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Trust the Timing 相信时机IMDb ↗
四天后大婚，礼服戒指都齐了，问她怀没怀上，她没有
Signed, Sealed, Delivered: The Vows We Have Made · 2021
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Everything you need before watchingOliver marries in four days, and the new house has barely sunk in. He needs Norman, his best man, at his best. Norman ticks tuxedo, ring, license—then stalls on a gift for the bride. Pearls, something that lasts forever, maybe to a fiftieth anniversary. Then Oliver looks at Rita: the perfect place for two. Or three? She took the test. She is not pregnant. Watch them fold another disappointment into a motto: trust the timing.
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Olivergroom
诺
Normanbest man
丽
RitaNorman's partner
Chapters
18 parts · AI-cut01Sticky Dead Letters糖浆把死信粘成一团，里面还夹着小孩的画B22'46"02Trust the Timing四天后大婚，礼服戒指都齐了，问她怀没怀上，她没有B11'57"03A Kettle of Crazy亲家提前一天堵在门口，她说妈妈是一壶疯B12'37"04Owen Is Asking for Fred病童还在等一个不知能否回来的人B12'36"05Don't Say Baby医院查不到欧文，孕妇来面试，规矩是别提那个宝宝B12'47"06Mother in the Inner Sanctum妈妈提前一天推开办公室门，说要看看他日常怎么栖息B14'52"07About to Agree With Mom有人憋着一口气承认这次妈说得对B14'05"08The Station on the Envelope有人拿表亲关系把死信送到消防站B13'25"09I'm Not in a Good Place房租和预产期叠在一起，她说自己状态不好，没法当妈B12'59"10The Rest of Us Can't Enter帐篷只留给新郎新娘B13'41"11A Boy and His Stuffed Toy找玩具比结婚还要紧B24'20"12A Tabernacle of Love教堂要把爱藏进圣所B16'09"13The Rest of Your Life Together有人拿余生打圆场却问出了父亲B24'56"14What If We're Hers收养孩子其实在选父母B13'55"15She Left You at the Museum前妻曾把他丢在邮政博物馆，婚礼前他怕再被丢下B15'02"16Love Is a Choice结婚要选最怕的那件事B25'05"17They Figured Out Nothing博物馆里他突然沉默，她说离开你的人根本没搞懂自己B23'19"18Don't Waste a Moment午夜刚过才算婚礼日，表上刻不下相信时机，她改口永远B22'55"
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00:00
We bought a house!
我们买了房子！
00:02
Norman, will you be all right ?
诺曼，你没事吧？
00:05
I know it's a lot to take in .
我知道这消息一下子很难消化。
00:06
A house, down payment, 30-day escrow.
一套房子，首付，三十天托管过户。
00:09
But I am getting married in four days ,
可我四天后就要结婚了，
00:11
and I need my best man to be...
我需要我的伴郎……
00:13
well, at his best .
嗯，拿出他的最佳状态。
00:15
Yeah. Oh, no problem .
嗯。哦，没问题。
00:16
I've got your check list right here.
你的清单我带着呢。
00:18
Oh, let's see.
哦，我看看。
00:21
Tuxedo, check .
礼服，有了。
00:22
Ring, check .
戒指，有了。
00:23
Wedding license, check .
结婚证，有了。
00:24
Wedding gift for...
给……的结婚礼物……
00:26
bride.
新娘。
00:30
I thought people give us gifts.
我以为是别人给我们送礼。
00:33
And you give each other one.
你们也要互相送一份。
00:35
It's basic wedding etiquette .
这是基本的婚礼礼仪。
00:37
I read that
我是在
00:38
in "The Best Man's Guide to Basic Wedding Etiquette."
《伴郎婚礼礼仪入门》里读到的。
00:39
- Oh, I see. - Yeah.
- 哦，明白了。 - 对。
00:41
What should I get?
我该买什么？
00:43
Oh.
哦。
00:45
Well, pearls are always in good taste .
珍珠永远都很大方得体。
00:46
But something simple,
不过要简单一点，
00:47
you know, something that lasts forever .
你知道，能一直留着的那种。
00:50
Forever?
一直？
00:51
Yeah.
嗯。
00:53
Yeah, you know,
对，你知道，
00:54
something that she'll have at your 50th anniversary.
你们金婚时她还戴着的那种。
00:56
Our 50th.
我们的金婚。
00:57
50 years?
五十年？
00:58
Yeah.
嗯。
01:00
That's about 20 years longer than my mortgage.
那比我房贷还长大概二十年。
01:07
Ahem.
咳。
01:08
I've got to admit ,
我得承认，
01:10
Ramon found the perfect place for the two of you .
拉蒙给你们俩找的地方真是完美。
01:13
Yeah.
嗯。
01:14
Or maybe...
或者也许……
01:16
the three of you ?
你们三个？
01:17
Did you take the test ?
你验了吗？
01:18
I did, yeah.
验了，嗯。
01:19
And I'm not.
而且我没怀上。
01:21
Oh!
哦！
01:23
I thought maybe I was
我还以为我怀上了
01:24
because I was craving
因为我特别想吃
01:25
peanut-butter-and-mayonnaise sandwiches.
花生酱配蛋黄酱三明治。
01:27
But I think I just like peanut butter and mayonnaise.
但我想我只是爱吃花生酱配蛋黄酱。
01:31
I'm sorry.
对不起。
01:32
It's okay.
没关系。
01:35
Actually, it's not okay,
其实，并不是没关系，
01:37
but the more I think about it not being okay ,
可我越想这件事有多不好，
01:39
the more I think something is not okay.
就越觉得有什么不对劲。
01:43
Which I know in my heart will be okay.
而我心里清楚，最终会没事的。
01:47
It's just that I'm --
只是我——
01:48
Disappointed again.
又一次失望了。
01:50
Yeah.
嗯。
01:52
Well...
嗯……
01:54
well, you hang in there and you do what?
你得撑住，然后你做什么？
01:57
Trust the timing .
相信时机。
01:58
Exactly.
没错。
01:59
Oh.
哦。
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Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoCollocationA2↩ 00:02
be all right
be all right
没事、挺得住
Norman, will you be all right ?
诺曼，你没事吧？
Pronunciation↩ 00:02
will you be
will you 常弱成 willya。
Norman, will you be all right ?
诺曼，你没事吧？
CollocationA2↩ 00:05
a lot to take in
a lot to take in
一下子消化不完
I know it's a lot to take in .
我知道这消息一下子很难消化。
Pronunciation↩ 00:05
a lot to take
lot to 连成 lo-ta，两个 t 并一下。
I know it's a lot to take in .
我知道这消息一下子很难消化。
CollocationA2↩ 00:09
get married
get married
结婚
But I am getting married in four days ,
可我四天后就要结婚了，
CollocationA2↩ 00:09
in + 时间段
in + 时间段
再过四天
But I am getting married in four days ,
可我四天后就要结婚了，
CollocationA2↩ 00:11
best man
best man
伴郎
and I need my best man to be...
我需要我的伴郎……
GrammarB1↩ 00:11
need my best man to be
不定式宾补：need someone to be…：需要某人处于某种状态。
and I need my best man to be...
我需要我的伴郎……
CollocationB1↩ 00:13
at one's best
at one's best
处于最佳状态
well, at his best .
嗯，拿出他的最佳状态。
Pronunciation↩ 00:13
at his best
his 的 h 常丢掉，听成 atiz best。
well, at his best .
嗯，拿出他的最佳状态。
CollocationA2↩ 00:15
no problem
no problem
没问题
Yeah. Oh, no problem .
嗯。哦，没问题。
SlangA2↩ 00:21
check
勾掉、这项齐了——清点物品时说，像打勾，非正式
Tuxedo, check .
礼服，有了。
CollocationA2↩ 00:33
give each other something
give each other something
互相给对方
And you give each other one.
你们也要互相送一份。
CollocationB1↩ 00:35
wedding etiquette
wedding etiquette
婚礼礼仪
It's basic wedding etiquette .
这是基本的婚礼礼仪。
CollocationB1↩ 00:45
in good taste
in good taste
品味得体、大方
Well, pearls are always in good taste .
珍珠永远都很大方得体。
CollocationA2↩ 00:47
last forever
last forever
能一直留着、永恒
you know, something that lasts forever .
你知道，能一直留着的那种。
GrammarA2↩ 00:47
something that lasts forever
定语从句：that lasts forever 修饰 something，指能一直留着的东西。
you know, something that lasts forever .
你知道，能一直留着的那种。
CollocationA2↩ 01:08
have got to admit
have got to admit
不得不承认
I've got to admit ,
我得承认，
Pronunciation↩ 01:08
got to admit
got to 弱成 gotta。
I've got to admit ,
我得承认，
CollocationA2↩ 01:10
the two of someone
the two of someone
你们俩
Ramon found the perfect place for the two of you .
拉蒙给你们俩找的地方真是完美。
CollocationA2↩ 01:16
the three of someone
the three of someone
你们三个
这里暗示可能有了孩子
the three of you ?
你们三个？
CollocationA2↩ 01:17
take a test
take a test
做检测
这里 test=验孕
Did you take the test ?
你验了吗？
GrammarB1↩ 01:37
the more I think about it not being okay
越…越…：the more… the more… 两头比较，越想越觉得不对。
but the more I think about it not being okay ,
可我越想这件事有多不好，
CollocationA2↩ 01:43
in one's heart
in one's heart
打心里觉得
Which I know in my heart will be okay.
而我心里清楚，最终会没事的。
GrammarB1↩ 01:43
Which I know in my heart will be okay
非限制定语：Which 接上一句，把心里那句会没事补上去。
Which I know in my heart will be okay.
而我心里清楚，最终会没事的。
GrammarA2↩ 01:47
It's just that I'm
解释性转折：It's just that 用来补真正的原因，这里话没说完。
It's just that I'm --
只是我——
CollocationA2↩ 01:54
hang in there
hang in there
撑住、别放弃
well, you hang in there and you do what?
你得撑住，然后你做什么？
Pronunciation↩ 01:54
hang in there
hang in 连成 hang-in，in 很轻。
well, you hang in there and you do what?
你得撑住，然后你做什么？
CollocationB1↩ 01:57
trust the timing
trust the timing
相信时机到了就会好
Trust the timing .
相信时机。
Pronunciation↩ 01:57
Trust the timing
Trust 和 timing 都重，the 轻轻带过。
Trust the timing .
相信时机。
Teaching points
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PunB1↩ 00:13
at his best
处于最佳状态
In the scene奥利弗拿伴郎 best man 和 at his best 玩双关。
We need the team captain at her best tonight.今晚我们需要队长拿出最佳状态。
In daily life
赛前动员Get some sleep so you're at your best tomorrow.去睡一觉，明天才能处在最佳状态。
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IdiomA2↩ 01:54
hang in there
撑住、别放弃
In the scene奥利弗安慰又没怀上的丽塔，把口号问出来。
Hang in there. The lab results take a week.先撑着。化验结果要一周。
In daily life
安慰加班Hang in there, Friday is almost here.撑住，周五就快到了。
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IdiomB1↩ 01:57
trust the timing
相信时机自会到
In the scene丽塔又一次失望后，两人用这句当收口。
If the visa stalls, trust the timing and keep the paperwork ready.签证卡住了就相信时机，把材料先备好。
In daily life
劝人别催Stop refreshing the portal and trust the timing.别再刷新系统了，相信时机。
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CollocationB1↩ 00:45
in good taste
品味得体、大方
In the scene诺曼给伴郎礼物出主意，珍珠永远不俗。
A handwritten note is always in good taste.手写一张便条永远都得体。
In daily life
选伴手礼Plain tea tins are in good taste for a host gift.送主人素净的茶叶罐很得体。
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Phrasal verbA2↩ 00:05
take in
消化、接受消息
In the scene奥利弗知道买房加婚礼叠在一起，怕诺曼消化不了。
The new org chart is a lot to take in before Monday.新架构图要周一前消化完，信息量太大。
In daily life
听完诊断That diagnosis is a lot to take in.那个诊断一下子很难消化。
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IronyB1↩ 01:16
the three of you
暗示你们有了孩子
In the scene奥利弗用房子人数试探丽塔是不是怀上了。
Need a table for two, or should I set a high chair?两位的桌子，还是我再放把儿童椅？
In daily life
试探喜讯Should I book a room with a crib, just in case?要不要订带婴儿床的房，以防万一？
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VocabularyB1↩ 00:35
etiquette
礼仪、规矩
In the scene诺曼靠一本伴郎指南，把互赠礼物说成礼仪。
Office etiquette still says reply to the invite.职场礼仪仍是要回复邀请。
In daily life
提醒回请帖Wedding etiquette is to RSVP this week.婚礼礼仪是这周就要回复能否出席。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“It's basic wedding etiquette.”
这是基本的婚礼礼仪。
Why it's great
一本正经引用指南，把人情往来说成规矩。
Pattern
It's basic + 名词。
When to use
把某件事说成常识、不需要争的时候。
Similar
It's just common courtesy. ／ That's standard wedding etiquette.
Register
informal
Shadowing tip
basic 稍重，etiquette 四个音节咬清。
Use it yourself
提醒回礼It's basic dinner etiquette to thank the host.谢谢主人是基本的用餐礼仪。
“Trust the timing.”
相信时机。
Why it's great
三个词收束整场失望，像一句可反复用的口号。
Pattern
Trust the + 名词。
When to use
劝人别催结果、把等待说成信任时。
Similar
Give it time. ／ Everything happens when it's meant to.
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literary
Shadowing tip
Trust 和 timing 都重，中间 the 轻轻带过。
Use it yourself
安慰求职Trust the process. The right offer will show up.相信这个过程。对的offer会出现。
“Which I know in my heart will be okay.”
而我心里清楚，最终会没事的。
Why it's great
okay 绕了一圈，收在心里那句还是会好。
Pattern
Which I know in my heart + 从句。
When to use
嘴上乱、心里仍要给自己留一句底时。
Similar
Deep down I know it will be fine. ／ I know in my heart this will work out.
Register
informal
Shadowing tip
Which 轻轻接上，heart 和 okay 落下来。
Use it yourself
自我打气Which I know in my heart will pass.而我心里清楚，这关会过去。
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ 丽塔的没关系圈
It's okay. Actually, it's not okay, but the more I think about it not being okay, the more I think something is not okay. Which I know in my heart will be okay.
没关系。 其实，并不是没关系， 可我越想这件事有多不好， 就越觉得有什么不对劲。 而我心里清楚，最终会没事的。
okay 说三遍，从没事绕到心里终会没事。