's left, only see her when she wants something.”
- Her version of family life: a grown daughter who only appears when she needs something, offered flatly and without complaint.
Theme
- Loneliness — The patient's insomnia reads as a symptom of an unhappy, isolated life the doctor tries to name.
- Family conflict — Questions about her husband, her children and her home point to trouble the visit only brushes against.
What this chapter teaches
Teaching points
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A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“Sleeping tablets won't make it go away. We need to find the cause.”
Why it's great
She denies the easy fix and names the real task in one calm breath.
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Cramming won't make it go away. We need to find out why you keep failing.
“I'm not getting any. That's why I'm here.”
Why it's great
Two flat sentences carry the whole complaint: no sleep, and that is the reason she came.
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Informal
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The screen keeps going black. That's why I'm here.
“Daughter's left, only see her when she wants something.”
Why it's great
One flat sentence turns a mother's quiet hurt into an unforgettable line.
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My cousin only shows up when he wants to borrow money.
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ The doctor's closing explanation
Your blood pressure is slightly up, but I'm not overly concerned about that. But I do want you to have a blood test, to check your thyroid. You can make an appointment at reception. All right? Now, I will give you something to help you sleep but just enough for a week. - What good's that? - Insomnia isn't a disease. Sleeping tablets won't make it go away. We need to find the cause. Now, you're obviously anxious, and a little depressed. So I want you to come back and speak to our counsellor.
She moves from test results to causes to a counsellor, guiding Janet without a single order.
Another Year: your progress
Chapter 1 of 25 · about 87 min to go
Up next · 02the boot on the other footThe scene: Janet Rates Her HappinessTakeaways
What you walk away with- Find the cause means look for the real reason
- At the moment simply means right now
- Make it go away means cure the problem
- Taken your time can carry gentle sarcasm
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Questions, then the linesWhy does the woman come to the clinic?
She can't sleep and wants something to help — specifically, she asks for sleeping tablets. She says she is 'not getting any' sleep, which is why she is there.
Why won't the doctor just give her sleeping pills?
Because pills won't cure insomnia. The doctor says they treat the symptom, not the cause, so the visit has to look at what is really keeping her awake.
What does the doctor ask her about?
Sleep, worries, money, her husband and children, her menopause, alcohol, coffee and tea. The questions suggest the doctor thinks the insomnia is about more than sleep.
What does the doctor suggest at the end?
A blood test to check her thyroid, and a return visit to speak to a counsellor. The doctor also gives her only a week of sleeping tablets, not a long-term prescription.
How does the patient react to the counsellor idea?
She doesn't welcome it. She keeps steering back to the prescription — 'But you'll give me the prescription now?' — and the doctor has to ask again whether she will actually see the counsellor.