通宵不睡
有人列举过去的美好时刻：旅行、通宵、看日出，语气像在翻旧照片，也为后面的“总觉得缺了什么”垫底。
So often in my life I've been with people and shared beautiful moments like traveling or staying up all night and watching the sunrise,Before Sunrise · 1995 — 第 19 / 21 章 · 3'20" · B2
清晨长谈后索吻：sick to death of
天亮时，两个人聊起过去的美好时刻：有人说总觉得身边缺了谁，另一个人却坦白最想躲开的是自己。一句 sick to death of（厌烦透顶）把自我厌倦说得很重，一句 get away from（逃离，躲开）把矛头指向自己。想聊孤独、亲密或自我怀疑，这两句够用。
发生了什么
清晨，两个人聊起过去的美好时刻：旅行、熬夜看日出，本该特别，却总觉得身边的人不懂自己，总希望身边是另一个人。可话锋一转，有人说和你在一起很开心。接着另一人坦白，自己通常最想躲开的是自己；人天天和自己待着，迟早会 sick to death of（对……厌烦透顶）。说话的人还自嘲会一遍遍讲 pseudo-intellectual（假装有深度的）故事，而和你相处让人像换了个人，跳舞、喝酒则是另一种 lose yourself（忘我，迷失自己）的方式。想聊孤独、亲密关系里的新鲜感，这些说法都用得上。
这场戏看什么
- 留意坦白越说越细，语气从轻到重
- 注意对方只回 Hmm? 时的停顿
- 看 To be kissed 前留了多久
留意这几个短语
stay up all nightrational, adult decisionget away fromsick to death of
00:00 / 03:20空格 播放 · ← → 换句 · R 单句循环
此刻
本章短语
sick to death of
对……厌烦透顶utterly fed up with
话题从“有人讨厌自己”推到原因：不是讨厌某件事，而是受够了总和自己待在一起；语气像把一句重话说成常识。
I'm sick to death of hearing that same excuse.那套同样的借口，我听得烦透了。
本章还有
- stay up all night
通宵不睡
- rational, adult decision
所谓理性的成人决定
- get away from
逃离，躲开
- have people over
请人来家里做客
- pseudo-intellectual
假装有深度的
本章全部批注
42 句台词里标了 30 处
up all 快说时连成一串，p 滑进 all 的元音。
So often in my life I've been with people and shared beautiful moments like traveling or staying up all night and watching the sunrise,和某人在一起很开心
But I'm happy to be with you.根本不可能知道
You couldn't possibly know why a night like this is so important to my life right now, but it is.对某人的生活很重要
You couldn't possibly know why a night like this is so important to my life right now, but it is.宾语从句：know 后面整个 why 从句作宾语；从句主语是 a night，谓语是 is。
You couldn't possibly know why a night like this is so important to my life right now, but it is.couldn't 的 t 在 p 前常被吞掉，重音落在 possibly。
You couldn't possibly know why a night like this is so important to my life right now, but it is.所谓理性的成人决定
上一句刚问“以后还会有这样的早晨吗”，期待两人继续下去；对方却搬出原先的“理性、成人决定”，用大人腔把这份期待按住。
- What? - What about our rational, adult decision?希望某人不在场
I know what you mean about wishing that somebody wasn't there though.逃离，躲开
对方刚说“有时希望身边那个人不在”，这句却把矛头转回自己：最想躲开的不是别人，而是自己。
It's just usually, it's myself that I wish I could get away from.强调句：It's ... that ... 把 myself 顶到焦点；还原是 I wish I could get away from myself。
It's just usually, it's myself that I wish I could get away from.定语从句：that 从句修饰 anywhere；字面悖论，意思是到哪儿都甩不掉自己。
I have never been anywhere that I haven't been.参与亲吻的人之一
I've never, uh, had a kiss when I wasn't one of the kissers.去电影院看电影
You know, I've never, um, gone to the movies when I wasn't there in the audience.开个愚蠢的玩笑
I never been out bowling if I wasn't there, you know, makin' some stupid joke.对……厌烦透顶
话题从“有人讨厌自己”推到原因：不是讨厌某件事，而是受够了总和自己待在一起；语气像把一句重话说成常识。
It's just that they are sick to death of being around themselves.总跟某人待在一起 不是站在周围，是和自己相处。
It's just that they are sick to death of being around themselves.death of 快说时 of 只剩轻弱的一拍，别拆开听。
It's just that they are sick to death of being around themselves.请人来家里做客
有人设想两人天天在一起后的场景：每次家里请客，自己就会没安全感，还会喝多；这是把亲密关系的日常摩擦提前演一遍。
and the way, uh — the way every time that we would have people over, uh,would 轻读，have 要留住，别并成一个词
and the way, uh — the way every time that we would have people over, uh,喝得有点过头
I'd be insecure and I'd get a little too drunk.get a 快说时 t 弹一下滑进 a，little 的 t 也轻。
I'd be insecure and I'd get a little too drunk.假装高深的故事
Or, uh, the way I tell the same stupid, pseudo-intellectual story again and again.动名词主语：being with you 是下句 has made 的主语，口语停顿后谓语才出现。
being with you, uh,让某人觉得像……
has made me feel like I was somebody else.忘我，迷失自己
前面说和对方在一起像变成另一个人，这里补一句：要那样“丢掉自己”，别的办法只有跳舞、酒、毒品之类。
And the only other way to lose yourself like that is, um,做某事的唯一替代办法 不是“唯一办法”，是除已说过的之外唯一别的办法。
And the only other way to lose yourself like that is, um,不定式定语：to lose yourself like that 修饰 way；is 后面才列出具体办法。
And the only other way to lose yourself like that is, um,以及诸如此类的东西
drugs and stuff like that.性事；粗俗词——成人私下才会用；工作、正式场合绝对别用。
Fucking?看懂「清晨长谈后索吻」
发音重点
- up all night — up all 快说时连成一串，p 滑进 all 的元音。
- couldn't possibly — couldn't 的 t 在 p 前常被吞掉，重音落在 possibly。
- death of — death of 快说时 of 只剩轻弱的一拍，别拆开听。
- would have — would 轻读，have 要留住，别并成一个词
But I'm happy to be with you.但和你在一起，我很开心。 前面铺满遗憾，这一句忽然把心意说白，短而稳。
I have never been anywhere that I haven't been.我从没去过任何自己不在的地方。 用绕口的重复说出逃不开自己的悖论，冷幽默又准。
It's just that they are sick to death of being around themselves.只是他们受够了总跟自己待在一起。 把自我厌恶翻译成一句大白话，sick to death of 很狠。
It's just usually, it's myself that I wish I could get away from.只是通常，我想躲开的人是我自己。 把矛头从别人转回自己，it's myself 的强调很扎心。
I think that's why so many people hate themselves. Seriously.我想这就是那么多人讨厌自己的原因。说真的。 一句把自我厌恶从私事说成普遍现象，Seriously 又钉了一下。
关于这一章的问题
sick to death of 是什么意思？
意思是「对……厌烦透顶」。台词里有人用它解释人为什么恨自己：天天和自己待在一起，久了就受够了自己。
「逃离，躲开」英语怎么说？
说 get away from。台词里有一句 It's myself that I wish I could get away from，意思是想躲开的其实是自己。
「请人来家里做客」用英语怎么讲？
用 have people over。台词里设想两个人总在一起，每次 have people over，说话的人就会没安全感，还会喝得有点多。
lose yourself 在这里指什么？
指忘我地沉浸其中，暂时不像平时的自己。台词说和你在一起让人像另一个人，而跳舞、喝酒、毒品是另一种让人 lose yourself 的方式。
rational, adult decision 是什么意思？
意思是「所谓理性的成人决定」。台词就在问完还能不能有这样的早晨后，用这句把话题拉回两人说好的决定。
爱在黎明破晓前 · 共 21 章
全部章节 →
下一章 · 第 20 章sleep together深夜谈要不要上床
第 1 章weeks on end火车上聊英语和行程
第 2 章the poetry of day-to-day life两人聊连播一年的节目
第 3 章passive-aggressive火车上聊童年与死亡
第 4 章a bad liar街头聊蜜月和看戏
第 5 章scare the hell out of someone问答游戏互问情史
第 6 章piss someone off火车上互问最烦的事
第 7 章romantic projections聊父母与爱情
第 8 章resign yourself to街头看手相被吐槽
第 9 章dress rehearsal教堂里聊生死与贵格会婚礼
第 10 章blank canvas下火车后互相挑刺
第 11 章make a deal with街头换词写诗
第 12 章a real prizewinner追问前任聊到心理医生
第 13 章let it sink in坦白马德里失恋
第 14 章fool around拿猴子吵男女之争
第 15 章fear of commitment分娩舞聊到爱与事业
第 16 章fall for someone假电话里坦白心动
第 17 章be a ghost假装打电话讲欧洲邂逅
第 18 章fizzle out约定只过今晚
正在看 · 第 19 章sick to death of清晨长谈后索吻
第 20 章sleep together深夜谈要不要上床
第 21 章have a great life站台告别改约半年看到第 19 / 21 章 · 后面还有约 5 分钟