A Star Is Born · 2018 — 第 10 / 13 章 · 2'23" · B2

Jackson and Ally's Drunken Fight, Explained:put someone down

What starts as good news — three Grammy nominations — turns into a fight about who loves whom and who needs the world's approval. "Why can't I just be enough for you?" one of them asks, while the other says she just wants her husband to love her. It ends with someone being told to get out.

あらすじ

After Bobby calls with Grammy news and talk of a Roy Orbison tribute, Jackson and Ally retreat to a room that turns into a battlefield. Drunk and needling each other, they argue about approval, jealousy and who is failing whom. The night ends with a door and two words: get out.

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このシーンの表現

put someone down

to belittle someone

Ally tells Jack that his insults are a way of making himself feel better.

Stop putting your teammates down in front of everyone.

このシーンの他の表現

  • fucking

    a crude intensifier

  • figure something out

    to work something out

  • the point is

    the main thing is

  • be enough for someone

    to be sufficient for someone

  • give you the answer

    that will tell you why

このシーンのメモ一覧

58 行のセリフに 23 件のメモ

表現 · B1be nominated for something

put forward for an award

You're nominated for three Grammys, and it's fucking great.
表現 · A2find something out

to discover a fact

Thank you. How did you find that out?
発音find that out

The d in find is swallowed before that.

Thank you. How did you find that out?
表現 · B1the point is (that) ...

the main thing is

Ally pulls the drifting talk back to the Grammy nomination with the point is.

But the point is, you got nominated, and it's great.
表現 · B1figure something out

to work something out

Jack mumbles that he is still figuring it out, dodging the real topic.

I'm just trying to figure it out, that's all.
表現 · B1come around someone

to hover around someone

"Why do you come around me with an ass like that?"
発音come around me

Link come around me into one smooth run.

"Why do you come around me with an ass like that?"
表現 · A2keep doing something

to go on drinking

Yeah, just keep drinking.
表現 · B1fail someone

to let someone down

Maybe I just fucking failed you.
表現 · B1put someone down

to belittle someone

Ally tells Jack that his insults are a way of making himself feel better.

And you know what you're doing is you're so embarrassed of your fucking self that you gotta put me down.
文法 · B2what you're doing is

subject clause: A whole clause works as the subject, turning the action into a nameable thing.

And you know what you're doing is you're so embarrassed of your fucking self that you gotta put me down.
スラング · B1gotta

have got to, in speech — A spoken contraction; keep it out of writing.

And you know what you're doing is you're so embarrassed of your fucking self that you gotta put me down.
表現 · B1be enough for someone

to be sufficient for someone

Jack finally asks the wounding question of whether he is enough for her.

Why can't I just be enough for you?
文法 · B1Why can't I

wh-question: Why can't fuses a question with a negation to voice hurt, not to ask for facts.

Why can't I just be enough for you?
発音can't I just

Blend can't I together, then soften just.

Why can't I just be enough for you?
表現 · B1need approval

to need others' approval

I don't need approval.
表現 · B1treat someone like something

to treat someone as

You're my boyfriend if you don't treat me like your wife.
文法 · B1if you don't treat me

if-clause: The if-clause sets the condition; the main clause delivers the verdict.

You're my boyfriend if you don't treat me like your wife.
表現 · B2clean something up

to tidy something up

It means clean your shit up. You're fucking messy.
スラング · B2shit

stuff, crudely — Crude for stuff; informal only.

It means clean your shit up. You're fucking messy.
表現 · B1drinking buddy

a companion for drinking

Let's go. You wanna be my drinking buddy?
表現 · B2be over the line

beyond what is acceptable

That's over the fucking line.
スラング · B2the fuck

crude emphasis in a command — Crude and hostile; never in polite company.

Get the fuck out.

「Jackson and Ally's Drunken Fight」を読み解く

What's really going on

The Grammy nomination is the wedge. One of them is rising, the other is drinking, and the fight keeps sliding from the actual news to the older wound underneath. "Why can't I just be enough for you?" is the question the whole marriage has been circling: success, applause and the approval of strangers have crowded out the person at home. The answer comes back just as raw, "You know what I'd like is for my boyfriend to love me" — and then, correcting herself, "for my husband to love me." Neither is really arguing about the tribute or the drinking now; they are arguing about whether they still matter to each other. The insults at the end are less a verdict than a way to end a conversation neither can win.

Theme

MarriageThe couple fight about approval and love in a marriage already fraying under fame and drinking.
HeartbreakTwo people who love each other spend the night wounding each other, and it ends with one thrown out of the room.

このチャプターで学べること

  • The plea be enough for you carries the whole fight
  • Figure something out means to work it out slowly
  • Put someone down is to belittle them
  • Keep doing something pushes an action onward

発音のポイント

  • find that out — The d in find is swallowed before that.
  • come around me — Link come around me into one smooth run.
  • can't I just — Blend can't I together, then soften just.
Why can't I just be enough for you?

One of them asks why their love at home isn't enough for the other, who keeps chasing the approval of crowds, strangers and everyone but the person beside them.

You're my boyfriend if you don't treat me like your wife.

She draws a line: she will be his partner only if he stops treating her like a wife he can manage, correct and criticize.

And you know what you're doing is you're so embarrassed of your fucking self that you gotta put me down.

The accusation that the other's cruelty is really shame turned outward: they tear their partner down so they can feel better about themselves.

You know what I'd like is for my boyfriend to love me.

The simplest wish underneath the whole fight: not respect, not success, just to be loved by the person she married.

このシーンについての質問

Why are Jackson and Ally fighting right after the Grammy news?

The good news only sharpens the gap between them. Ally's career is taking off while Jackson is drinking, and the nomination becomes a way to talk about jealousy, approval and who is failing whom.

Who is the 'boyfriend' Ally says she wants to love her?

Jackson — her husband. She phrases it as 'my boyfriend' and then corrects herself to 'my husband,' which is the point: she wants a partner, not a role that comes with conditions.

What does 'put me down' mean here?

It means to insult or belittle someone. The accusation is that one of them feels so bad about themselves that they have to lower the other person in order to feel better.

What does the Roy Orbison tribute have to do with the fight?

Almost nothing — it's just the news that starts the conversation. Bobby has called about a tribute, but that plan is only the small talk, and the talk quickly turns into the couple's real grievance.

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