“I know it's a pain in the arse, but it's a necessary pain in the arse.”
我知道这玩意儿烦死了,但不烦不行。
承认它讨厌,同时认定它躲不掉:不是用「为你好」来粉饰,而是把麻烦和必要放在同一句里。这种先共情再坚持的说法,比单纯下命令更容易被接受。
I know it's a ..., but it's a necessary ...
要求别人做一件确实烦人却必须做的事时用,先认同对方的感受再坚持立场。
It's a pain, but it has to be done. / Nobody likes it, and we still need it.
口语
a pain in the arse 重读,necessary 放慢强调,句尾略降。
I know it's a hassle, but it's a necessary hassle. 我知道这很麻烦,但这是必须的麻烦。
